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I didn't think this name would be so unpopular

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spookybitches · 21/04/2020 19:06

So all throughout my pregnancy, my husband and I kept our baby name choices to ourselves. My baby is now 2 months old, and nearly everyone we have met or spoken to, have mispronounced it. Granted, we haven't seen many people over the last few weeks, so now I'm starting to wonder if it's just my family or if it's really so unheard of?
My baby boy is called Cillian (DH Irish). My whole family pronounce it silly-an even when I've corrected them numerous times.
Can I ask if you would know how to pronounce Cillian? I'm worried I've set him up for a lifetime correcting people.

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Beautiful3 · 21/04/2020 19:44

I would have said silly ann too!! People dont know how to say it so keep reminding them.

Katjolo · 21/04/2020 19:45

I know the name. Lovely name.

Ohhgreat · 21/04/2020 19:45

Yep I'm another that would have said Silly-Ann.

ineedaholidaynow · 21/04/2020 19:45

I would have gone with a soft C, but once corrected would hopefully get it right especially if close family member.

HarrietM87 · 21/04/2020 19:46

I’m Irish so I know how to pronounce it. I think it’s lovely. It’s also becoming quite popular in England - I know of 2 born recently in London. People will get more familiar with it. My friend had a Niamh 8 years ago and at the start people in England didn’t know how to say it but it’s such a common name now most do.

oakleaffy · 21/04/2020 19:47

No, because not all languages pronounce things the same way as English. There isn't even a K in the the Irish alphabet.

I didn't know that Blush....And our Grandfather only spoke Gaelic -from Scottish Highlands..He'd be ashamed of me :)

Elouera · 21/04/2020 19:47

I've never seen or heard this name before. I too thought it was Silly-An.
Same as Gillian, but with an S or like
Cilia - a medical term. Tiny, hairline projections from certain cells!

Its rude though if family have heard they way you want it pronounced, yet still say it differently.

IHateMyPassportPhoto · 21/04/2020 19:48

Killian.

Enko · 21/04/2020 19:48

I worked with a Kil-lian (Cillian) many years ago so I would pronounce it with the K sound. I have a dd with an Irish name and people do learn how to say it and I am often asked " how do you say it" when people see it written down. I perfectly fine with explaining.

The name is not an issue it's a great name IMO. Your issue is your family. Personally I would go with a firm" please stop that joke now I have had enough of it and I don't find it funny" when they respond the inevitable "it's only a joke" respond " it is only a joke if everyone finds it funny and I just told you I didn't so please stop"

villainousbroodmare · 21/04/2020 19:50

Lovely name, I have three kids with much more obscure Irish names and live outside of Ireland. Sorry to say it, but your family are being hateful. It's not hard.

Clickncollect · 21/04/2020 19:52

Great name OP - I know how to pronounce it as DH is Irish (we live in England) and it was on our boys list. We went for Conor in the end for simplicity!

3littlerabbits · 21/04/2020 19:52

One of my absolute favourite names!

YakkityYakYakYak · 21/04/2020 19:52

Sympathies OP, I also gave DD a name that I assumed everyone knew how to pronounce. Apparently not. Friends and family remember it soon enough, it’s annoying having to constantly correct strangers though so I do feel bad that DD will have a lifetime of it.

buzz91 · 21/04/2020 19:52

As with others Kill-e-un, like Cillian Murphy

Iwalkinmyclothing · 21/04/2020 19:52

I'd guess at silly but I'd bloody remember it was killy after one telling. It's a lovely name.

JoeExoticsHusband · 21/04/2020 19:52

I would pronounce it Kill-ian because of Once Upon a Time. but before I'd heard of the name silly-an probably 😳

StudentHelp · 21/04/2020 19:53

I’d say Kill e ann

OchonAgusOchonO · 21/04/2020 19:54

@oakleaffy - I didn't know that blush....And our Grandfather only spoke Gaelic -from Scottish Highlands..He'd be ashamed of me smile

I don’t know the Scottish alphabet but as the language is very similar to Irish, it’s possible there’s no K in Scots Gaelic too.

Chiropterarex · 21/04/2020 19:54

Kill-e-an

Cillian Murphy, the actor.

www.babynamesofireland.com/cillian

TheLightGetsIn · 21/04/2020 19:54

I would have known, but I'm half Irish.

The UK is a multicultural country, and people are entirely capable of learning how to pronounce names not immediately familiar to them. Don't worry about it. It's a really nice name, and very appropriate for a baby who is half Irish. Your family will just have to adjust.

YakkityYakYakYak · 21/04/2020 19:55

To add - Cillian is a lovely name and I do know how to pronounce it

fluffy71 · 21/04/2020 19:55

It’s killi un to me. A lovely name, my friends little boy called it. Can’t see why they would pronounce it Sillyun

WitchQueenofDarkness · 21/04/2020 19:55

Kill - ee - ann but also Welsh so used to the hard C

Megjobethamy · 21/04/2020 19:55

I think it’s a lovely name, I’m Irish so I know it..

perniciousdot · 21/04/2020 19:55

I know someone through an old parenting site who has a Cillian and for about 10 years I read 'silly - an' it wasn't until someone new asked how it was pronounced and she said 'killy - an' that I knew how to say it properly. Thankfully I didn't meet up with her Blush

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