DD is very shy and won't speak unless spoken to and even then it is one word answers with people she doesn't know or in a group situation.
Yesterday she came out of nursery head down, not saying a word and quite subdued, when I lifted her to put her in the car she was wet, said she did it whils watching telly. So I think ok one accident fine.
Today she was there all day and have just picked her up again to put in car and she is soaking, skirt, socks, polo shirt, cardigan. She said she had two wees, one whilst washing her spoon and one while playing fishing game. I've not a clue whether that would have been this morning or afternoon but whichever way she has been like it since at least lunch time if she was washing her spoon. Poor little thing.
How can I encourage her to ask even if they are supposed to be sitting listening etc.
Really concerned about her shyness, think its going to hold her back sooo much.
She is happy, lively, talkative at home but the minute she is in group situation she clams up and just looks at you as if you don't exist.