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If you could choose your surname...

130 replies

ButterflyOfFreedom · 15/11/2019 14:53

...what would it be?

A bit random I know but sometimes I hear a surname and think 'ooh, that's a good one'!

Mine is pretty comical but definitely could be worse... though if I could choose, I'd go for Cathcart or Brocklebank! Smile

What would you pick?

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Eckhart · 15/11/2019 22:50

I like 'Black'. It's so cool. I used to like 'Gray' too, but now there's 50 shades of it, it's lost it's style a bit.

LuluBellaBlue · 15/11/2019 22:51

Wolf or Lovejoy!

emmetgirl · 15/11/2019 22:51

I'd like to be called Anastasia Beaverhausen.

OhWellThatsJustGreat · 15/11/2019 22:52

@FredaFrogspawn I loved that story, so moving, I'm going to do some research and visit!!
I've really enjoyed reading this thread. I didn't take my dps surname, with my first name, it became too many A's.

I'd really like something like Lancelot.

OctoberLovers · 15/11/2019 22:54

I was speaking to a policeman on a bus once and he was PC CHRISTMAS
I wanted to become his wife :)

Yep, the surname Christmas would be cool

InsertFunnyUsername · 15/11/2019 22:58

My name....The 3rd.

All regal and shit.

spookysamhainwitch · 15/11/2019 23:00

@FredaFrogspawn most interesting comment I've read in a long time.

I'm also liking flowerbutton.

Claricethecat45 · 15/11/2019 23:08

I have - for no explicable reason - been drawn to the name 'Fane' as a surname..

Ive never known a Fane, but for as long as I can remember Ive liked it so I have obviously heard of one- perhaps i was one in a previous life!

A surname that goes with every first name - IMO- is Russell or Lloyd...unless these happen to be your first name but I would have liked any of these - I have never changed from my birth name and never took husbands as i find that just weird and MIL'ish :)

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 15/11/2019 23:15

I’m not sure really. I’ve always quite liked alliteration names. My first name is Clare so Clare Clarkson would be quite nice.
I went to school with someone who had a cool alliteration name. Think a long the lines of Andrea Anderson.

NoHummus · 15/11/2019 23:15

Beauregard, or Moncrieff. Something that sounds like I am the owner of a very large house in the country!

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 15/11/2019 23:23

I like Carmichael and I think it’s from reading A Little Princess. She imagines that the Large Family are called Montmorency and us disappointed to discover that their actual name is Carmichael - but I always liked Carmichael better.

Tillygetsit · 15/11/2019 23:26

My maiden name was ridiculous, my first married name highly embarrassing and my 2nd married name reassuringly normal so I love it but if I could chose a new one, it would be Bellamy. Great sound, nice meaning. Really interesting thread. Those poor little mites with their tokens. Very poignant.

MollyHuaCha · 15/11/2019 23:36

I'd love to be Molly Shakespeare.

Episcomama · 15/11/2019 23:37

Monterey, Verhalen or Van Vessem.

MrsFoxPlus4Again · 15/11/2019 23:43

Romano, I knew a girl with that name and always thought she was the coolest

Miljea · 16/11/2019 00:03

Landsborough. So classy! 😂

However, not sad to leave my maiden name behind, one of those you say, then immediately spell (sort of Irish).

Married name is easy, bog standard, but I like it. It's a occupational' name, like Barker, Cooper, or Thatcher. But not Smith 😊

Miljea · 16/11/2019 00:05

Cathcart- as in Cathcart Towers? Wasn't that a Heathrow hotel in A Fish Called Wanda?

Or am I misremembering!

isadoradancing · 16/11/2019 00:08

@Candle1000 me too!

Joans3rddaughter · 16/11/2019 00:12

My maiden name was quite unusual but is a famous brand name. My husband thought I might be an heiress. Sadly I'm not.

Miljea · 16/11/2019 00:13

Being of Cornish extraction (strongly!) I wish my surname were Penhaligon, Trerice, Trelawney etc. Great strong name.

But I stuck with de Pfeffel Johnson 😉

AliceAforethought · 16/11/2019 02:07

I like my (married) surname, it’s unusual and Eastern European. We’re the only ones in the UK ... I think!

As I child I always wanted the surname Delacroix; but now, if I had to change, it would be Gillespie. There are various reasons, but more than anything it’s a name you can really get your teeth into!

FredaFrogspawn · 16/11/2019 08:33

Thanks for the comments on the post about the Foundling Museum. If you can visit, please do - it’s really worth it. Outside on the railings is a tiny baby’s mitten in cast iron by Tracy Emin, looking like it has been stuck there having been found abandoned, so look for that.

One of the safest things on display (as well as the tokens which make me cry every time I go) is a letter trying to persuade the trustees that an unmarried mother really was made pregnant against her will so they should take the baby. There were far more babies than places for babies in the hospital so they had a lottery to assign the places. Many parents if abandoned babies were traced and forced to take their babies back, or turned away at the door.

A place was a guarantee that your child, who would more than likely die otherwise, would be fed, clothed and apprenticed/found a job eventually. And even then, monitored for fair treatment.

Sorry for the hijack!

I would like to be a Sheridan. Having said that, my married surname with my first name is Mills and Boon romantic. I should like I should be dressed in a flowing gown angsting on a wild moor about a bounder called Cliff or Peregrine.

Sadly I am a stumpy, plump, dumpy, almost dusty, , middle-aged scruff who loves museums.

FredaFrogspawn · 16/11/2019 08:33

Safest - saddest

TheVanguardSix · 16/11/2019 08:38

I live near a churchyard and there are a lot of very old headstones. My favourite surname in there is Goodenough. What a name? Grin
I saw Flowerbuttons upthread. Isn't that brilliant?
As for naming a baby, walk through churchyards! You'll find all sorts of amazing first names to choose from.
My maiden name is Wolf. I LOVE my maiden name. My married name is rather boring and middle of the road.

NeedAnExpert · 16/11/2019 10:04

My maiden name is Wolf. I LOVE my maiden name. My married name is rather boring and middle of the road.

Why on earth did you change it then?

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