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Torn between Elsie and Elektra for our baby girl

182 replies

BrightLemonQuail · 29/08/2026 07:58

First time parents, Two very different names but these are our top two and I feel so torn. Elsie feels very cutesy and girly, Elektra feels bold. Sounds silly but it feels like a decision that will have a huge bearing on who she becomes. Elsie is a family name but worried it is very popular. Elektra i just worry could be too bold. Also if it was Elektra I envision it with a ‘k’ not a ‘c’ but is that also too bold?

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momager22 · 29/08/2026 14:51

Sorry I agree Elektra sounds awful. It would be really mean to name a child that.

Lentilcakes · 29/08/2026 14:53

hididdlyho · 29/08/2026 08:11

How about Eleanor/Elena? You could shorten to Ellie if she suits a cutesy nickname or there's El, Lainey, Laynor which work well into adulthood.

I love Lainey- that’d be on my list now for a daughter (if I wasn’t post-menopausal 😂).
Eliza
Esme
Ella
Elise

are all nice E names.

newrubylane · 29/08/2026 15:02

Etta?

Lobsterteapot · 29/08/2026 15:03

Two things op - Consider what the names might be shortened to in real life - Elsie would get “Else” or “Elle” What would Electra be? - “Lecky?”

Also imagine shouting it on a sports pitch in a few years time. “Electra! Get in the bloody box” - Can you see yourself doing it?

Lobsterteapot · 29/08/2026 15:04

Oh bollocks I spelt the name all wrong - but you get the idea

Helenbelena · 29/08/2026 15:05

Neither - but Elsie is awfully twee and cutesy.

ShutupLwren · 29/08/2026 15:07

The name Elise sounds lovely! I have an Eleanor (family name) and she gets Nelle or Elle.
Id have loved to have chosen a bold name but I didn’t actually like any when I was pregnant.
I do really like Elise, so pretty.

crazymommaclub · 29/08/2026 15:10

She’s a baby not a marvel superhero

ImthatBoleyngirl · 29/08/2026 15:14

Elektra sounds like a superhero, l couldn't take it seriously.

Helenbelena · 29/08/2026 15:22

crazymommaclub · 29/08/2026 15:10

She’s a baby not a marvel superhero

She’s not a baby forever though!

muddyford · 29/08/2026 15:23

Neither.

Missey85 · 29/08/2026 15:27

I wouldn't name a kid Elektra it sounds like a name you'd give a animal not a baby ☹️ stop giving your kids weirdo names thief the ones that will get bullied for it and have to explain a million times that yes it is their name

viques · 29/08/2026 15:29

What about Elsa? Not quite so relentlessly woke as either Electra or Elsie.

Watermelonsugar44 · 29/08/2026 15:31

Don’t like either, maybe Elkie which is a mix of both.

or I agree Eliza or Eve or Eva are nice too

abracadabra1980 · 29/08/2026 15:51

Elektra is awful.

user1492757084 · 29/08/2026 17:54

I voted Electra.

Others ...
Ebony
Allegra
Maxima

Excellentsausages · 29/08/2026 18:21

Elsa has the strong woman vibe (it is obviously very Frozen) and I prefer it to Elsie. Elsie is a nice enough name though.
I don't like the 'lek' bit of Elektra.

Petra maybe?

JennyAuker · 29/08/2026 18:24

plasticplate · 29/08/2026 12:16

I'd go for Elizabeth and let a nn evolve if one is wanted.

I like this idea, Elizabeth is a classic and so many abbreviations of it get used now and sound a bit tacky, but very, very few Elizabeth’s, and it is a lovely classy name.

TheLette · 29/08/2026 18:33

I don't like either, sorry. Elise is really beautiful though and quite unusual.

swapsicles · 29/08/2026 18:49

A similar name not mentioned yet is Elita. A friend called their daughter this and although at first it sounded odd, it's quite grown on me.

GreenEyesMillennial · 29/08/2026 18:50

None to be honest

Nannyfannybanny · Yesterday 07:57

I read out your post,I'll admit I thought Elektra comic strip,DH history buff, said "oh,yes, she was Agamemnon's daughter "!!!

Nannyfannybanny · Yesterday 11:31

Elita was a Hominoid

HannahDefoesSpringFling · Yesterday 12:57

What about Athena?

User6761 · Yesterday 13:07

I'd much rather be called Elsie than Elektra. The only Elsie's I've known (one who is 19, the other in her 90s) are both feisty, strong women so it doesn't have overly cutesy connotations for me.

But if it's too cutesy for you, how about Elise? Ot another Elizabeth diminutive (Beth, Libby, Elsa, Lizzie etc)

Other ideas - Amber, Zoe, Ember, Adele, Athena, Elodie, Flora, Connie)