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Assisi

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Mummysharkdoodoodoodoodoodoo · 05/10/2022 17:53

Met a baby Assisi today (via Zoom with an old friend) and I was surprised by how much I loved the name! Pronounced like 'Cici' with obviously an 'A' at the beginning - she is named after the saints and nicknamed Cici. I think it's beautiful and thinking about it am surprised it's not more popular? As other Italian place names are extremely popular - I know multiple Florence and Siennas and even a couple of little Romas, and a little boy named Milan. Was wondering what MN thought of this name - due an increase in popularity or think it will remain very rare?

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caitlinrose · 05/10/2022 19:03

kuvira · 05/10/2022 18:33

I knew an Assumpta when I was growing up. Assisi strikes me as the kind of name that might have been used by Catholic parents 50+ years ago. I think, in this day and age, any name that starts with "Ass" is a questionable idea.

I know an Assunta who was born in the late 90s. She's the youngest by far that I know of and she told me her name is out of style now and even though she didn't hate her name she didn't like the fact that it starts with "ass".

My guess is that now pretty much everyone in the EU is fluent in English (at least the younger people) these names might die out.

Sort of like Fanny has died out.

Mummysharkdoodoodoodoodoodoo · 05/10/2022 19:07

caitlinrose · 05/10/2022 18:58

I'm sorry, but is this a serious question? I cannot quite believe it.

Assisi has the word "ass" in it as well as the sound of the word "sissy". What are you going to call her for short? Sissy? Ass? Assy? I can't believe that you can't see how problematic this is and that you compare it to names like Milan.

I also don't think that this is a popular name among Catholics. Not here and not in Italy. I went to a Catholic school for some time, know lots of Catholics and a good number of Italians and none are named Assisi. There are plenty of sacred places that do not have the word "ass" in it and it is a word that people outside of the UK are definitely aware of.

Sorry, I really like unusual names, but this would be a burden I believe.

Sorry, I think you've misread! I'm not planning on using the name. A friend of mine used the name and I thought it was lovely and was surprised it was rare, so I wanted to know what MN thought. I'm not using the name - my friend has just used it and it's super uncommon so not exactly one I could copy! (As for not many Catholics using it - we are Catholic, and she knows it's not a common Catholic name, she doesn't mind that it's uncommon. She just chose it due to the saints.)

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Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:08

I like it.
When I saw it, I immediately thought of Amanda de Cadenet. I'm sure she named her daughter Assisi.
Off to Google....

GoldenGorilla · 05/10/2022 19:09

I have a lisp so basically can’t say it at all and hope it doesn’t become popular! Also I always think of how common lisps are in young children so I don’t like names with multiple s sounds.

VinoDino · 05/10/2022 19:10

Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:08

I like it.
When I saw it, I immediately thought of Amanda de Cadenet. I'm sure she named her daughter Assisi.
Off to Google....

Was it not Jade Jagger?

Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:10

Just googled. No, hers is Atlanta.
Ignore me !

Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:11

@VinoDino , ah, yes, I think you're correct.

Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:13

@VinoDino , Assisi, Amba and....Ray !!

VinoDino · 05/10/2022 19:14

Amdone123 · 05/10/2022 19:13

@VinoDino , Assisi, Amba and....Ray !!

😄 I actually don't mind Assisi at all!

2bazookas · 05/10/2022 19:16

Poor little Assisi, school nickname will be Donkey.

Palmfrond · 05/10/2022 19:19

As a Catholic myself it sounds like a bit of a misfire, and while Frances is a lovely name, Assisi makes me think of statues, medals and scapulae and a man, who while a wonderful saint, did also talk to birds and have stigmata, the latter of which I find a bit disconcerting.
But I’m sure for the vas majority of people it will be another unusual but quite nice name.

Bunny2006 · 05/10/2022 20:03

Assisi is the name of a computer system I've used in 2 jobs, I would've never thought anyone would be given it as a name

SeanChailleach · 05/10/2022 20:08

The sound is A-See-see, not a-sissy.
I know two women who use this spelling for their preferred nickname because Cici and CeCe can be pronounced cheechee or saysay. Both very Catholic, one Irish-Italian American.
I love the name, but then St Francis is a lovely fellow in my imagination - strict Catholic upbringing, see.

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 05/10/2022 20:09

It’s a pretty name but I don’t think I’d call it my child. Neither would I call them Clitomena or Poonam (no offence to other cultures where these are normal names!)

DurhamDurham · 05/10/2022 20:11

It's not unheard of, Jade Jagger's daughter has that name and she's an adult. I haven't heard of another but I don't dislike it, it's perfectly ok.

Calandor · 05/10/2022 20:17

I think it's cute with a lively sound

FruitToast · 05/10/2022 20:27

I mean if you can call a child Chicago or Brooklyn why not Assisi? It's just another place name after all.

Luredbyapomegranate · 05/10/2022 21:57

If you wanted to name her after the saint it would be Francesca, Francisca or Frances surely?

I think one of M Jaggers grandchildren is Assisi, but I think the Ass factor means that no it won’t catch on.

If you want Cici it’s usually short for Cecilia, another saint, of course

Zizou04 · 05/10/2022 23:39

Cismyfatarse · 05/10/2022 18:32

It is a poem by Norman MacCaig taught to loads and loads of Scottish kids. You would get actual groans from teenagers in my class if that was your name.

Yes! I knew how to pronounce the name because I studied this poem to the DEATH for my higher English in the 90s! 😂 It all came flooding back when I saw the name of the thread.

Ladywiddio48 · 05/10/2022 23:42

Mummysharkdoodoodoodoodoodoo · 05/10/2022 18:06

😳Poor child? For having Catholic parents?

Wow... didn't think the thread would take this turn !

No for giving a child the name of a place St Francis came from.One of the most famous Catholic saints.Perhaps you have never heard of him.

Mummysharkdoodoodoodoodoodoo · 06/10/2022 13:36

Ooh, page 2 was much more positive about Assisi, glad to see it! I genuinely think it´s lovely. To the poster who said it´s cute with a lively sound , I totally agree! I think this has summed up why I love the sound so much. Pair that with the link to the saints and cute nickname Cici and I just love it even more.

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WillPowerLite · 06/10/2022 13:49

That is a truly terrible name, and I feel rather bad for their daughter.

The mockery potential of Assisi is off the charts. Ditto Cici (which would 100% be CheeChee in Italian, so for an absolutely Italian name, they will confuse the Italians should Cici ever travel there). Sissy. Si si (yes yes).

Did the parents spend 30 seconds thinking that their baby would one day go to school??

If they wanted a connection to Assisi, or Umbria, or Perugia, or Italy in general, these are hundreds of better choices. Any saint all would have been better.

Mummysharkdoodoodoodoodoodoo · 06/10/2022 15:30

WillPowerLite · 06/10/2022 13:49

That is a truly terrible name, and I feel rather bad for their daughter.

The mockery potential of Assisi is off the charts. Ditto Cici (which would 100% be CheeChee in Italian, so for an absolutely Italian name, they will confuse the Italians should Cici ever travel there). Sissy. Si si (yes yes).

Did the parents spend 30 seconds thinking that their baby would one day go to school??

If they wanted a connection to Assisi, or Umbria, or Perugia, or Italy in general, these are hundreds of better choices. Any saint all would have been better.

You're rather missing the point. As I mentioned in a previous comment, they are choosing the name purely due to the connection to the saints, it's nothing to do with wanting a connection to Italy, although of course they like Italy . I lived and worked in Italy for several years, how offensive that you think people wouldn't be able to get their head around the name Cici and would think people were saying 'yes yes'. Italians do know about other languages and cultures? So rude.

The parents also aren't wanting to use an Italian pronunciation of Cici? How odd that this is presumed. I know multiple Siennas who are nicknamed Cici. Should they pronounce it Chee Chee too, because Sienna is also in Italy?

As I also said upthread, the 'see' sound in Assisi is pronounce like this - 'see'. Hence why the nickname is pronounced 'see-see'. It's the same as the name.

Like I also said earlier, I don't know how they are spelling 'Cici/see-see'. I spelled it like this: 'Cici' in this thread, because that's the commonly used spelling of the nickname in English. They might be spelling it differently, I don't know.

But it makes no logical sense for 'Assisi' to have the nickname 'chee chee' when this isn't even in the name?

I can't see any potential 'mockery potential' in the name Assisi, except that there is an 'ass' sound but I know a couple of Astrids who have never had any issue with this. Bullies will bully, they don't need a reason. So sad that you think parents should sacrifice a name that is meaningful for them to appease potenial bullies - in my high school a girl with the surname 'Warne' was ruthlessly bullied because the name rhymes with 'prawn'. Sounds ridiculous now, but it made her life a misery. So bullies will be bullies - they don't need a reason, they'll find one.

I think Assisi is a gorgeous name and I'm jealous I didn't think of it for my daughter!

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Regularsizedrudy · 06/10/2022 15:36

Ass sissy. Yeah can’t think why it’s not more popular

DismantledKing · 06/10/2022 15:37

Why not just call him Francis