My dd (age 4) has a weekly playdate with her best friend (age 4). Her friend is dropped after school and has tea with us but is a very fussy eater (I get the feeling she is used to using food as a way to get attention at home). Today my dd and ds (age 15 months) both finished all their food so had a small packet of sweets each after supper. But we have a rule in our house that if you don't eat your meal then you get nothing afterwards (my dd was a poor eater so we had to bring in food rules). Today my dd and ds (age 15 months) both finished all their food so had a small packet of sweets each after supper - but, having reminded her friend of the rule and given her plenty of opportunity to eat her tea, she ate nothing - so she wasn't allowed any sweets.
Just wondered what you think/what would you have done ?