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Harley or Harleigh for a girl

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MamaToAli · 26/10/2019 22:32

Which one seems more feminine?

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BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 10:14

Oh, of course it’s a boy’s name. She’s a girl. A girl is a brilliant thing to be. Give her a girl’s name.

RolytheRhino · 27/10/2019 10:20

It is a girl's name. AND a boy's name. It's unisex.

Ontheblackhill · 27/10/2019 10:25

Boys name. Know three, all boys. Please call your child a girls name or a unisex one. Might as well call her James.

bobstersmum · 27/10/2019 10:27

The name Harley to me can only be said in a scouse accent, I think its from when I used to watch Footballers Wives!

Confuseddotcotton · 27/10/2019 10:27

I know 2 Harleys, both girls.
I think therefore it’s safe to say it’s unisex.

BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 10:32

The vast majority of Harleys are boys.

Why would you give a girl a name that was at all ambiguous about her sex? Being a girl is brilliant. Don’t do anything that means anyone is in any doubt, or where she has to correct people.

Arnoldthecat · 27/10/2019 10:37

Neither..

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RolytheRhino · 27/10/2019 11:03

The vast majority of Harleys are boys.

Where'd you get that data from? I'd like to see it.

Why would you give a girl a name that was at all ambiguous about her sex? Being a girl is brilliant. Don’t do anything that means anyone is in any doubt, or where she has to correct people.

Maybe because there's more to individuals than what sits between their legs and not all parents feel the need to have their child named in a way that announces their sex to the world? I see nothing wrong with unisex names, and tbh, since the Harley Quinn character became so very mainstream I'd think most of the child's peers would think of it as primarily a female name.

BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 11:10

Harley

“ Maybe because there's more to individuals than what sits between their legs and not all parents feel the need to have their child named in a way that announces their sex to the world?”

This would carry more weight if people ever gave their boys names which are traditionally used for girls. But they don’t. Unless you know different?

WhenPushComesToShove · 27/10/2019 11:13

Just remember all your indulgent fancy spellings and wanting to be different names sentence your child to a lifetime of having to say their name twice at least before anyone gets it and always having to spell it for people. As pps have said your daughter will be known as a bike or a good ride etc. This name is only cool for a dog

RolytheRhino · 27/10/2019 11:20

This would carry more weight if people ever gave their boys names which are traditionally used for girls. But they don’t. Unless you know different?

Off the top of my head, Rainbow is traditionally a female name, yet Rainbow Sun Francks is a male actor. It does happen, just not as commonly.

BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 11:32

Rainbow isn’t a traditional name for either sex! There have been about 30 in the U.K. since 1996- all girls.

BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 11:35

Any other examples of parents applying the “unisex” principle to naming their boys? Male Roses and Emilys?

DPotter · 27/10/2019 11:39

People will think you have said Hayley, whichever spelling you go for.

FizzyGreenWater · 27/10/2019 12:13

Well I don't like either, just ot hold my hands up. But even that aside, neither are feminine sounding, at all. They're both harsh, hard words whose associations are masculine. That's just a fact.

So if you want something more feminine, pick a girls' name!

RolytheRhino · 27/10/2019 12:17

There have been about 30 in the U.K. since 1996- all girls.

See, told you so. Generally a female name, but has been given to a male.

I'm supposed to be working right now, you know...

SilverySurfer · 27/10/2019 13:05

BertrandRussell
Any other examples of parents applying the “unisex” principle to naming their boys? Male Roses and Emilys?

Of course not, some seem to think giving a girl a boy's name will mean she will be treated equally with boys when it comes to obtaining jobs and equal salaries etc - maybe when hell freezes over.

I don't like either and can foresee jokes about her being ridden in the teen years. Is that really what you want for your daughter?

teachandsleep · 27/10/2019 13:11

Don't do it. It's a naughty child name and there are loads of them!

sue51 · 27/10/2019 13:11

How about Hailey instead?

LuisaKelmen · 27/10/2019 13:14

Neither, what about Harlow or Harlean?

purpleleotard · 27/10/2019 13:17

Probably neither

BertrandRussell · 27/10/2019 13:20

“Harlow- the t is silent”

marshallzumarubble · 27/10/2019 13:23

There were 1011 baby boys born called Harley last year and 211 girls so yes, the majority of Harleys are boys....

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