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Which name would you have picked for yourself as a teen?

87 replies

KimHwn · 20/10/2025 08:06

Was just thinking about how much our tastes change as we grow, and as fashions change.

When I was in my mid-teens, I was desperate for a posh English name. I probably would have chosen Constance for myself, which would have been ridiculous- I am neither posh nor English. When I was in primary school and playing house, I always called myself Nicole. Again, I am not a Nicole at all.

What would you have picked for yourself as a teen?

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TheFiveLakes · 20/10/2025 19:04

Something like Emma too - something something unfussy and classic.

I've always been fairly embarrassed by my name but never got around to doing anything about it, partly because I feel as though you don't choose your name - nobody names themselves (I know people do these days, but they didn't in the 1980s when I was younger unless they were "artist names" - it would have felt pretentious and forced and attention seeking to change it, and required justification for mortally offending my parents I think).

I always thought about changing my name. I've never met anyone else with my name! I got mercilessly mocked about it at school by pupils and teachers.
It was the 80s/early 90s and everyone was called Emma, Laura, Rebecca, Samantha or Sarah!

bumwoes22 · 20/10/2025 20:35

I always liked Kelly (probably because I thought Kelly Kapowski from Saved By The Bell was the most beautiful girl ever).
Or Melanie. No idea why.

Threesmycrowd · 20/10/2025 20:45

Phoebe or chloe.

Ive never liked my name. It mainly used on women a decade or more older than me, dated but not "cool dated". But its not bad enough to change, and I dont know what id change it to!

AmethystAnnotation · 20/10/2025 20:48

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 20/10/2025 19:58

I was an almost silent teen, but inside my head I was a consumptive, pale and wafty ingenue who was waiting to be snatched up by an equally pale and gothic hero. I probably wanted to be called Raven Fox or something pretentious. Neither Raven nor Fox would have suited me at all, as I have a little round red face and short legs. I couldn't be willowy if I tried. Possibly the Fox bit might have stuck, on account of me sneaking around at night and eating all the chicken in the fridge.

Oh, goodness, I was just the same. Stocky wannabe waif😄

GreenClock · 20/10/2025 20:55

Abigail. I have no idea why. There was no famous person or character with that name in the late 1980s afaik.

I still like it, decades later.

PinkFlamingo888 · 20/10/2025 21:45

I’d have been an Ashleigh or an Evangeline, wouldn’t want to be either now particularly 😂

JudgeBread · 20/10/2025 21:46

Oh god something hideous, I was a terrible little goth.

Ebony Dark'ness Dementia Raven Way comes to mind. Iykyk

TheeNotoriousPIG · 20/10/2025 22:16

I hated my name (long, usually misspelt, often mispronounced, judged as a 'naughty' name, and people tended to assume that I was male). People usually told me that I didn't suit it, and should have been called something like Rachel or Elizabeth instead!

I wanted something that was short, easy to spell, and indicated that I was definitely female (like Ella, Hannah, Anna, Leah, etc). Needless to say, I changed it to something along similar lines when I could!

Handeyethingyowl · 20/10/2025 22:20

Probably something like Tabitha after the daughter on Bewitched. I also liked Maren after a girl on my German exchange who seemed impossibly euro-cool.

crumpet · 20/10/2025 22:26

Catriona (v important pronounced the same as, but definitely not spelled, Katrina)

2025mustbebetter · 20/10/2025 22:40

I liked the name Angela when little Such a mum name! I also liked Jessica as I got older.

Would never have used either of these for my kids but as a child I loved them.

BauhausOfEliott · 21/10/2025 01:23

When I was a teenager I desperately wanted to be called Scarlett or Ruby. Neither of them were even remotely fashionable at the time, but I was very into 1930s black annd white cinema and gothic horror, and both those names felt like they would fit nicely into either of those worlds.

maras2 · 21/10/2025 02:58

Aeronwy.
At 13,I was in my moody Dylan Thomas phase and this is his daughter's name.
Got over it by age 16 when I read the Forsyte Saga and wanted to be Irene.

Pemba · 21/10/2025 03:25

I wanted to be either Sara(h) or Clare. I think from reading children's literature, 'A Little Princess' and 'Charlotte Sometimes', which I loved. Wasn't fussed about Charlotte itself though, which is obviously much more popular now. Clare was the girl from the past that Charlotte exchanged places with, in the time slip story.

I also just liked the sound of both names, and actually there were lots of Sarahs and Clares at school with me.

DownyEmerald · 21/10/2025 04:09

Natasha

I liked the Russian-ness I think. I don't like it now!

mellongoose · 21/10/2025 04:14

Jessica or Elizabeth. I basically wanted to live inside the Sweet Valley High books.

Dearnurse · 21/10/2025 11:50

Lily or phoebe... I actually wish I'd have changed my name , my name doesn't suit me at all but it's too late now I'm in my 30s people with think im having a crisis 🤣

dailyconniptions · 21/10/2025 12:10

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Cleo is a lovely name!

RaraRachael · 21/10/2025 12:24

I've always had a hankering to be called Linda. It was very popular when I was young.

Nobody can understand my name or spell it so when I'm somewhere like Starbucks I say I'm Linda.

midgetastic · 21/10/2025 12:27

David

i am female
it was a long time ago

Firebird83 · 21/10/2025 12:28

I wanted to be called Ashley, I thought it was a cool American name for a girl 😁

EmotionallyWeird · 21/10/2025 12:55

Usually Charlotte, but I also liked the name Adelaide and would have liked to be called it if it wasn't quite so unusual at the time.

crackofdoom · 21/10/2025 13:19

Silver.

(Also a pretentious wannabe willowy and mysterious goth 😆).

SkippingClara · 21/10/2025 13:23

Clara! Lucy or Felicity. Still like those names. My DD is Felicity 😃.

BertieBotts · 21/10/2025 13:25

Christina - I thought it was the most beautiful and glamorous sounding name Grin