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Arthur or Rupert?

33 replies

Mum2B36 · 22/04/2020 23:35

Hello

After much deliberation I think DH and I have narrowed our boys list to Arthur or Rupert. We like both these names.

My concerns are:

  1. Arthur is suddenly super popular - he will be one of many Arthurs in his class; and
  2. Rupert is persevered by some as pretentious. I am aware of the army slang term.

Really welcome your thoughts. We did have Albert (Albie) on the list but think Albert is maybe just a bit too out there for us.

Thanks

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whatausername · 22/04/2020 23:37

Rupert!

Arthur is a little dull imo.

DramaAlpaca · 22/04/2020 23:38

Of the two, Arthur. I don't think Albert is any more 'out there' than either Arthur or Rupert at all, and it's much nicer than Rupert.

whatausername · 22/04/2020 23:40

Re. perceptions of pretention around the name Rupert - unless you loudly talk about the make of your handbag/car or about choosing schools/horses/winter resorts you'll be fine :-P

Jamiladodger · 22/04/2020 23:44

Both fantastic choices. Great boy names.

I have 2 relatives in law, one old and one little, names Arthur.

Arthur could be nn'd Artie ?

If you like Rupert how about Reuben?

Best wishes.

Luckingfovely · 22/04/2020 23:57

I think Rupert is lovely and much underused - Arthur is the opposite.

Jossina · 23/04/2020 00:01

Rupert. Who is cooler than a Watcher?

weaselwords · 23/04/2020 00:07

I’m playing Red Dead Redemption 2, so it’s just got to be Arthur. Fabulous name.

Ellmau · 23/04/2020 00:09

Love Rupert.

sestras · 23/04/2020 00:16

I love Rupert.

123Dancewithme · 23/04/2020 00:32

Rupert

Astronica · 23/04/2020 00:37

Rupert

babynamelover · 23/04/2020 02:54

If popularity worries you more go with Rupert :).

Peachbubble · 23/04/2020 03:38

Rupert

mynameisMrG · 23/04/2020 03:41

I have an Arthur and an Albert 😊 I agree Arthur has hugely jumped up in popularity in the last few years so if that’s an issue for you Rupert is a lovely name too

Mumma4262 · 23/04/2020 06:32

I much prefer Arthur! And I know a little Albert, who goes by Albert.

Elephantonascooter · 23/04/2020 06:46

Rupert is my sons name! Don't care if its outing! I love it, so many people complimented us on it. Like pp said, as long as you don't go around mentioning makes of cars, ski resorts and private schools, you're fine!
Lots of nicknames for Rupert too. I was also aware of the army slang term, no one by DF has mentioned it to us.
Imo, Arthur is very common at the moment, there are 4 at DS nursery. I don't know another Rupert though.

userabcname · 23/04/2020 06:57

I prefer Arthur but I do know quite a few babies/toddlers with this name so if you want the less popular, go for Rupert.

toastofthetown · 23/04/2020 08:27

I prefer Arthur, however if popularity is a concern then maybe Rupert would be better for you. Both lovely names. Name popularity tends to be quite localised so Rupert might be more popular than Arthur, with no Arthur's in your son's class, but unless you know a lot of babies in your area this can hard to tell before you start meeting other babies. Rupert is rising rapidly in the rankings and will probably be in the top 100 when the 2019 names are published.

Mammyloveswine · 23/04/2020 08:50

I love Rupert!

What about Albert nn Bertie?

Shockers · 23/04/2020 08:53

I love Rupert. I named our first family dog Rupert when I was 4 (50 years ago Shock) because I loved it then. I still love it now!

He was a grand dog too.

emmathedilemma · 23/04/2020 08:59

I love Arthur and I don't think Albert is any more out there.
Not a fan of Rupert (and will have to google what the army connection is!).

redwoodmazza · 23/04/2020 09:19

One of our cats is Albert - Albie for short!!!

BellsofStClems · 23/04/2020 09:21

Rupert! nn Roo

Sewingbea · 23/04/2020 09:27

@emmathedilemma In army terms the phrase "he's a bit of a Rupert" used to refer to a posh (usually cavalry officer) who wore red trousers and was a bit of a twit. There is a website - look at my f* red trousers - if you are very interested Grin

Sewingbea · 23/04/2020 09:29

Bracket in the wrong place but I'm sure you get the idea....