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Kaya, Phoebe, Alice, Kaylee

96 replies

suzettenoisette · 20/04/2025 16:59

Which one would you choose out of these?

Kaya - pr. kah-ya
Phoebe
Alice
Kaylee - Kayleigh is a bit too long for my tastes

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Theoldwoman · 21/04/2025 01:34

100% Alice. The others aren’t even in the same league.

doreeen · 21/04/2025 01:40

Why is Kaylee being repeatedly called ‘awful’ though?

It’s not a name I’ve ever considered using as it’s just never stood out enough to go on my lists… but I don’t see anything particularly offensive or dreadful about it either? I’m surprised at such strong reactions to it! Does it have a horrible meaning or something?

NotSafeInTaxis · 21/04/2025 02:32

doreeen · 21/04/2025 01:40

Why is Kaylee being repeatedly called ‘awful’ though?

It’s not a name I’ve ever considered using as it’s just never stood out enough to go on my lists… but I don’t see anything particularly offensive or dreadful about it either? I’m surprised at such strong reactions to it! Does it have a horrible meaning or something?

I imagine because we just think it's awful. Also the song.

KarlaKK · 21/04/2025 02:36

Alice is a classic name but a bit dull in my view. Phoebe seemed popular around the late 1990s (knew 3 from various baby groups). Kaya is a boy's Turkish name to me (not pronounced how you wrote it - means 'rock'). Kaylee seems dated and not as classic as Alice or Phoebe. Depends what you like though. Lots of other names out there.

Calliopespa · 21/04/2025 07:15

doreeen · 21/04/2025 01:28

What ‘vibe’ are they and why is it worse?

They are clearly a less traditional vibe.

I didn’t say they are “ worse”; I said I don’t like them.

That’s because I prefer traditional names, as well as names that have established spellings, the latter being a practical issue.

Some people like a different “vibe” and prefer something they think is less fashioned.

WaltzingWaters · 21/04/2025 07:20

I love Kaya. But I’d assume it was pronounced Kye-uh (as that’s how I’ve heard it pronounced before).

SillyOP · 21/04/2025 07:26

They all feel a bit 2000s but would be pretty unique in a class of today

Bigearringsbigsmile · 21/04/2025 07:27

Phoebe or Alice
Don't like the other two at all

Pemba · 21/04/2025 08:34
  1. Alice is lovely
  2. Phoebe is nice
  3. Don't mind Kaya but isn't it normally pronounced 'kye-a'? Like in the Bob Marley song.
  4. Kaylee - no I wouldn't, it has a nice sound but seems a bit dated and not very classy - sorry! Especially with that spelling.
Sunpeace · 21/04/2025 08:43

Alice. Not so keen on Phoebe. The other two are very different and I don't like either at all

user1492757084 · 21/04/2025 10:40

Inspired from your list, my favourites..

Alice 10/10
Kaye 9/10
Phoebe 9/10
Kaylee 7/10

Kaya 3/10 sounds like car yard - especially if her surname starts with D.

DramaAlpaca · 21/04/2025 10:42

Alice

Definitely not Kaylee, at least not with that spelling

JustAnInchident · 21/04/2025 10:47

Alice is lovely. It was on our shortlist. I don’t like Kaya or Phoebe but although it’s unpopular on here, I like Kaylie (spelled that way, not Kaylee) as two of my very favourite people are called Kaylie.

EmmaEmEmz · 21/04/2025 10:49

Phoebe

Emanwenym · 21/04/2025 12:03

Kaya - Kaia or Kaiya are better spellings
Phoebe- like
Alice - like best
Kaylee - awful

Sunflowerso · 21/04/2025 18:06

Phoebe.
Kaya open to mispronunciation I think Kaia a better spelling.

Darkambergingerlily · 21/04/2025 18:07

Kaylee is hideous!!!

like all the others especially Alice

ShoalShark · 21/04/2025 18:27

I like Phoebe and Alice. I actually like the sound of Kaya but wouldn’t choose a name that needs an explanation to pronounce, especially as I’ve realised that people are worse at pronunciation than I thought.

I thought I went for a traditional but underused biblical name - one everyone would have heard of but likely not known many people called it. I couldn’t even have imagined how many ways people would mispronounce it and a lot of people look at me like I’ve told them his name is “Bloopenbleepen” when I say it. I love his name but I really wish I’d called him something like James.

if you like Kaya then how about Maya?

Barrenfieldoffucks · 21/04/2025 18:28

They're very different. I'd only choose Phoebe or Alice. Alice is one of my all time favourites.

BadBerlin · 21/04/2025 18:34

Kaylee is very 80's

Kaya the way you described it is not good. Very harsh. I know a lovely Kiya (kiy- ah)?

So it's Alice for me. Lovely.

NotSafeInTaxis · 21/04/2025 18:39

Kaylee...is it too late to say I'm sorry....

chicke09 · 21/04/2025 18:40

Phoebe with Alice as a middle name

Happyinarcon · 21/04/2025 18:41

Phoebe is my favourite, then Alice. What about just Kay as something nice and simple?

Emanwenym · 21/04/2025 18:42

Do you remember?
I thought it was spaghetti in our hair

Sesma · 21/04/2025 18:43

Alice