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18 month old has stopped walking

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saraha321 · 13/08/2015 20:57

Hi
I'm new to these type of forums but I really need some help/advice. My 18 month old has been walking for a good couple of months quite happily then 2 weeks ago she just stopped and hasn't walked since. She will pull herself up on furniture but won't stand there for long before going down on her hands and knees. When I go to stand her on the floor she tucks up her feet and knees.
She has been off her food and very clingy and crying a lot at night. At times, mainly first thing in the morning and last thing at night she doesn't want to be touched or picked up and will just lay on her back.
We've been to both the doctors and hospital and been told that she's probably just going through a phase or that its a knock on effect from a cold she had a month ago. I don't agree. There is something wrong. When I go to bath her she won't sit up and screams the house down. She is also refusing to sit in her highchair.
Am I over-reacting? What could be wrong? Who should I speak to? We've had x rays done on her pelvis and they've come back fine.
Any help would be greatly appreciated
Thanks

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Densqest · 03/02/2017 20:59

Sarah forgive the intrusion, my friend has come across this post you put on 18 months ago, regarding your child not walking. It sounds identical to her son. She is desperate for help and after 4 weeks of not walking and trying to get Drs to listen they are doing an MRI tomorrow. Could I ask how things went with your daughter and what was the reason for her not walking in the end? Thank you for any help or advice, it's such a worrying time. Denise xXx

bekawalker7 · 07/08/2018 21:03

I came across this post, years after it was originally on the forum, and it helped me get my son correctly diagnosed, after 4 weeks of not walking, and incorrect diagnosis(s). So, I thought I would post on here in case there is another desperate mom out there looking for answers and direction.

My son was 17 months old and had been walking and running for 4 months, when all of a sudden one Saturday morning he refused to walk. That Sunday we took him to the ER where they did xrays of his legs and hips to check for a fracture and diagnosed him with toxic synovitis. We were told it could take two weeks before he would be back to normal. Two weeks later he was rarely walking and when he did he looked terribly stiff and walked like an old man that had thrown his back out. We saw his pediatrician, she ordered blood work and more xrays of his hips and legs. Nothing came back unusual. She ordered an ultrasound of his hip to check for fluid, no fluid on the hip. She recommended we wait another week (meaning he would have not been walking for a full 4 weeks). We declined and requested a referral to an orthopedic pediatrician. Then I come across this post and voila, this post in conjunction with some of the “scholarly articles’ I found on google made it seem like a no brainer- my son had Discitis.

The orthopedic ped. Originally was just planning on taking more xrays of the hips and legs and recommending physical therapy, and my husband and I asked him to please xray his spine also, because that had not been looked at- THANK GOODNESS HE LISTENED. The xray came back showing something was not right, we had an urgent MRI, and sure enough, it was discitis. Unfortunately for my son though, the infection had already traveled to his vertebrae, so now it is discitis and osteomyelitis. We were immediately admitted to the hospital for IV antibiotics.

My son has NEVER had an infection prior to this. We have no idea what type of bacteria is causing the infection and we are having to play a guessing game in order to treat it.

So things I would recommend you look out for- He would crawl constantly, but we did have to have him on motrin for pain. He did start to lose his appetite and got constipated starting around week 2 of not walking, pre-diagnosis. I put all of this in here so you have an idea what to look for. Discitis DOES NOT SHOW UP IN BLOOD TESTS. His white blood cell count, CRP and SED were all normal when his pedestrian checked at the 2-week mark. Discitis usually does not show up on xrays, I believe since it spread to the bone, that is why it showed up. But WE SHOULD HAVE asked for the back xray sooner, what if it had shown up and that would have helped us get him diagnosed weeks sooner!!!

I hope this can help someone get their child properly diagnosed in a timely manner. Had my husband not been insistent that it was in my sons back we probably would still be twiddling our thumbs looking for an answer. Trust your instincts and advocate for your child. Even if that means pushing for them to have an MRI under anesthesia, that is way better than letting the infection spread.

amaretto83 · 11/03/2019 12:29

Hi, my daughter has been diagnosed with discitis and has now almost completed 1 week of IV antibiotics. There has so far been some improvement in her mobility (symptoms identical to OP and recent posters) but she's still not walking just yet. Please could I ask how long it took for your children to regain their ability to walk? Hoping some of you still on Mumsnet! 🤞🏻

Su5677 · 10/06/2023 21:28

Hello! I understand this thread is years old but it helped me get my daughter diagnosed with Discitis today. Trying to keep a long story short, I stumbled across this thread as I was frantically googling for answers about toddlers who stop walking. I visited our local a+e after noticing our daughter had become somewhat uncomfortable, the doctors decided she was constipated and we were sent home with some movicol to help. She was still miserable, just wanting to lie on her back, crying a lot more than usual. As soon as I read this thread we rushed her to a&e and told them she had discitis and that she needed bloods and a MRI. My little girl has identical symptoms/behaviours to the child refereed to in this post. Of course they did not agree and several doctors actually dismissed the discitis theory altogether, though they did agree something wasn’t right. She had bloods done which confirmed she had a infection somewhere. We then met a consultant who actually agreed it could quite be Discitis! MRI was done under GA and results were in shortly after confirming…Discitis!! Anyway I just wanted to thank the Mum who posted this thread and everyone who left comments about their experiences.

Abeere · 09/10/2023 03:57

Hi everyone
First of all, thanks for all your messages! They made me feel I'm still sane!
We think my daughter had covid 4 weeks ago. My husband and I tested positive and she had fever for 2 days and was ill at the same time so we are thinking probably covid.
I am taking my baby to a&e for the 5th time in 3 weeks tomorrow but I am just hoping to get some answers.
She is 16 months old and started walking about 3 months ago. Very active baby! However in the past 3 weeks she started limping so we took her to a&e and they said its irritable hip and should be gone in 5-10 days. Went back again 5 days later as her symptoms worsen. Paediatrician asked for X-rays and they were normal. 5 days later she seemed like shes not improving and nursery said she was standing up and shaking. We went again to a&e and they took blood tests (not sure what they were, however, they said they didn't do the ESR), and x-rays and ultrasound of her hips and all came back normal. They said she is constipated and gave us sachets for that. I left the hospital thinking surely constipation doesn't cause this much pain? I thought its almost laughable to be honest. Our daughter is still in pain, limping and struggling to stand up. She's been preferring to crawl. Her body seems stiff! Refusing to sit in her high chair and carseat and suddenly screams the house down when in the bath. In the past week I've been showering her with me while holding her up.
My husband is thinking to wait for a week (follow the paediatrician advice!) and thinks I'm exaggerating but I'm just worrying so much I'm feeling sick. I am worried it would be cancer in the bone marrow but other than the fact she is in pain limping, she is happy when on painkillers and ibprufen and still eating well and seems alert!
I am so worried been not sleeping for weeks just thinking I'm not doing enough for my baby and I know there is something not right!

Having read this post, it does sound like discitis and will follow you advice! We are taking her to a&e tomorrow again but just looking for some reassurance especially from the ones who already experienced something similar. Any advice would be much appreciated too!

Su5677 · 09/10/2023 09:58

Hi @Abeere so sorry to hear about your daughter. It sounds very similar to what we experienced with ours. We demanded an MRI and told the staff we would come back everyday till she had one. I’m sure it’s the only way dicitis can be detected. What were the results from the blood test? (My daughters CRP levels were raised which indicated an infection in her body). We were told it was constipation too but in fact the constipation was a direct result of the dicitis! My advice would be not to wait around with this, our daughters disc was severely damaged from the delay. She had 8 weeks of anti-biotics and she is a very active happy child now however she is under another hospital for a year for regular x-rays now, there was barely anything left of the disc and they said she could be physically impaired in the future. Good luck and feel free to write back or pm me with any questions. I hope your daughter gets the help she needs.

Abeere · 09/10/2023 11:34

Thank you so much for getting back to me. I am in a&e now.
her CRP is 6 which is slightly elevated. I already asked for MRI cause it coud be discitis anf she laughed it off! She said there's nothing else they can do in the paed department and she is talking now to orthopaedic to ask for advice. My baby is now refusing to completely stand or even sit. Shes in very clear agony. I will follow your advice and keep demanding MRI.
the doctors just said to keep her in hospital for 24 hours to observe.
can i just ask after how many weeka your little one had the MRI?

i am so sorry you had to go through this! It is awful and glad your daughter is better now! And hopefully since she is closely monitored that it wont affect her in the future.
thanks alot really appreciated.

Bekawalker · 09/10/2023 12:23

Greetings from Texas. I posted back in 2018 when my son stopped walking. Please ask for a full spin X-ray and an X-ray of the legs. The full spine X-ray is what finally helped our doctors see that something was not right and call for the MRI. Do not be afraid to advocate for your child and request additional tests for X-rays! I specifically asked for spring X-ray after finding this online thread and am so so thankful I did! Best of luck, I know how stressful this is!!

Abeere · 10/10/2023 16:28

@Bekawalker thank you so much for your encouraging words!! We juat found out that it is indeed discitis!!
i am so glad i listened to all of your stories and followed your advice!
thank you so much..

Abeere · 10/10/2023 16:37

if it wasnt for the amazing mums/dads on this thread , my daughter wouldve been left out without the appropriate care! I did demand an MRI for her spine and said to the doctors that it is Discitis!
They didnt think there was anything wrong with her spine but i said i wont let her go through the general sedation without scanning her spine! And they agreed.
I do have to say that, to be honest, the doctors have been listening! Its just took a bit more convincing! They knew my daughter had something more than an irritable hip and kept us in the hospital over night. They then asked for an emergency MRI this morning and added the spine in the last minute! They did think it could be bone marrow cancer but the blood tests never showed anything abnormal.
the doctor just came to say thanks for pointing them in the right direction! But i do have to say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU to all the mums for encouraging me to advocate for my daughter.
We will be staying in the hospital now for a while for the intravenous antibiotics. We are also waiting to hear back from GOSH about the course of treatment.
and finally, my husband now believes me and thinks i wasn't exaggerating...he also thinks now that i am a great mother and apologised...
please follow your instincts and what other parents say and dont be scared in requesting what you need to be done with your children from the doctors.

thanks again and i now hope my daughter will have a good recovery.

Abeere · 10/10/2023 16:53

@Bekawalker i realise this post is from years ago! I just realised you replied to one of my earlier messages!
thank you so much for this! Im soooo glad did follow your advice and my daughter now has a discitis diagnosis!!
we believe it started with my daughter 3 weeks ago but it seems it has already spread. I just wanted to ask how your son is now? Did it damage anything for him? I do hope he recovered fully!

also, the doctors are just asking if we have a pet at home which, in some research it says, it could be a reason! We have an outdoor cat. Do you or did you have any pets back then?

thanks again xx

Bekawalker · 10/10/2023 17:37

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Abeere · 10/10/2023 18:01

@Bekawalker thank you so much for your quick response! I really appreciate it :)

Im glad your son is completely recovered now! and that he just got on with his life normally! What a relieve!

im hoping my daughter will be ok. They said its still early stages which is good - not sure this is true though!

so the doctors are currently trying to figure out what the bacteria causing it is so they can give the most suitable antibiotics. They said it would be impossible to get a biopsy, its too risky as its close to the spinal cord and they dont normally do this with toddlers. Then they said they are not too sure they will get any indications through the culture of the blood samples. Do you remember if you had to do this?

they are wondering if we should leave my daughter without meds for 24 hours so the fever will come up and the the bacteria will show more in the blood? They are not sure it will show more though. They are trying to decide what best antibiotic to give...they currently gave one dose for the bacteria which could be the cause of it the most...so theyre guessing really - which is unsettling..

as for the cat! This is interesting! My daughter doesnt get in contact with him much but we did catch her eating some of his food once! The doctors said theyre not too sure if this would be the reason though.

thanks so much for sending your email! I think i might be sending you more questions! I already told the doctors about you and your son and how your journey and other mums journeys helped us get a diagnosis today! :p

thanks again, i really appreciate it.

Bekawalker · 10/10/2023 18:30

We played “antibiotic roulette” also. Over the course of two weeks we tried 3 or 4 antibiotics before they landed on vancomycin- which is a very very strong broad spectrum antibiotic. It must be administered via iv- it isn’t one you can take orally for discitis. It is strong and they usually run labs twice a week to make sure the kidney and liver are handling it okay (my son handled it fine, they just like to monitor it). I would ask your doctor about starting your daughter on a good probiotic- these antibiotics can really cause havoc on their digestive track.

we did do a bone biopsy while my son was under anesthesia for an MRI to see if we could figure out what type of bacteria was causing the infection but unfortunately it did not yield any answers (we were warned that was a possibility but tried it anyways).
Any questions I can answer I am happy to try- but it sounds like you and the doctors are all on the right track!

Su5677 · 10/10/2023 21:45

@Abeere I am so relieved! Well done to you- super mum!! I hope your daughter makes a speedy recovery. Ours had IV antibiotics for 7 days and then 6 weeks of oral. She was back to her happy self after a couple of weeks and started walking again a bit later! So glad she’s finally getting the help from doctors she needs. Take care Xx

Abeere · 12/10/2023 15:46

@Bekawalker thanks for this!
they have now decided to give her IV antibiotic which is given once a day for 6 weeks. They have been giving it through a cannula but its been a nightmare to find her veins...they tried it already 4 times! Now they will put a picc line tomorrow morning. Sounds exactly like the treatment your son had.
they also spoke to the children's hospital and now they all agreed that it is too risky and tricky to take a biopsy and same as you, they said it might not confirm the bacteria type anyway.
they have also been testing for tuberculosis, HIV, and Procella. Everything is coming back normal so far. They said discitis is so rare and such a strong infection and they are wondering if my daughter's immune system has been compromised so she caught the infection....
it is just so stressful.

thanks again xx

Abeere · 12/10/2023 15:50

@Su5677 thanks so much fir getting back to me! And im glad your daughter is now well :)
unfortunately they said my daughter needs the strongest antibiotics to ensure it works effectively and this is only intravenous.

can i ask if you based in the UK please? I already spoke to them about physiotherapy as @Bekawalker mentioned this was done for her son. They said since shes only 16 months, she will most probably recover fine and wont need any. I am just worried it would affect her walking.

thanks again really appreciate it x

Su5677 · 12/10/2023 15:56

Hi @Abeere. We’re UK based. She was offered physiotherapy and we went to a couple but she was recovering well and didn’t need to go anymore. She started learning to walk again after 3/4 weeks. I think she was most likely scared to get back on her feet! She runs around like crazy now and posture is perfect.

Abeere · 12/10/2023 16:08

@Su5677 thanks so much for your quick response! This is great to hear! Im glad she is running everywhere now :)
i will make sure to keep mentioning physiotherapy.
thanks a lot x

Abeere · 20/10/2023 22:31

Hi again,
So we started with the intravenous antibiotics course for our daughter 10 days ago which lasted for 3 days because the cannula kept coming out. 6 doctors tried ro put it back in different places with no success. They then suggested intramuscular antibiotics in the while we wait for our daughter to be seen for a PICC line. We did that for another 6 days and still waiting for the PICC line. We are now referred to the Royal London Hospital or GOSH for the PICC line, however we are on the waiting list despite our daughter being a priority!

Because the intramuscular is too painful and harsh on the body, they now suggested oral antibiotics. Shes been taking them for 3 days.

I am just SO CONCERNED that this is not the best course of treatment for her and that she needs the intravenous antibiotics. But the doctors keep reassuring us that its only a "bridging gap" while we wait for the PICC line operation. It just doesnt make sense! Our daughter has got a very rare condition and they are taking things really slow!!! I am really really worried to wait any longer!

They did another MRI scan yesterday and it showed that the infection is reducing. However, it is still there and the doctors still think she should receive the antibiotics intravenously!

They are hoping we will 'hear' from the Royal London hospital on Mon/Tues to insert the PICC line but im not too sure if we should wait!

We looked into doing it privately and it seems it costs £1000!

Any suggestions or advice would be much appreciated!

Thank you

Bekawalker · 21/10/2023 14:32

We had to have a PiCC line for our son and it was a huge blessing. Way way less painful for him than the IV that we had to keep redoing. And that was the only way we could administer the antibiotics he needed- vancomycin is not one you can take orally for a spine infection. You definitely need a picc line (just my opinion), but it took us two weeks before we were able to get the picc line bc they tried other less harsh antibiotics first. I only tell you that to tell you, you have a LITTLE time. I would absolutely keep bugging and begging for the PiCC but hopefully you will be able to get that this Monday or Tuesday!!! It is such a quick and simply procedure, I can’t believe it is taking so long for your daughter to get one. Hugs and prayers momma! You are doing everything right! Just keep advocating!!!

Abeere · 30/10/2023 13:48

@Bekawalker thanks so much for your reply! We kept pushing for the PICC line and even started looking for options privately. The consultant advised not to go down this route. Its a bit dodgy apparently! NHS hospitals are best for babies here in the UK.
Our hospital transferred us to another hospital after 15 days of waiting to get a midline. Basically it works like the PICC line but it does not reach the heart. They prefer it as there is less infection risk. It lasts for up to 4 weeks so hoping it will stay in!
we are now back home and our daughter is showing improvement already! She just has to stay at home for 6 weeks of the intravenous antibiotics and today we have a nurse coming to our house to do it.

THANK YOU SO MUCH again for your support and advice and to all the mums on this thread! Really appreciate it xx

Bekawalker · 30/10/2023 15:32

That is wonderful news!!!! I am so glad she is showing improvements- I know what a HUGE relief that is!! You all are in our prayers, you are doing an amazing job advocating for your daughter and guiding her through this whole thing!!

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