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Thisbe - too far out?

63 replies

RoseApp · 07/10/2024 10:17

So is Thisbe a no way or a may be?

Also on the list for a girl (my friend decided against all previous suggestions and is now back on the hunt for something poetic)

Xanthe - I like this one
Ruri - not sure how I feel about taking names from other cultures (Japan)
Romy
Raphaelle
Signe - she would pronounce it a bit like Sidney

the stress that’s going in to this I’m so glad I only have to name my dogs 🐶

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LauderSyme · 07/10/2024 10:54

My first thought was "This be where dragons dwell" spoken in an olde worlde Cornish voice! Not that that would disqualify the name necessarily 😉

I think Thisbe matches current name trends pretty well and it sounds nice, with a similar vibe to Phoebe.

But people might not know whether it's Th as in thin or Th as in these, and whether it's S as in snake or S as in rise. I don't know either, to be fair.

I like Xanthe very much then Romy but not keen on the others. Also I wouldn't underestimate the challenge of naming pets!

Yes - I'm hearing a West Country accent - This be Thisbe !

toastofthetown · 07/10/2024 12:41

I quite like Thisbe and it’s my favourite of the the options.

Xanthe - nothing wrong with it, but something about it just doesn’t work for me
Ruri - not a fan of pinching names from other cultures either, and will just be assumed to be a Rory
Romy - I don’t mind it
Raphaelle - too frilly for me
Signe - pronounced like Sig-knee? I don’t think that’s a pronunciation most would jump to. I just went on Forvo and couldn’t find a language where that seemed to be the pronunciation

Ruthietuthie · 07/10/2024 12:43

I LOVE Thisbe. I very much like all the other names, except Signe.

CurlewKate · 07/10/2024 12:45

The problem with Thisbe is that very many children can't say the "th" sound at first. And it n places like Kent many adults can't. Both of my children would have called her Sisbe until they were about 7. And the majority of people in their school would have said Fisbe.....

SirQuintusAurieliusMaximus · 07/10/2024 12:46

Thisbe = a life time of jokes about Ninny’s tomb and the chink in the wall.
Don't do it.
Unless of course you have a boy and you can double down and call him Pyramus.

user2848502016 · 07/10/2024 12:48

I quite like Thisbe

Also like Xanthe and Romy from the list

HiThereSquare · 07/10/2024 12:50

I love Thisbe but it's quite out there. I'd be thinking Thisbe Thatbe.

People get used to unusual names quickly. I'd say go for it.

Beamur · 07/10/2024 12:51

I quite like Thisbe. Anyone with a lisp will really struggle to say it though!
Had to laugh at this. But I'm not sure you need to worry too much..
Thisbe = a life time of jokes about Ninny’s tomb and the chink in the wall.
Don't do it.
Unless of course you have a boy and you can double down and call him Pyramus

I actually like all of your names. I know a little Raphaella - goes by Rafi. Very cute.

HotCrossBunplease · 07/10/2024 12:57

Thinking about the “Z” sound in Xanthe, would she consider Zelda? I know an 8 year-old Zelda, suits her perfectly.

Or what about Eurydice, if you’ve seen Kaos you’ll know it could abbreviate to Riddy, which worked well with that character.

Ariadne is fab too.

Thewalrusandthecarpenter · 07/10/2024 12:59

I really like Thisbe. Hebe was on my girls' list too. I don't see why you can't use it. It's a bit out there but not a random made up name.

ODFOx · 07/10/2024 13:00

Thebe or Hebe?

DisplayPurposesOnly · 07/10/2024 13:18

I quite like Thisbe, but probably best to save it for a cat.

A Shakespearean alternative: Nerissa (abbrev. Niss, Nissa, Riss or even Nelly).

DisplayPurposesOnly · 07/10/2024 13:20

Also muse options - Calliope, Thalia

PubicZirconia · 07/10/2024 13:41

Thisbe is the name of a very sweet budget wine here so not a fan.

Is your friend of Greek or Cypriot descent?As if not, wouldn't that technically also be from another culture? Same as Ruri?

Andoutcomethewolves · 07/10/2024 13:48

PuppyMonkey · 07/10/2024 12:22

Same as PP, I’d just think “This be a lovely baby” or etc. Grin

I'm hearing it as a pirate conversation.

Arrrr, who be this? This be...

Etc etc.

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 07/10/2024 14:33

Party wall act. I like it.

Londonmummy66 · 07/10/2024 15:33

Sidonie (which is pronounced Sidney) - it looks so lovely on paper...

Ophelia Ariel Dorcas Hero Titania if you want something from Shakespeare

If she wants poetic then maybe one of the muses Calliope Terpsichore and Erato are the poetic muses although it would be cruel to saddle someone with Terpsichore

pamshortsbrokenbothherlegs · 07/10/2024 15:53

I like Xanthe a lot from your list. Not keen on Thisbe (yes, frisbee) and Signe I adore but it isn't pronounced how you like- in Danish it's much softer and quite beautiful.

What about Dagny / Dagne? I know a v cool one!

Marcipex · 07/10/2024 15:59

I like Xanthe and Romy.
I wouldn’t have known how to pronounce Signe.
Thisbe will be called Frisbee. Good name for a dog.

FlapsofFury · 07/10/2024 16:01

I'm hearing it as a pirate conversation.

Arrrr, who be this? This be...

🤣🤣🤣

Mairzydotes · 07/10/2024 16:12

Signed is Scandinavian and pronounced Seen-a

It's not like Sigourney without the ' or ' in the middle.

Op, how about Sigourney?

TemuSpecialBuy · 07/10/2024 16:14

Sounds like someone with a lisp trying to say frisbee

sorry 😬

VeryStressedMum · 07/10/2024 16:51

Xanthe and Romy are the nicest from your list. The rest are not great.
I haven't heard of Thisbe as a name, she will probably get called Frisbee

DemonicCaveMaggot · 07/10/2024 16:55

I went to school with a Xanthe about 50 years ago so that name isn't 'out there'. I think it is a lovely name.

I am not sure about Thisbe because of Midsummer Night's Dream. At least you aren't considering Hermia which would definitely end up as Hernia.

VeryStressedMum · 07/10/2024 16:56

Also Signe is is not pronounced Sig-nee it's like Seen-ya