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Which name would you have picked for yourself as a teen?

87 replies

KimHwn · 20/10/2025 08:06

Was just thinking about how much our tastes change as we grow, and as fashions change.

When I was in my mid-teens, I was desperate for a posh English name. I probably would have chosen Constance for myself, which would have been ridiculous- I am neither posh nor English. When I was in primary school and playing house, I always called myself Nicole. Again, I am not a Nicole at all.

What would you have picked for yourself as a teen?

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Overtheatlantic · 20/10/2025 18:52

I wanted to be Charlie. I thought it was the ultimate cool girl name and unisex which made it better.

PermanentTemporary · 20/10/2025 18:54

Ferdinanda. My plan was to change my name by deed poll when I was 18.

Reader, I did not.

ImWearingPantaloons · 20/10/2025 18:56

When I was very little, Sharon or Kelly.

As a teen, Emma or Felicity.

CheerfulBunny · 20/10/2025 18:56

I only thought about this the other day - I wished I was a Stephanie or a Morgan. I thought they sounded so glamorous 😄

FeatheryFlorence · 20/10/2025 18:57

As a small child, Carol or Linda. As a teen, Portia.

cantpullthetrigger · 20/10/2025 18:58

Angelique. It was the name I was given in my French lessons age 12 and I would have happily changed my name by deed poll to it I was that attached!

FrayaMorstater · 20/10/2025 19:01

I’ve always loved the name Jessica since I was very young. It would have been my daughter’s name, but alas I had 2 boys so that never happened.

TheFiveLakes · 20/10/2025 19:04

KittyRannaldini · 20/10/2025 08:08

Emma.

Something like Emma too - something something unfussy and classic.

I've always been fairly embarrassed by my name but never got around to doing anything about it, partly because I feel as though you don't choose your name - nobody names themselves (I know people do these days, but they didn't in the 1980s when I was younger unless they were "artist names" - it would have felt pretentious and forced and attention seeking to change it, and required justification for mortally offending my parents I think).

LittleGreenDuck · 20/10/2025 19:13

I hate my name, I wanted to be Amy or Natalie. I still hate my name, it can't be arsed to do anything about it.

ShesTheAlbatross · 20/10/2025 19:14

I had a real love for the name Lisa

DemonsandMosquitoes · 20/10/2025 19:23

Natalie. I’m 53 and it’s still my favourite girls name.

patooties · 20/10/2025 19:27

Jacinta.

BlindSpotForCats · 20/10/2025 19:27

I wanted to be called Sage.

Then I wanted to have as a first name one of our long-gone family surnames which was Moffatt.

Thankfully......

GRCP · 20/10/2025 19:29

Something like Lauren or Kate or Jen. At one point Robin. I would also have liked something a bit unusual and rock and roll. I have a very 80s name I never liked.

EmiliaRuusuvuori · 20/10/2025 19:39

TheFiveLakes · 20/10/2025 19:04

Something like Emma too - something something unfussy and classic.

I've always been fairly embarrassed by my name but never got around to doing anything about it, partly because I feel as though you don't choose your name - nobody names themselves (I know people do these days, but they didn't in the 1980s when I was younger unless they were "artist names" - it would have felt pretentious and forced and attention seeking to change it, and required justification for mortally offending my parents I think).

This is how I feel about my name.
I would have loved to have been called Eloise, I once mentioned this to my Mum and she said she had always liked that name.
Then why did you call me something hideous from the 40's when I was born in the 70's then 😡

NotMyRealAccount · 20/10/2025 19:46

Early teens: Alice. Mid teens: Octavia. Later teens: Elizabeth.

Lucked · 20/10/2025 19:48

I want a long name that had a boys/unisex nickname like Alex, Toni or Dani. There was a girl who went by Fred at my school and I was so jealous.

RaraRachael · 20/10/2025 19:48

I hated my name growing up as I was the only one in the whole school.
I would have chosen Carol, Susan or something 70s and ordinary.

blankcanvas3 · 20/10/2025 19:50

Stacey for some reason. It’s bloody awful I don’t know what I was thinking

lorisparkle · 20/10/2025 19:50

when I was younger I wanted what would now be called a ‘gender neutral’ name such as Chris or Charlie. I was definitely what was called a ‘Tom boy’ and loved characters such as George in The Famous Five and the book The Turbulent Term of Tyke Tyler.

jmh740 · 20/10/2025 19:51

As a team I wanted to be Michaela, I have a fairly boring name which is only really heard on 40+ women, changing 1 letter makes it a more classy timeless name so always wish parents had gone for that instead.

therewasafishinthepercolator · 20/10/2025 19:51

Pieceofpurplesky · 20/10/2025 08:21

Scarlett

Same.

Or specifically, Scarlett Cobain. 😆

notanothernamechangemother · 20/10/2025 19:54

I actually really like the name my parents chose for me and have never wanted to change it 🙂

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 20/10/2025 19:58

I was an almost silent teen, but inside my head I was a consumptive, pale and wafty ingenue who was waiting to be snatched up by an equally pale and gothic hero. I probably wanted to be called Raven Fox or something pretentious. Neither Raven nor Fox would have suited me at all, as I have a little round red face and short legs. I couldn't be willowy if I tried. Possibly the Fox bit might have stuck, on account of me sneaking around at night and eating all the chicken in the fridge.

Moonface318 · 20/10/2025 19:58

Brody - I was obsessed with The Distillers