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Help, she’s here but doesn’t have a name

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oopsnowits4 · 22/12/2022 20:59

Really struggling as we’ve either used our favourites or have family/close friends who’ve used them.

Need something short, unfussy to match siblings.

Names we kind of agree are a maybe:
lsla, Lara, Ava, Lyla, Kayla.

I also like Erin and Cara. He doesn’t.

He likes Clara and Layla. I dont.

We’re not miles apart really, but can’t find a solution. Probably because we’re overthinking it, but none stick out as feeling ‘right’.

Any thoughts/suggestions please. Any advice if you didn’t really have a favourite or couldn’t agree with partner so had to settle on a ‘maybe’ name. Did you grow to love it? Do you still have second thoughts?

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SylvanianFrenemies · 22/12/2022 21:20

Cora
Nina

BabyYoZenZen · 22/12/2022 21:20

Either Lara or Lyla are beautiful and very close to names your DH has suggested (Clara/Layla). Imo you can't go wrong with either. I'd go with Lara. No name will instantly feel like 'omg yes that's her!!!' as it's weird calling a new baby by any name you've chosen I think. Just keep calling her by her name anyway and after a few months it will feel more normal!

Fivebeanchilli · 22/12/2022 21:22

Anya
Cora
Cordelia
Sasha
Tara
Meredith nn Merry

Summer2424 · 22/12/2022 21:23

Hi @oopsnowits4
I was in a similar situation me and DH could not agree on any names. Finally we agreed on one but he was more swayed because of the meaning of the name.
If you like a name look up the meaning of the name and tell your partner hopefully he will be swayed and agree like mine did! x

Summer2424 · 22/12/2022 21:24

Forgot to say i like the names Lara and Ava!

fleur89 · 22/12/2022 21:24

We named our baby girl Elena which means shining light. We were torn between this and Aurelia but she came out with blue eyes and blonde hair so "shining light" it was to be!

ODFOx · 22/12/2022 21:25

She's here already? Then we absolutely need a picture for inspiration please!

DancingSober · 22/12/2022 21:28

Freyja?

ODFOx · 22/12/2022 21:29

lsla, Lara, Ava, Lyla, Kayla are your 'sort of' names which seem lovely but if we get to see her adorable face (given that in a month it will have changed completely and we won't track her down or stalk her in any way) it makes get be easier to make suggestions!

blueflagflyhigh · 22/12/2022 21:29

Couple of names I quite like that I didn't consider at the time are: Mila, Freya and Esme. There's some beautiful girls names around. I'm sure Ul find something you both like 🤞🏻

Our second daughter didn't have a name for a week. We had a couple of names we both liked thought we wld decide when she was born. You know the saying when u see baby Ul see what they look like and you'll know. Well that's a load of shite 😂 if anything I went off all the names apart from one. My dh liked the more traditional variation of the name and I liked her modern one. I'm not that stubborn and feel I always give in and compromise or let him "win". I refused to give in and dh eventually said oh just call her that then! 😀 I love her name and it really suits her I'm so glad I didn't compromise and give in.
Some of the names I went off at the time, I like again 😂

H1Drangea · 22/12/2022 21:29

Zara. Lara ….. Tara ….Sara

Anna

Laura

Zoe

Bonnie

Bryony

Faye

Ffion

Fleur

a few randoms to add to the mix !

3littleloves · 22/12/2022 21:30

Oh that's hard OP your name list is lovely. I love Isla and only didn't use it due to family member with same name, we went with Lilah and I love it

HairyToity · 22/12/2022 21:30

Please don't have a Lana, it is anal backwards.

Lara
Lyra
Mair (welsh name pronounced My-ah)
Anya
Ada
Anna
Hannah
Rowenna
Morgana

Ackity · 22/12/2022 21:32

Nola

Ebananascroogey · 22/12/2022 21:33

Mia
Freya
Also really like Fenella although that's probably not short enough

tunthebloodyalarmoff · 22/12/2022 21:34

Freya

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 22/12/2022 21:35

Lara is a lovely name. Larissa is you want something 'frillier'. Lana or Lois if you want something slightly different but similarly elegant

Swanna · 22/12/2022 21:35

I think you'd like Nina

Eixample · 22/12/2022 21:38

Naia
Petra

SkylightSkylight · 22/12/2022 21:39

Couldn't possibly say without a photo!!

Scoobydoobydoobydoo0987 · 22/12/2022 21:41

Chloe

uncomfortablydumb53 · 22/12/2022 21:43

Rhea
Ella
Laura
Lorna
Iona

ODFOx · 22/12/2022 21:46

lsla, Lara, Ava, Lyla, Kayla.

You are liking but not loving 2 syllable names, slightly off popular and ending with an A.

So let's swap out individual elements:
2 syllable names, slightly off popular, not ending with A:
Romy
Lucy
Lacey

2 syllable names, off popular, ending with an A
Nora
Cora
Mina
Mona
Mira
Shira
Sheena
Shona
Shola
Flora
Tia
Keira

3 syllable , ending with an A(or a vowel at least)
Olivia
Regina
Catriona
Clarissa
Corinna
Patricia

2 syllable, off popular, not ending in an A
Phyllus
Florence
Esther
Hettie
Carrie
Coral
Carol/Carole
Noelle
Polly
Mileage
Phoebe
Polly
Sukie
We hope something suits her !

JLQ1020 · 22/12/2022 21:47

Iona
Rhea
Isla
Sula

eatdrinkandbemerry · 22/12/2022 21:47

Lola
Orla
Harlia
Laini

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