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Is 'Isambard' child cruelty?

105 replies

SnuggleBuggleBoo · 10/10/2023 19:59

Ever come across one in real life?

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Runnerinthenight · 11/10/2023 00:14

It's just awful.

Ellmau · 11/10/2023 00:18

I rather like it.

You could use Bard for short.

TogetherWeLearn · 11/10/2023 00:26

I wouldn't say its cruel but it would be context dependent, on some people and in some places it would work well, others, just no!

Peaceandkindness · 11/10/2023 00:32

Be careful. I know plenty of people myself included that have called our children after much loved grandfathers or great fathers. Very often a shortened moniker can be used.

we have a family name on my mothers side going back 15 generations - I did seriously consider it for a middle name but in the end went for great grandfathers name. I’d prefer that then a made up name or a totally modern and new one - but I wouldn’t criticise anyone else.

we don’t have an Brunel name but I do know a Ezekiel, Zephaniah etc not mine and not in my family - but they are great little boys and great names (and not from very religious families either!). Likewise I know a lovely Ishmael and Bryon …..

EmmaPaella · 11/10/2023 00:35

Yes.

Inyournewdress · 11/10/2023 01:07

No of course not, it’s a great name.

piscofrisco · 11/10/2023 07:16

I really like it

gotomomo · 11/10/2023 07:29

@GirlFromTheBackstreetsOfNever

Interesting you also have met a Chardonnay - I knew sisters called Chardonnay and Merlot - mum proudly told the other mums she wanted something classy (was was very young, too young to purchase said wives when they were born) it took a lot of willpower not to laugh.

I personally would not saddle a child with isambard but mine do have traditional bible names

SoundTheSirens · 11/10/2023 07:34

RogueFemale · 10/10/2023 23:59

Knew someone whose brother was called Isambard. I can think of many far crueller names, such as Wayne, Peter, Tim, Kevin, etc.

Peter? Seriously? WTF is “cruel” about that? It’s just an inoffensive, slightly dated but otherwise entirely normal name that everyone knows how to spell and would raise very few eyebrows.

Mumsnet is a whole other universe sometimes.

TwilightSkies · 11/10/2023 07:36

Bloody hell it’s awful! Don’t saddle a child with that!

IncomingTraffic · 11/10/2023 07:44

It feels extremely attention seeking on the parents’ part.

But, I think that comparable girls names might be lauded on here. So who maybe loads of people will love isambard for a boy.

Fiddlerdragon · 11/10/2023 07:49

Poor kid 😂

Is 'Isambard' child cruelty?
CurlewKate · 11/10/2023 07:53

How about Isa?

muddyford · 11/10/2023 07:54

No worse than a lot of the stuff touted as possible names on MN.

SeulementUneFois · 11/10/2023 07:55

Saschka · 11/10/2023 00:03

There are some people who name their child Richard Head, or Michael Hunt. Those parents are abusive.

Izzy Jacob Brunel Thompson? Totally fine.

@Saschka
What's wrong with Michael Hunt?
(Sorry, I'm foreign and it just doesn't 'click' with me...)
(I assume the surname is what it is in any case.)

GoodOldEmmaNess · 11/10/2023 07:56

It's too much. OK for a middle name. If you are v keen on the Brunel connection, why don't you swap around Brunel's two first names so that your child would be called ... ah, well, perhaps notWink

Saschka · 11/10/2023 08:01

SeulementUneFois · 11/10/2023 07:55

@Saschka
What's wrong with Michael Hunt?
(Sorry, I'm foreign and it just doesn't 'click' with me...)
(I assume the surname is what it is in any case.)

Michael Hunt - shortens to Mike Hunt = my cunt.

fishfingersandtoes · 11/10/2023 08:02

People on here are weirdly vicious about name choices. Imagine being like that to someone's face! No-one would.
There's nothing wrong with Isambard at all, it's a cool, unusual name associated with engineering. Plus you could have the very normal sounding nickname of Sam if the kid wanted to blend in more.

MrsMoastyToasty · 11/10/2023 08:05

No I don't like it, but then one of our local secondary schools is called IKB Academy (we are near Bristol).

fattytum · 11/10/2023 08:07

Love it!

stickygotstuck · 11/10/2023 08:08

It's a great name. I'd use it.

I think people here have lost sight of the actual meaning of 'cruel'.

Cruel is calling a child Stoopid Smith, Ugly Jones, or Looser Thompson. Calling him an unusual name that happens to bring to mind a brilliant engineer is not.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 11/10/2023 08:10

We know one - he's about 9 and goes by Issy. When he was younger and had long curly hair I thought he was a girl called Izzy, but that could happen with lots of names.

TheaBrandt · 11/10/2023 08:10

I think you are being mean and snobby to snigger at Chardonnay. I know one lovely girl. Everyone just called her Char. Anything that’s not flipping Eve/Isabel/Grace follow the crowd tedium is fine by me.

Temporaryanonymity · 11/10/2023 08:12

I know one! He’s known as Bard. Schools are pretty diverse now, not everyone is called Dave or Susan.

lostraspberry · 11/10/2023 08:13

It's just another slightly unusual name of which there are lots around these days.

It's fine, I wouldn't choose it personally, but there's nothing wrong with it. It can easily be shortened to Sam if they choose (and probably will). I quite like Samba as suggested above.