Eden - is it too 'feminine'?

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DP and I both loved the name Eden for a boy (I've loved it for years), but have had several comments that it's a girls name and that a boy would be made fun of with it.

Opinions? Would it cause confusion/bullying? It is a unisex name.

I know one of each, it's a lovely name :)

I think it’s one of those names that you associate with kids you know. For me, that would be two girls and so it doesn’t seem unisex, it definitely means I expect a child called Eden to be a girl. Those who know only boy Eden’s will feel the opposite. So yes, lots of people make assumptions.

Does that bother you?

It’s a very feminine sounding name.

Everyone will assume you're Chelsea fans...

@SchnitzelVonKrumm wait... why?

It sounds more"earthy" than femminine to me I know of 2 Edens girl and boy, boy Eden is now a man and his mum was newage hippyish sorry for rambling but if you like it use it .

My DD is called Eden and I got a lot of comments that it was a boy's name

Would always associate it with a girl, and I don't even know any children with that name. It is lovely for a girl though.

I know a male Eden.

It sounds masculine to my ears.

I've only ever known girls called Eden and didn't realise it was supposed to be unisex.

I would assume it is a girl. Although my child has a name that was normal in our home country but here apparently sounds like it’s for a girl. He hasn’t been scarred.

It sounds girly to me but lots of names do like Ellis for example - people quickly adjust & their generation will have an enormously diverse set of names so I very much doubt it would be a problem. If they’re bothered at all they’d just go by Ed?

Eden Blackman.

I know one man and two girls named Eden. My automatic assumption is female, but that might be because the first Eden I knew was a girl iyswim. I wasn’t shocked to meet a male Eden, but I was an adult by then.

I think it’s probably uncommon enough you could still use it for either.

It's a metrosexual type of name imo.

@MrsEricBana where I first heard it!

It sounds girly to me but lots of names do like Ellis for example - people quickly adjust & their generation will have an enormously diverse set of names so I very much doubt it would be a problem.

Totally agree with this - my experience is that children just aren’t judgmental or weird about names in the way that posters on the MN baby names board some of their parents can be.

I named my Dd Eden after first hearing the name in Ruth Rendell's A Dark Adapted Eye, which was on TV when i was a teenager. So it's feminine for me. I have heard of it as a male name, though.

Agree with 'NellWilsonsWhiteHair'

It's definitely a boy's name, and I was surprised to hear people calling their daughters Eden, though it's much more common for names to move from male to female than the other way, I suppose.

In theory it's a unisex name but in current practice it's almost always a girl. So I would hesitate to use a name for one sex that in current practice is mostly used for the other.

I'd think you were Chelsea fans too

I know a boy and girl Eden - neither is teased about their name

How is Ellis girly?