My dd is 20 mo, and is generally quite a chilled out little girl, in as far as a toddler can be anyway. But for some reason she just has a major issue with toothbrushing. She's never liked it but will go through phases of being a bit more accepting of it. Right now we're in the clamping mouth shut, going bright red and getting really upset phase - the only time I can get the brush in her mouth is when she's screaming and crying her eyes out. I feel like an awful mum but I just don't know what's worse - getting her in that state every day or not brushing her teeth! In reality, even when we get to that point, it's not a great brushing effort as she's thrashing her head around!!
I think we're all a bit traumatised by it. I've read one opinion that says don't turn it into a battle, but what's the alternative? Rotten teeth?!
We've tried lots of different things, brushing them in the bath, on our laps, giving her a second brush to play with, distracting her...all ends the same way. I'd just love to know your opinions on what to do. Thanks!