My 4 month old often cries her lungs out when picked up by Grandma and other family members. Is constantly looking for me. This is making visiting v stressful and I'm paranoid she's developing into a shy, anti-social little girl! She is just as bad with strangers & friends she has seen only a handful of times. She is often inconsolable even when handed back to me. Am dreading her Christening. Has anyone else experienced this - will she grow out of it? My hysband assures me she will! Should I cut her some slack as she is still very young or am I right to be panicking?