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Should I mention my concern about this twin name pairing?

137 replies

Ellentelss · 11/03/2026 18:15

Hey,

Looking for a little bit of advice, my DD is expecting twin girls, she has incidentally revealed their chosen names to me, and I’m a little worried that while individually the names are lovely, together they sound a bit “showgirl” or similar.
The names are Lola and Roxy. She lives in France but I can’t imagine the connotations are much better there. She didn’t tell me directly but she was on FaceTime showing me some things they’ve bought and there were a few personalised pieces with these names.

Should I mention it or just bite my tongue?

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Namechangefordaughterevasion · 12/03/2026 10:57

As a very new granny my advice is to never criticise and always support. If they want your opinion they'll ask for it.

Ponoka7 · 12/03/2026 11:22

I love Dolores (Lola) and Roxanne. Roxanne is French in origin. Dolores Spanish, I prefer full names on BC then NN, but they are your DD's and her DP to name. I agree that they are no longer showgirl names and outside of England. they wouldn't bat an eyelid.

AlbieJiggered · 12/03/2026 17:27

Are they cockapoos?

user1492757084 · 12/03/2026 17:44

They are fine.
They remind me of the musical, Grease and dancing.
Beautiful energetic and artistic names.

Thatcannotberight · 12/03/2026 18:41

AlbieJiggered · 12/03/2026 17:27

Are they cockapoos?

In my Facebook Border Terrier group there are at least 7 Lolas and 7 Roxys.

usedtobeaylis · 12/03/2026 19:26

Lola is a common nickname for Lauren and is the name of a friend of mine, it's not 'showgirl' at all, she's a perfectly normal person and nobody questions her name. Nobody will question theirs either.

AlbieJiggered · 13/03/2026 11:53

usedtobeaylis · 12/03/2026 19:26

Lola is a common nickname for Lauren and is the name of a friend of mine, it's not 'showgirl' at all, she's a perfectly normal person and nobody questions her name. Nobody will question theirs either.

I've never heard that before. Why would you 'shorten' a 2-syllable name to a 2-syllable one?

FruAashild · 13/03/2026 12:33

AlbieJiggered · 13/03/2026 11:53

I've never heard that before. Why would you 'shorten' a 2-syllable name to a 2-syllable one?

Sally is a nickname for Sarah
Tommy is a nickname for Thomas
Johnny is a nickname for John.

Nicknames are not always shorter than the original name.

AlbieJiggered · 13/03/2026 12:42

FruAashild · 13/03/2026 12:33

Sally is a nickname for Sarah
Tommy is a nickname for Thomas
Johnny is a nickname for John.

Nicknames are not always shorter than the original name.

They're not nicknames.

Thesnailonthewhale · 13/03/2026 13:19

AlbieJiggered · 13/03/2026 12:42

They're not nicknames.

They're diminutives...!

Zennia · 14/03/2026 06:53

Thesnailonthewhale · 13/03/2026 13:19

They're diminutives...!

Maybe it's a dialect difference? Where I grew up, I only heard Tommy, Sammy etc referred to as "nicknames". I only learned the word "diminutive" as an adult.

AlbieJiggered · 14/03/2026 11:22

Zennia · 14/03/2026 06:53

Maybe it's a dialect difference? Where I grew up, I only heard Tommy, Sammy etc referred to as "nicknames". I only learned the word "diminutive" as an adult.

@Zennia , It's not dialect, they have different meanings.
Children tend to have a smaller vocabulary.

A nickname is something like Thomas known as Spike, a diminutive is something like Tom or Tommy being used for Thomas.

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