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Conor or Connor

146 replies

SquirrelBlue · 31/05/2024 10:44

I love this name (I know others won't!) but am trying to decide on a spelling. I'm in the UK and want my baby to have the easiest spelling possible so he's not having to correct people all the time. I've grown up with a similar issue and found it very tedious. I think Connor would be the most well known spelling but just wondering what others think. How would you spell it?

If anyone has any other Irish boys' names that are easy for Brits to say and spell, I'm open to suggestions. Cillian and Cormac are both ruled out unfortunately.

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FlatWhite2 · 31/05/2024 14:22

Jesus I regret commenting on the Protestant/catholic thing 😂 ok I’m wrong, you’re right. It really isn’t that deep. Conor is a nice name though!

ParentsTrapped · 31/05/2024 14:26

FlatWhite2 · 31/05/2024 14:22

Jesus I regret commenting on the Protestant/catholic thing 😂 ok I’m wrong, you’re right. It really isn’t that deep. Conor is a nice name though!

I (genuinely) have a friend who is Muslim but went to a Catholic primary school and was often asked if that meant she was a Catholic Muslim 🤣!

KirstenBlest · 31/05/2024 14:32

muddyford · 31/05/2024 13:41

I thought Conor was pronounced 'Coe-ner' and Connor 'Connor', but I may be thinking wrong.

The Irish Conor I know is not Coe-ner.

VibeOnWithMyGalPals · 31/05/2024 14:32

Definitely Conor

pontipinemum · 31/05/2024 14:38

I'd spell it Conor, I'm also Irish. It's a good name.

Cathal, Conal, Connell (surprised it didn't take a little jump after Normal people)

muddyford · 31/05/2024 14:48

KirstenBlest · 31/05/2024 14:32

The Irish Conor I know is not Coe-ner.

Yeah, I implied I wasn't sure.

Theoldwoman · 31/05/2024 15:07

Conor

MockneyReject · 31/05/2024 15:16

All the Irish Conors I know, spell it Conor.
The English ones spell it Connor - I have a 30 year old, and it was very popular, back then.

I just asked my 14 year old, and he doesn't know a single Conor, or Connor.
Maybe it's due a revival?

stressedespresso · 31/05/2024 15:51

Conor is the traditional spelling - I much prefer it.

mintich · 31/05/2024 15:53

Conor

mintich · 31/05/2024 15:54

Conor

Theladybirdthatheard · 31/05/2024 16:17

I have a Conor, I decided to go for the more traditional Irish spelling as my husband is of Irish heritage and we have an Irish surname.

Not sure if it bothers you but people do regularly misspell his name. Even family members who I really thought would learn to use a single "n" still spell it with two, and he's 6 years old already.

Either way it's a lovely name ☺️

resm · 31/05/2024 16:22

Conor as Connor is a surname. It just looks like a misspelling to me when I see it used as a first name with two Ns.

GeckoFeet · 31/05/2024 16:23

Connner

mikado1 · 31/05/2024 16:27

OchonAgusOchonOh · 31/05/2024 13:26

Nope. It can't have an i in it anyway (I assume you mean caoilan?) as it would break the "caol le caol ague leathan le leathan" rule where you have to have either a slender vowel (i, e) or a broad vowel (a, o, u) either side of the consonant.

Dialects are different in various parts of the country so, as with most Irish names, the pronunciation is location dependent, which means neither of us is wrong😁

Do you pronounce caol with a key sound rather than ay sound? Never heard of that. As pp says it would need an I, which you can't have as you say. It would be kway to me. Agree not one for ease in UK! Conor is the correct spelling as others have said, Connor is the surname.

mikado1 · 31/05/2024 16:30

OchonAgusOchonOh · 31/05/2024 13:36

Caoilfhionn is how I would spell the girl's name. I've never come across the spelling Caoileann but I know a few called Caoilfhionn.

I'm not a native speaker either but am friends with a few who pronounce it the same as me. It's really interesting how different some sounds can be in different dialects.

Mind you, I've been saying it out loud to myself just now and realised that it's not really a kwee in the same way caoimhe or caoilfhionn is kwee. It's more a kweh sound. So a very short, abruptly ended kwee maybe. I'm rubbish at writing things phonetically though so I really shouldn't try😀.

Ignore my pp, I see this now!

Baaliali · 31/05/2024 16:30

caol = q whale

OchonAgusOchonOh · 31/05/2024 16:37

mikado1 · 31/05/2024 16:27

Do you pronounce caol with a key sound rather than ay sound? Never heard of that. As pp says it would need an I, which you can't have as you say. It would be kway to me. Agree not one for ease in UK! Conor is the correct spelling as others have said, Connor is the surname.

Definitely not a key sound.

I was taught in school that "caol le caol" is pronounced sort of a short kweel, although leaning more towards kwehl. My Irish teacher was a Gaeilgeoir from Connemara. As I said, I'm rubbish at figuring out how to do the phonetic spelling thing so really shouldn't try.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 31/05/2024 16:38

Baaliali · 31/05/2024 16:30

caol = q whale

That's much closer to me pathetic efforts.

Clickncollect · 31/05/2024 16:47

I have a Conor aged almost 8 and I still love the name and the spelling (husband is Irish) - often spelt with an extra n by others….

NewName24 · 31/05/2024 17:15

"In the UK" is quite broad Grin

I'm in England, and the default way would be Connor. (Having worked in schools and Nurseries for nearly 40 years, that is statistically how it is spelt here).

If you are in one of the other Home Countries, that may well be different.
I would always name a child the most 'usual' way of spelling a well known name for the country they are going to be growing up in.

BaronessBomburst · 31/05/2024 17:23

I see your NI Protestants using Irish names and raise you my Irish Catholic family with several Williams!

ScoobyG · 31/05/2024 17:37

Conor. I have a Conor in my very rural, traditional Irish family. Also a Sean, Patrick and Padraig. Conall is lovely, so are Finn, Fintan, Ffion, Oisín and Braden.

ParentsTrapped · 31/05/2024 17:44

BaronessBomburst · 31/05/2024 17:23

I see your NI Protestants using Irish names and raise you my Irish Catholic family with several Williams!

I don’t think that’s too unusual @BaronessBomburst - I’m guessing they were more Liams than Billys?

Ime there aren’t as many “Protestant” names as catholics have always also used traditional and biblical names.

Evvyjb · 31/05/2024 17:45

My brother is Conor. Spelled the proper way (one n).

We also have a Conal, a Fionn and a Niall.

I ended up with an Anglicised name because otherwise ALL THE VOWELS.

Connah is awful...

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