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DESPERATE NEED OF GIRL NAMES

46 replies

Kaytie14 · 02/07/2019 19:47

Help in need of two baby girl names...

After struggling with infertility my husband and I decided to adopt. Which is where we got our beautiful little girl, Averie Estelle. We are currently 32 weeks pregnant with our baby girl Norah Elizabeth. We where recently informed Averie’s birth mother was expecting twin girls around the same time as us, and she wanted us to adopt them. Of course we said yes, but with only a few weeks notice we are struggling to find names. Are doctors are arranging for us to deliver (c-section) on the same day, beginning of August.

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whizzpopbangalang · 02/07/2019 20:00

Congratulations! What a lovely story.... from one girly to four!

Your girls names are gorgeous....
Similar ideas

Ophelia Erin
Theodora Evelyn
Anya Jasmine
Clara Josephine

LuannC · 02/07/2019 20:13

Just gonna through some names out :)
Freya. Angelica. Laurelle. Cynthia. Claudia. Geri. Clarisse. Taya. Janany. Jayanthi. Lyla. Francesca. Emelia. Tilly. Shareen. Kaia. Bexley. Ayomi. Christa. Farrah. Erralyn. Alena. Mabel. Justine. Winona. Naemah. Shania.

gracepoolesrum · 02/07/2019 20:20

Lydia Amy
Marianne Tess
Yolanda Rae
Isadora Charlotte
Piper Zoe

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 02/07/2019 20:40

I agree what a gorgeous story.
Averie. Norah.
Clarissa and Penelope.
Evelina and Tabitha
Fallon and Farrah. (Might be too similar,though)
Cassidy and Kendall.
Merryn and Piper.
Marnie and Violet
Vivienne and Juliette
Briony and Coralie
Judith and Florianna
Dorothy and Bronte
Maybelle and Helaina

makingchange · 02/07/2019 20:42

Skye and Alexis

Loveislandaddict · 02/07/2019 20:46

Rowan
Remi
Demi
Cara
Tilly
Serena
Serephina
Octavia
Ophelia
Daphne
Thelma
Merle
Joy
Purdy
Esme
Dulcie
Antonia
Celia

Peachbubble · 02/07/2019 20:47

Vivica
Cressida
Anouk
Hester
Tansy
Nerissa
Finola
Blythe

Icklepup · 02/07/2019 21:44

Averie, Norah, Posie, Maeve
Averie, Norah, Veda, Romy
Averie, Norah, Sadie, Cassia

Peitho · 02/07/2019 22:09

Wow.

Prettylittlelady · 02/07/2019 22:32

That’s a beautiful story. I don’t have much to add other than you should give you’re lovely new twins middle names beginning with E:
Evelyn
Esther
Eva
Ella

diddlediddle · 02/07/2019 22:37

Are you in the U.K.? Usually they won't allow you adopt at the same time as you are pregnant 🤔 but good luck!

Tillygetsit · 02/07/2019 22:38

Wow! Good luck and lots of love to you and your babies!
Averie Estelle, Norah Elizabeth, Carissa Echo and Thalia Emily?

Kaytie14 · 02/07/2019 22:51

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AverageMummy · 03/07/2019 03:07

@diddlediddle completely normal to aim to keep siblings together so adoptive parents of earlier children are regularly the first approached. My friend adopted a 9 month old after a 5 year process then just months later became pregnant. She was still
asked if she was willing to take the next baby as birth Mum was 5 months pregnant. It’s not the same process when placing babies with extended family.

AverageMummy · 03/07/2019 03:11

These are all really rare:
Dulcie

Theodora
Juliet

I also like the idea of all girls having middle names beginning with E.

Will the new baby not have been legally named & registered before going through the legal process though?

diddlediddle · 03/07/2019 05:52

@AverageMummy oh cool, thanks for clarifying. Good luck op

Kokeshi123 · 03/07/2019 06:08

No name suggestions, but just wanted to mention that families who are in this unusual situation are in a unique position to make valuable contributions to research on childrearing and personality development.

Children who are unrelated but raised at the same timely the same families (usually due to adoption and surprise pregnancy) are called "virtual twins" or "artificial twins", and tracing their journeys as they grow up can provide some fascinating insights into the whole nature/nurture debate--and the fact that this has happened with a pair of biological twins as well makes this a very rare scenario.

If the OP is interested in the possibility of contributing to some valuable research that might be very useful to doctors and parents, I'd urge her to get in touch with Nancy Segal, who is the world's foremost authority on twin research and twin studies.

Crunchymum · 03/07/2019 13:00

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colourlessgreenidea · 03/07/2019 13:54

and the fact that this has happened with a pair of biological twins as well makes this a very rare scenario

Maybe even a completely unique scenario Shock

ladypenelopeplum · 03/07/2019 13:58

Good luck OP, you're going to need a lot of support.

suspiriorum · 03/07/2019 14:05

carlyle
adeena
andrèa
calista
calliope

Schuyler · 03/07/2019 15:19

Is birth mum not going to name them? I assumed she named her first lovely named child. Congratulations. Flowers

Name ideas;
Julianna
Elodie (perhaps for a middle name to fit with the E middle names)
Octavia

00100001 · 03/07/2019 17:01

wait...what....? pretty sure you can't just adopt someone else' s babies at the drop of a hat.... the mother has a right to change her mind... the babies would be in foster care until any formal decisions are made??

and you are financially and mentally capable of raising non-related triplets...? and you're ok with this with only a "few weeks" notice?

and you're all conveniently having a c-section on the same day... ?

AverageMummy · 03/07/2019 17:03

In this country most adoptions aren’t by choice & they are often known ahead of the birth with a court order for removal (sometimes immediately at birth). I obviously don’t know about this particular situation.

colourlessgreenidea · 03/07/2019 17:26

and you are financially and mentally capable of raising non-related triplets...? and you're ok with this with only a "few weeks" notice?

It is rather puzzling that the authorities have agreed adoption of newborn twins at the same time that the OP is having a baby, and at short notice. I wonder where in the world this is? I have friends (UK) who’ve had to jump through hoops to meet the criteria to adopt a second (older) baby, and the process was very lengthy.