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Full name for Rory?

58 replies

achino · Yesterday 07:25

I have always loved the name Rory for a girl but it is traditionally a nickname. Aurora is my first choice for a full name, but my husband doesn’t like it, but I think he could be convinced. And the name Lorelei is too Gilmore girls coded in my opinion. Any other full name suggestions for the nickname Rory?

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HugoThatway · Yesterday 10:42

Roderica, Roriana or Roriella

I don't like Rory for a girl. Aurora doesn't sound nice. Lorelei is to frilly and sounds like Laurel Eye.

How about Lori instead?

Regulus · Yesterday 11:58

sittingonabeach · Yesterday 09:13

But the child may change it.

But that is true whatever they are called.

BarbaraUsher · Yesterday 12:18

It never works the other way round. Some people are happy to give a girl a traditionally boys name but we don’t see any boys called Sarah or Jemima or Lucy! It’s a double standard that reinforces the idea that masculine is an upgrade and feminine is a downgrade. That’s hardly feminist and it makes me angry that girls are demeaned again.

tartyflette · Yesterday 12:22

Rory is a great name - for a boy.
Don’t do that to her.

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:24

Theodora, Rosemary, Romilly

I think Aurora is the most natural choice but I’m with your husband that it’s not a great name.

I think Rory is also fine as a standalone name.

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:24

There's a (male) jockey called Ruby.
His real name is Rupert.

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:25

tartyflette · Yesterday 12:22

Rory is a great name - for a boy.
Don’t do that to her.

Hard disagree that it’s only a boys name. I know several little girl Rorys.

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:29

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:25

Hard disagree that it’s only a boys name. I know several little girl Rorys.

@PancakeCloud ,it's the 24th most popular name for boys, 1603rd for girls.
1588 boys registered in 2024, 19 girls.

TheBirdintheCave · Yesterday 12:33

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:25

Hard disagree that it’s only a boys name. I know several little girl Rorys.

It means ‘red king’ though. It’s not a name traditionally given to girls in Ireland. Using a boy name on a girl doesn’t make it a girl name.

OP, I think Aurora is your only option if you want Rory as a diminutive that makes sense.

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:35

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:29

@PancakeCloud ,it's the 24th most popular name for boys, 1603rd for girls.
1588 boys registered in 2024, 19 girls.

But girls are usually Auroras or Leonoras I think, but get called Rory so the rankings don’t fully convey the scale of girl Rorys.

ButtercupYellow26 · Yesterday 12:37

Rowena?

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:46

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:35

But girls are usually Auroras or Leonoras I think, but get called Rory so the rankings don’t fully convey the scale of girl Rorys.

It's still a boy's name.

tartyflette · Yesterday 12:48

People who love the idea of giving their baby girls a boy’s name because they think it’s “cool’ or cute should perhaps be aware that this is just a trend, and like all trends will eventually fall out of fashion with a bang and forever date little girls named James or similar to the early 21st century, much like the Samantha’s and Cheryl’s which are inextricably linked with the 60s.
And are thus no longer considered cool or cute. Sadly.
Names do fall out of fashion and become lesser, déclassé or even ridiculed. Some may make a recovery but it’s not guaranteed.
Classic names exist for a reason.

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:57

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:35

But girls are usually Auroras or Leonoras I think, but get called Rory so the rankings don’t fully convey the scale of girl Rorys.

If I posted that Ruby was a boy's name mainly and that the figures said otherwise because they were registered as Reuben, Rubin or Rupert, would you say Ruby was an acceptable name for a boy?

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 13:10

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:57

If I posted that Ruby was a boy's name mainly and that the figures said otherwise because they were registered as Reuben, Rubin or Rupert, would you say Ruby was an acceptable name for a boy?

I’ve never heard of a boy Ruby but the point is that norms around names change.

I know several little girls called Rory and so my perception of the name is that in this day and age is that it’s unisex and completely fine for a girl. If you’re very traditional perhaps you would meet multiple female Rorys and in your head be thinking “but it’s a boys name” but that’s not how my brain works I’m afraid.

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · Yesterday 13:26

tartyflette · Yesterday 12:48

People who love the idea of giving their baby girls a boy’s name because they think it’s “cool’ or cute should perhaps be aware that this is just a trend, and like all trends will eventually fall out of fashion with a bang and forever date little girls named James or similar to the early 21st century, much like the Samantha’s and Cheryl’s which are inextricably linked with the 60s.
And are thus no longer considered cool or cute. Sadly.
Names do fall out of fashion and become lesser, déclassé or even ridiculed. Some may make a recovery but it’s not guaranteed.
Classic names exist for a reason.

So what?

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · Yesterday 13:26

HugoThatway · Yesterday 12:46

It's still a boy's name.

Says who?

Also "boys" names like Emmett used be girls names...

Carol used to be a "boys" name and is almost exclusively a girls name

There's no rules or laws.

HugoThatway · Yesterday 13:42

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 13:10

I’ve never heard of a boy Ruby but the point is that norms around names change.

I know several little girls called Rory and so my perception of the name is that in this day and age is that it’s unisex and completely fine for a girl. If you’re very traditional perhaps you would meet multiple female Rorys and in your head be thinking “but it’s a boys name” but that’s not how my brain works I’m afraid.

Edited

I know a few Rorys and they're all male. I am familiar with famous people like Rory McIlroy, Kinnear, Stuart, Bremner, McGrath...
(One of those is a friend of a friend of a friend, I don't know the others.)
A former boss's son was a Ruairi.
A friend's XP was Rory etc.
All male.

Anglicized form of Ruaidhrí. Typically a masculine name, it gained some popularity for girls in the United States after it was used on the television series Gilmore Girls (2000-2007), in this case as a nickname for Lorelai. Despite this, the name has grown more common for boys in America, especially after 2011, perhaps due to Northern Irish golfer Rory McIlroy (1989-).

Kelly, Ashley, Lindsay, Leslie, Courtney etc are unisex but would you want to be called any of those if you were a man?

Boys' names for girls aren't new. There are plenty of Danni, Nicky, Jo, Lindsay etc my age plus the odd Billie, Stevie, Micky, etc. I even know a Paule.

Yearss7 · Yesterday 14:08

Overthebow · Yesterday 09:03

Why is Lorelei too Gilmore girls but Rory isn’t? It’s what I think of when I hear the name Rory. If you like it though just call her that, no need for a longer name.

I think they’re both v Gilmore Girls and if you used either, I’d assume you were a fan! no matter the long name you used for Rory (Aurora etc)

largeredformeplease · Yesterday 14:09

I think Aurora / Lorelei / Rory for a girl are all ridiculous to be honest.

Aurora is a princess name (sleeping beauty, I think?) and just nauseating in real life.

Lorelei is a character on a US sitcom, and it’s not even a good name.

Rory is a well established name in Scotland for males, I’ve met Rory’s of every age.

I would rethink it. There are plenty of good girls names out there.

HugoThatway · Yesterday 14:34

largeredformeplease · Yesterday 14:09

I think Aurora / Lorelei / Rory for a girl are all ridiculous to be honest.

Aurora is a princess name (sleeping beauty, I think?) and just nauseating in real life.

Lorelei is a character on a US sitcom, and it’s not even a good name.

Rory is a well established name in Scotland for males, I’ve met Rory’s of every age.

I would rethink it. There are plenty of good girls names out there.

I agree.

Just call the little girl Wantedaboy or Parentsthinktheyrecool instead.

mathanxiety · Today 02:47

LittleSF · Yesterday 08:48

Just to be a Gilmore Girls pedant, Rory became Rory because she couldn’t say Lorelei as a young child and mispronounced it as Rory and it became what they called her, rather than it being an abbreviation.

i agree with previous posters though, it’s a lovely name for either a boy or a girl, i think its become a name for either at this stage.

It means red haired king.

It therefore sounds all wrong for a girl.

mathanxiety · Today 02:50

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · Yesterday 13:26

Says who?

Also "boys" names like Emmett used be girls names...

Carol used to be a "boys" name and is almost exclusively a girls name

There's no rules or laws.

Edited

There's still the actual meaning of the name.

The RI part means 'king'.

mathanxiety · Today 02:53

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 13:10

I’ve never heard of a boy Ruby but the point is that norms around names change.

I know several little girls called Rory and so my perception of the name is that in this day and age is that it’s unisex and completely fine for a girl. If you’re very traditional perhaps you would meet multiple female Rorys and in your head be thinking “but it’s a boys name” but that’s not how my brain works I’m afraid.

Edited

'Very traditional'?

Or just aware of the meaning of the name?

It's possible to Google names that come from cultures other than English. Quite often, the results of your search will set you straight.

mathanxiety · Today 02:56

PancakeCloud · Yesterday 12:25

Hard disagree that it’s only a boys name. I know several little girl Rorys.

Hope they won't be too dismayed when they learn their parents were culturally insensitive and technologically challenged.

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