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Would you consider these boys or girls names

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J3110 · 16/01/2024 20:52

We are currently set on the name Arlo for our baby boy due next month however I also love the names Sonny and Marley. Would you consider these boys names or girls names. I have personally only met one boy Sonny and no Marley's 🧐

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mathanxiety · 16/01/2024 21:39

All boys.

jm9138 · 16/01/2024 23:00

My two year old is Arlo. He is the most adorable little boy and his name really suits him. We thought we had picked a nice name that was easy to pronounce and spell (I have a daft surname), worked in English and German as we have German family and was not too common (I have a name that is so common it is more a description of a generation than a name). Within 6 months we met three other Arlos and we are in a small market town in Northumberland…

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 16/01/2024 23:02

I know Sonny's and Marley's who are boys.

eandz13 · 16/01/2024 23:11

They're all boy names. I like them!

gano · 16/01/2024 23:34

I consider them boys names. I know that people use Marley for girls, but I don't consider it a girls name.

RubaiyatOfAnyone · 16/01/2024 23:38

I just heard two Mum’s of 1 yr olds agreeing that they both fancied Marley for any future daughters.
all i could think of was “Marley was dead to begin with.” 😱

Strawberrycheesecake7 · 16/01/2024 23:44

All boys names to me. If I met a girl called Marley I wouldn’t think it was odd but I prefer it for a boy. Arlo and Sonny are very masculine to me and I would think it was a bit odd if I met girls with those names.

MirandaBlu · 16/01/2024 23:47

I know a woman called Sonny; her given name is Sonia but she rarely uses it in everyday life. She says people assume "Sonny" (if they see it written) is a man, and people who meet her or know she's a woman before seeing the spelling of her name assume that the spelling is "Sunny".

Marley is a surname, so unisex, but it skews feminine for me - maybe partially because it was super popular as a girls' name in South Africa about two decades ago, although sometimes spelled as Marlie or Marli - drawing from more traditional feminine names like Marlies, Marlene, Marla.

Watchthedoormat · 16/01/2024 23:47

Boys names.
Love Sonny

Coffeeandcakemum · 17/01/2024 01:07

I'd consider them both boys names

Scottyme · 17/01/2024 06:17

I'd consider them all male dog names

SallyWD · 17/01/2024 06:42

All boys names. I know one female Sunny

J3110 · 17/01/2024 07:11

sockmuncher · 16/01/2024 21:37

I would consider them dogs names. Especially Arlo.

Really?? Never met a dog named Arlo lol. I have however met plenty of dogs named Jess, Max, Ben, Bella and they are all pretty common baby names to me

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J3110 · 17/01/2024 07:12

RubaiyatOfAnyone · 16/01/2024 23:38

I just heard two Mum’s of 1 yr olds agreeing that they both fancied Marley for any future daughters.
all i could think of was “Marley was dead to begin with.” 😱

I'm not sure what you mean dead to begin with?

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Kalevala · 17/01/2024 07:16

J3110 · 17/01/2024 07:12

I'm not sure what you mean dead to begin with?

A Christmas Carol

CuriousGeorge80 · 17/01/2024 12:45

Arlo and Sonny - boys.
Marley unisex.
We had Arlo on our list but quite put off by how many there currently are, it’s become very popular. Not sure if that matters to you.

LauderSyme · 17/01/2024 13:06

I've met three male humans named Sonny and one male cat named Marley.

I have heard of a fair few female Sonnys and Marleys in the US but not the UK.

I had Sonny on my shortlist for ds but was worried it was a little too informal.

In the end I gave him a name I thought was lovely and unusual, only to see it become one of the top ten in the following few years!@jm9138 I think we unknowingly absorb things in the ether of the zeitgeist, iyswim.

OP, Arlo is a good, strong name and you know you like it a lot - but it's fine to consider alternatives, right up until you meet baby and firmly decide what suits.

clpsmum · 17/01/2024 13:15

I know several boys sonnys and one girl sunny. I know one girl and one boy Marley

Sequinne · 17/01/2024 13:21

Boys names.

I also know a pup named Marley but I also know dogs called Luna, Jenny, Max, Ralph, Jesse, Freddie and Archie (and many more human names!) so I don’t think it matters a jot.

DesertSnow · 17/01/2024 13:27

Boys. I think Arlo is the nicest

bobomomo · 17/01/2024 13:45

Dogs names, male dogs

DuchessOfSausage · 17/01/2024 13:57

Kalevala · 16/01/2024 21:24

Marley has the 'leigh' type ending usually used for girls.

So does Stanley, Charlie/Charley, Finley/Finlay, Kingsley, Oakley, Leslie etc

PickledScrump · 17/01/2024 14:20

All boys names but also quite soft sounding names. Marley is dog or a Christmas carol, Sonny just sounds like a nickname and Arlo to me is the dinosaur from a good dinosaur, although it’s become very popular now.

Sandysandwich · 17/01/2024 14:22

All boys but I wouldn't be suprised by a female Marley, I have just only heard it on boys.

Have heard Sunny as a girls name though, and a Suni short for Sunita. But Sonny looks more like a nickname for a son, so I would assume a boy.

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