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Raye - I can't use this can I?

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idontknow54789 · 02/09/2024 13:58

We don't know if we're having a boy or a girl but I love this name and think it suits both. Realistically though the singer has dominated this name hasn't she? Would this be strange to use this name?

I also like Rafe for a boy and DH likes Rayne for a girl but we don't like either's and Raye is the only one we agree with.

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godmum56 · 02/09/2024 14:50

I like Raye. It sounds quite 30's Marjorie Allingham-ish. Very classy.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 02/09/2024 14:52

Was short for Rachel in my school days

ginasevern · 02/09/2024 14:58

I thought that calling girls Rae had run its course. There was an explosion of them about 10 years ago, usually as a double first name - like Indie Rae (which is a pretty classic example on my council estate).

godmum56 · 02/09/2024 14:59

edit: It was Josephine Tey not Margery Allingham. The book is called The Man in the Queue and the woman in it is called Ray Marcable. She is a famous stunning beautiful and talented stage performer.

ItalianChineseIndianMexican · 02/09/2024 15:03

I like Raye (or Rae) for a girl.
I like Raya too.

Aside from the singer though, I've only ever come across one female Rae and that was a shortening of Rachel (which I also like).

IMustDoMoreExercise · 02/09/2024 15:05

Needmorelego · 02/09/2024 14:08

I've never heard of a singer called Raye (off to Google her now.....) so I wouldn't think that you've named your baby after her or anything.
I've always had a fondness for the girls name Rayanne.

Listen to Worth It.

DeCaray · 02/09/2024 15:07

I have never heard of the singer.

Ray is nice for a boy called Raymond.

Rae for a girl is ok but nothing special. Will
Probably be misspelt Ray all the time.

Rafe is a lovely nickname for Raphael which is a beautiful name.

CheeseWisely · 02/09/2024 15:10

I don't know the singer but it does make me think of the Australian 'breakdancer' from the Olympics Confused

Sparklyhat · 02/09/2024 15:10

A girl called Rae is unique but I quite like it. I'd use Ray or Raymond for a boy (Roman? Is a similar option) Raye doesn't look right and I don't think many people have heard of the singer

I know a baby called Robyn-Rae which is nice. If you're into double barrel names Rae works well for that

Clearinguptheclutter · 02/09/2024 15:12

Oh and although I have heard of the singer I wouldn’t like the two
More likely to link with Star Wars (Rey, which is better IMO but a clear Star Wars connotation!)

Kitkat1523 · 02/09/2024 15:12

I don’t like any of them…..Rae, rafe, Rayne and Raye …..so many lovely names to chose from …..cross all these off and move down your list

IWasHittingMyMarks · 02/09/2024 15:12

Raye is an amazing vocalist, but it's just 'Ray' with an 'e' on the end, often short for Raymond, imo

Much prefer Rayne or Raina for a girl

Rafe or Rafferty or Raphael for a boy

Comefromaway · 02/09/2024 15:14

I immediately think of the singer.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 02/09/2024 15:14

Not keen on Raye or Rae for girls

I like Raffi for a boy (as in like the children's singer Raffi)

AntarcticOcean · 02/09/2024 15:20

I really like Rae/Raye for a girl. I’m pretty sure it was on my list that DH didn’t like. It makes me think of a ray of sunshine and a smiley sunny child! I would go for a more timeless/classic middle name to counteract the modern first name. Like Rae Charlotte or something…

timenowplease · 02/09/2024 15:25

What about Reigh?

godmum56 · 02/09/2024 15:28

timenowplease · 02/09/2024 15:25

What about Reigh?

That migh get pronounced Ree like Leigh

Sleepnplay · 02/09/2024 15:32

I don't think you need to worry about the singer, although I also prefer Rae as a spelling.

I know a couple of Rhea/Raiya's, and an Aurelia who goes exclusively by Rae, which suits her much better, and is another option.

DoIWantTo · 02/09/2024 15:38

Rae is a fairly common girls name, I’d not give it to a boy. I wouldn’t fuck about with the spelling either

SemperIdem · 02/09/2024 15:43

Rae/Raye whichever, is a horrible name to give a girl as a given name.

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 02/09/2024 15:44

idontknow54789 · 02/09/2024 13:58

We don't know if we're having a boy or a girl but I love this name and think it suits both. Realistically though the singer has dominated this name hasn't she? Would this be strange to use this name?

I also like Rafe for a boy and DH likes Rayne for a girl but we don't like either's and Raye is the only one we agree with.

Yep there are a few reasons why I dislike Raye the singer so I would NEVER use that name.

LightBulbMome · 02/09/2024 15:44

I thought of the singer. I like the name Raye for a girl, although fear she might get confused for a boy, and misspelt Ray, given most people on here don't seem to have heard of the singer. I loved the suggestion of Aurelia with Raye for short.

MouseofCommons · 02/09/2024 15:45

It's a girls name. I think the famous Raye is a Rachel? I'd use that instead of the shorter version.
I wouldn't be surprised if Rachel is due a resurgence.

MockneyReject · 02/09/2024 15:50

I've never heard of the singer.
But, I have a 14 year old, and Rae is a very popular 'filler' middle name, amongst his peers - like May/Mai/Mae/Ray/Rae/Rose/Grace.

timenowplease · 02/09/2024 15:57

godmum56 · 02/09/2024 15:28

That migh get pronounced Ree like Leigh

True. Maybe Rayeigh?

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