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After a unique name?

81 replies

Megg3636 · 24/06/2024 11:33

I already have two daughters and we’re having a third child… after unique, not common names :)

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JimPansy · 25/06/2024 18:40

StormingNorman · 25/06/2024 18:38

It’s gender neutral to use the modern terminology. In old money, it can be used for both.

Since when?

MolkosTeenageAngst · 25/06/2024 18:46

Just go on instagram and look for the American influencers with large families. Came across one today whose daughters are called Fifer, Winslow and Sutton. Others have girls with names like Jayna, Kinsley, Kendall, Harlow, Sailor, Revel, Gypsy, Painter.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/06/2024 18:51

QuietLifeNoDrama · 24/06/2024 14:13

If you like Francis it can be a girls name too if spelt Frances

Neither is remotely unusual though.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/06/2024 18:54

Can't believe I haven't spotted Balonz being suggested on this thread yet. Someone's got to, I'm sure it's in the rules.

Greengrapeofhome · 25/06/2024 19:03

Sibi
Sydna
Deryn
Cassiopoeia
Blair
Bluebell

Ferdinand
Mitch
Darius
Deio
Macsen

Aria999 · 25/06/2024 19:07

ScamanthaBrick · 24/06/2024 14:25

People always pick up on the “wrong” usage of “unique” on baby name threads, but surely it’s obvious, given that no one will ever meet or know of every person in the world, that what is meant is more like “unique to their life”, ie, the child will probably never meet another person with their name in their life.

I think it just means that many people don't really know or care what 'unique' actually means, which annoys the language pedants amongst us.

Luckily now several others have pointed it out, I don't have to 🤣

It's like people using 'exponential' when they just mean 'very big/ fast'

Aria999 · 25/06/2024 19:10

Amaquis
Anastasia
Hero
Cressida
Peyton
Lucasta
Annis

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 25/06/2024 19:22

Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoc

It's a bit of a bugger when filling in forms though, but on the plus side it bemuses policemen and passport control personnel.

BluebirdBoogie · 25/06/2024 19:31

Juno
Velda
Myrtle
Beryl

Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:04

mummyrolling2014 · 24/06/2024 11:50

Hey, I agree with the unique names but how unique are you thinking?? Reason I ask is my name is very unique and I hated it growing up. At school I wished I had a 'normal name' - not something totally common but at least one that didn't follow 'oh that's unusual, where are your family from?'. As I am older I have never learned to love it and sometimes joke with my parents why they gave me this name. I have considered changing it by depol but seems a lot of hassle now at 45 to tell friends and family 'call me this' 🤣. Sorry to be negative, I know this is not really what you were looking for but just something to hear in mind 😊

What is your name? I'm sure it's not that bad!

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Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:05

Workawayxx · 24/06/2024 11:54

I think you need to give a bit of a hint to what names you like nature names, traditional, modern etc? Maybe some examples and similar names to the DC you already have (if you don’t want to give actual names).

I found looking at the top names list but only the names 100 and above in popularity helped!

I said above I like Francis, Hudson, Hunter etc...

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Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:06

newtb · 24/06/2024 12:11

I echo the pp about the downside of a unique name. I'm.one of less than 400 worldwide with mine and I hâte it. It's mispelled all thé time, toi.

Which is?

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Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:07

QuietLifeNoDrama · 24/06/2024 14:13

If you like Francis it can be a girls name too if spelt Frances

I like Francis spelt like this for a girl, I wouldn't use it on a boy :)

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Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:08

Hoppinggreen · 24/06/2024 14:10

Unique means its the only one so I think you probably mean unusual.
What sort of names do you like? Do you want a theme?
Whatever you choose just remember you won't be the one who has to carry it all their lives

It's not like I'm going to call my child something ridiculous... as I stated, I have 2 already... thanks tho :)

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CatrionaBalfour · 25/06/2024 20:10

Is Birdie a typo for Bridie?
You wouldn't call a child Birdy, surely?
Nigel
Neville
Raymond
Derek
Gloria
Mavis
Doreen
Maureen
All very unusual and you'd be ahead of the curve!

Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:10

Blouson · 24/06/2024 20:16

Always remember you are unique, just like everybody else.

Thank you :)
Shame everyone has to nit pick that I said 'unique' and not 'unusual'

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CatrionaBalfour · 25/06/2024 20:13

@Megg3636 there are some great ideas on here.
Sometimes it helps to write them down with your surname, see if it flows and sounds right!

JurassicClark · 25/06/2024 20:19

Megg3636 · 25/06/2024 20:10

Thank you :)
Shame everyone has to nit pick that I said 'unique' and not 'unusual'

Shame you had to say unique when you meant unusual 😉

If you call a girl Francis the poor thing will spend her entire life having her name spelled Frances and having to correct them. Or having people assume her parents couldn’t spell or wanted a boy. Would you really wish a lifetime of that on your daughter?

My brother had to correct people’s spelling of his name (parents used traditional spelling for their ethic group, then we emigrated to a place that had a a different usual spelling) and he hated it. Absolutely hated it.

You can be distinctive without saddling your child with an awkward name.

Onelittlebluefish · 25/06/2024 20:36

Growing up I wished I had a common name - the kind of name where there was at least 1 in every class. It was only in my early-mid 20’s I started to like my name. I do like it now but I’d have equally liked to be called Hannah or Rachel! (Which were very common at the time!). For that reason both of my children have fairly common, classic names. Neither of them have a friend with the same name which surprised me - they all have less common names like Fox, Monty and Delilah - which I don’t think will age as well. Some of the top 10 names in the UK are given to less than 1% of babies. They may have been in the top 10 for years, but that doesn’t mean you hear those names everywhere you go. If you’re looking for an unusual name, how about a classic name that could do with a revival, or even a common name with an unusual nickname?

Redberies · 25/06/2024 20:40

they all have less common names like Fox, Monty and Delilah - which I don’t think will age as well.

I think the opposite - classic but underused names will never sound 'dated' to a particular era, unlike top 10 names

Monty and Delilah could be any age!

CatrionaBalfour · 25/06/2024 20:40

I think if you choose a name which is a proper name, but not currently fashionable, then it will be unusual but not flaky.

Onelittlebluefish · 26/06/2024 07:34

Redberies · 25/06/2024 20:40

they all have less common names like Fox, Monty and Delilah - which I don’t think will age as well.

I think the opposite - classic but underused names will never sound 'dated' to a particular era, unlike top 10 names

Monty and Delilah could be any age!

I guess I’d never thought of Monty and Delilah as classic names… but I do see your point.
With regards to the top 10 names, maybe I should have said classic names and within the top 20 or possibly more. I mean names like William, Thomas and James which are consistently popular throughout time. Maybe I should delete my previous post and start again!! :)

Mouswife · 26/06/2024 07:35

Aurelia

ashiningbeaconinspace · 26/06/2024 08:06

If you want unusual, then I would suggest Alexa. Spellable, pronounceable and very unlikely to be used by anyone else these days.....

Summerflames · 26/06/2024 08:18

Oriunda · 25/06/2024 18:25

Cosmo is a boy’s name. Cosima would be the feminine version.

Makes me think of Cosmo and Dibs.