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Silvia/Sylvia/Sylvie

71 replies

NamingQuandries · 01/01/2026 19:03

I am going to preface this by acknowledging that some of what I'm going to say is illogical 😆

Sylvie is on our shortlist, but my reservation is that even though I know it's a full name, it feels a bit nicknamey. We also have four nephews/nieces whose names all end in -ie/-ey and it just feels like we'd be adding to the pile.

I'd like the longer option, but I think as I work in healthcare, Sylvia to me is very much a woman in her 60s/70s!

I am well aware that Silvia is, in essence, exactly the same. But the Latin spelling makes it feel slightly different/fresher to me, it would go well with our DSs name which is also Latin origin. We'd also love a bit of a nod to Italy in our baby name so that attracts.

Just wondering what people think? 😊

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DisplayPurposesOnly · 01/01/2026 19:07

Sylvie all the way.

Emanwenym · 01/01/2026 19:13

I'd say Silvia and Sylvia differently. While I quite like Silvia, I don't like Sylvia.
Sylvie is much loved on here but I think it's a 65-yr old Frenchwoman's name.
Sylvia is in my mind a 75-yr old former barmaid in a red satin shirt and has jet black dyed hair.

Morecoffeethanks · 01/01/2026 19:14

Sylvie is the French equivalent also common for older ladies in France- no Sylvies in my children’s preschool or crèche but I like it!

mishgs · 01/01/2026 19:18

There’s a Silva in my DS class. Wasn’t keen at first but have grown to like it.

amy480 · 01/01/2026 19:25

I know / have known a few Sylvia’s and all are in their 70s and 80s so I can’t get past it being an old lady name that is still out of fashion. Sylvie is prettier and I’ve seen it mentioned a few times on here now so expect to see it on more babies soon!

HayceeDeeCee · 01/01/2026 19:26

Sylvie is gorgeous

BreakingBroken · 01/01/2026 19:48

With a Y please
Silvia is too similar to saliva
nice classic name

NamingQuandries · 01/01/2026 19:50

Emanwenym · 01/01/2026 19:13

I'd say Silvia and Sylvia differently. While I quite like Silvia, I don't like Sylvia.
Sylvie is much loved on here but I think it's a 65-yr old Frenchwoman's name.
Sylvia is in my mind a 75-yr old former barmaid in a red satin shirt and has jet black dyed hair.

How would you pronounce differently? I feel like I would ever so slightly and maybe that's why they feel different? 😅

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NamingQuandries · 01/01/2026 19:54

amy480 · 01/01/2026 19:25

I know / have known a few Sylvia’s and all are in their 70s and 80s so I can’t get past it being an old lady name that is still out of fashion. Sylvie is prettier and I’ve seen it mentioned a few times on here now so expect to see it on more babies soon!

Yes this is how I feel! Though I do know a 30 year old Sylwia too

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neleh87 · 01/01/2026 19:55

Sylvia is my daughter's name. We call her Sylvia or Sylvie. Honestly we've had nothing but compliments. I know of 2 other little girls called Sylvia.

We like the poetic link and also the meaning which is spirit of the wood.

LamentableShoes · 01/01/2026 19:58

I love Sylvie.
Like you I'm less keen on Sylvia. Go with Sylvie!

tarheelbaby · 01/01/2026 20:08

Either Sylvie or Silvia but Sylvia is good too.

I recently taught in a posh school with a Sylvie and that would be a first choice amongst the poshies for the French connection. The general meaning for all of them is woodland sprite which is a lovely idea and 31 December is St Sylvestre so this is a perfect time
FWIW - It's well documented that women's names come and go by the generations: today's granny or great-granny is tomorrow's baby. And 'grandad/granny-chic' is a known theme for baby names.

shoopshoopdedoo · 01/01/2026 20:40

I really like Sylvia. You could use Sylvie as a nickname?

Sylvie is nice but a bit too trendy (know several under the age of three and none older than this). Also, agree with you that it seems a bit like a shortening.

I don’t like the Silvia spelling because I read it as “saliva”.

Notmymarmosets · 01/01/2026 20:49

Sylvia to give her options. Nn Sylvie if you like.

NamingQuandries · 01/01/2026 20:54

tarheelbaby · 01/01/2026 20:08

Either Sylvie or Silvia but Sylvia is good too.

I recently taught in a posh school with a Sylvie and that would be a first choice amongst the poshies for the French connection. The general meaning for all of them is woodland sprite which is a lovely idea and 31 December is St Sylvestre so this is a perfect time
FWIW - It's well documented that women's names come and go by the generations: today's granny or great-granny is tomorrow's baby. And 'grandad/granny-chic' is a known theme for baby names.

Yes I feel like it hasn't quite 'aged out' yet compared to the current granny names, but I'm sure it'll come around! Maybe we'll be trendsetters 😆

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Moreteaandchocolate · 01/01/2026 20:54

I like Sylvie best - it feels fresher and younger than Sylvia to me - and it’s more common than Sylvia for babies at the moment.

NamingQuandries · 01/01/2026 20:56

shoopshoopdedoo · 01/01/2026 20:40

I really like Sylvia. You could use Sylvie as a nickname?

Sylvie is nice but a bit too trendy (know several under the age of three and none older than this). Also, agree with you that it seems a bit like a shortening.

I don’t like the Silvia spelling because I read it as “saliva”.

If we did use the long form I think we would probably say Sylvie day-to-day, but it would be nice to have options! :)

Sylvie still somewhere in the 200s but it gets mentioned so often on here I'm sure it's about to boom, not necessarily an issue for me though.

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Giraffehaver · 01/01/2026 22:18

To me, Sylvie feels too babyish for an adult but I adore either Sylvia or Silvia

user2848502016 · 01/01/2026 23:16

Call her Sylvia but use Sylvie for short?

Whymelody · 01/01/2026 23:22

I have a 12 year old Sylvie and still love it. Not met another one until dd started secondary this year and there’s another in one of her classes but spelt ‘Silvie.’ I always see it mentioned here and live in quite a middle class area but it’s really not as popular as I expected.

RegalDiamondMonster · 01/01/2026 23:29

I quite like them all! I used to know an older French Sylvie but it doesn't put me off. Sylvia/Silvia sounds more Shakespearean/literary/poetic. I don't know any older British Sylvias so don't have any real connotations.
I used to know a Silvana which I liked too.

EconomyClassRockstar · 01/01/2026 23:32

There is/going to be a big rise in the name Sylvie because of Emily in Paris. But, other than that, I like it.

AcrobaticCardigan · 01/01/2026 23:32

I love Sylvie. Much more modern than Sylvia and in my opinion not nick-namey - more a modern variant!

HappyOctober · 01/01/2026 23:36

We have a Sylvie and seem to get positive responses. We didn’t choose to use Sylvia on her birth certificate at the time, but I like your spelling of Silvia, I agree it feels fresher somehow. I’d definitely recommend it, her siblings call her ‘Silver’ sometimes which I also like. We only know of one other currently….

Groberts · 01/01/2026 23:37

Sylvie is lovely. Sylvia I’m not so keen on. Maybe one goes better with your surname though.

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