naughty or bored? had enough!!!

[brightstar1]

I've posted before about my ds2(6) yr 2.V. bright, being V.silly at school, mostly carpet time it seems. starting to be rude to the teacher now. Have seen the teacher today,because after a V.good spell has taken a back step again.she has to keep sending him out of the classroom.I've really had enough now and dont know what to do.please help!!!!!!!11

I know but it seems to have worked seeing as everyone in the class is now working so much better and the parents are taking more of an interest in their kids education.

FFS never heard the like!!

How many kids do you think got a good going over because the teacher wanted to shake the parents up?

Brightstar

I can fully sympathise.My DS is doing exactly the same and I think it's affected me worse than him.

I hope that it settles down.He is due an observation for behavioural issues.

I know. There were 8 parents apart from me that have grounded, taken toys away and even smacked over this. I have to admit that we went mental and took dd's tv, dvd, stereo etc.. until her report was better and it really gave her a kick up the backside.

must admit,the more people i talk to the more i think i've been too hard on ds.If he's playing up because he is bored then that is for the teacher to deal with, not a 6yr old. some alarm beels are ringing now: went to ds1s yr5 parents eve, was told that he doesn't stop talking! have never had this with ds1, he denied it. when i said that " his dads going to go mad" she replied "good i hope he does"!!!!.how does she know that my husband wasn't going to beat him sensless? Are the teachers playing mind games?

Ds came home yesterday, told me he had to stay in playtime and fill out an incident report(what he has done ,how he thinks he can improve etc.)when asked what had happened he said:class taken to computer suite,his group set work,ds had already finished said work.he was left on carpet he said for ages,started rolling around.Teacher asked, was he bored? Eventually gave him some work to do,after they got back to class and into playground he was then punished! i think she was asking for trouble,and ds was unfairly chastised. what do you think?

Yes emob, sounds V.unfair, would go and ask teacher for her side.
Have sorted out a few things with Ds teacher. she has recognised that he gets bored V easily.allows him to sit at his own desk when he feels he needs to,which he loves,(have seen the position and more than happy),gets 3 times as much work done than the rest of the class,(she noticed the other children were still trying to distract him when at his own desk! giving him more jobs to do at carpet time and he is allowed to get on with his work if he already knows what to do. great!! he has been much happier.