Hi guys, please can you help me with a dilemma! Me and my sister are both pregnant with girls and we haven't discussed baby names with each other at all. She's much further along and today announced her babies name will be Cara. I'm now confused on what I should do as me and my partner have chosen Zara for our daughters name! Her babies middle name is going to be after our Grandmother who died last year and that was my plan. It's a situation where all I can think is what are the odds! I've had my daughters name made up in my mind for the last few years and I've never imagined naming my daughter anything else so I don't even have a back-up. I'm nervous if I go ahead she's going to think I copied her and it's going to cause a drama but at the same time it's the only name I've wanted for a girl. The middle name I'm happy to change to something else but would you change the first name in my situation?