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Does my son have an awful name?

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tabithamay · 15/11/2018 07:53

I’ve done a similar thread on Nameberry but wanted other people’s opinions. I have a 17-year-old DS who’s started his second year at college, and we chose Ernest Leopold as a first and middle, after my DH’s great-grandfather. Recently, he’s become very aware of it as people are telling him how ugly/old-fashioned/frumpy/strange it is. What do you think?

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tabithamay · 15/11/2018 09:54

He was rather put-out because he’s taking History A-Level and they’d starting doing King Leopold for the British Empire module, who obviously was a complete tyrant and he was absolutely mortified! Shock

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EdWinchester · 15/11/2018 09:55

Ernie is OK, I'd encourage that.

And good idea to get the ID card changed - no-one wants their full name on there.

MorbidlyObese · 15/11/2018 09:58

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PrivateDoor · 15/11/2018 09:58

It will be better when he gets the card changed. The names are pretty dreadful imo but I am sure you would think the same of the names I picked, we all have different tastes. At the end of the day it is done now and you cannot change it so all you can do is encourage him to learn to love it.

itisitis · 15/11/2018 10:00

He has a good solid name. My daughter is 7 and hates her name (phoebe), which is a shame as it was just a name which came to me spontaneously in the delivery room. But she really dislikes it and I have to come to terms with the fact that when she can change it, she probably will.

Try let him see the longevity of the name. It makes me cringe to think in 10 years time I'm going to be having board room conversations with Teddy's, Pixie's, Roccos and Harmonies etc. Whilst cute names are cute when children are little, they are soon outgrown. He has a good name, it'll grow with him.

lazymare · 15/11/2018 10:00

As you've asked, then yes I don't think it's great.

Perfectpeony · 15/11/2018 10:01

No. Ernest is a fabulous name. He should own it. Smile

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 15/11/2018 10:01

There's also Ernie Macmillan in Harry Potter.

Cosmoa · 15/11/2018 10:01

I do think it's old fashioned and not my cup of tea. But I find it odd that people are pointing it out. Once I'm told someones name I very much just accept it. Unless it's a name I love! If I love the name I hear I always tell the person!

Pompom42 · 15/11/2018 10:04

I really like the name it's not stupid or old fashioned. I think it's the age and he's aware he isnt called Joshua or Bailey etc or a super modern name.
When he's older I think he won't even think twice about it.

MeMeMeow85 · 15/11/2018 10:04

It’s the perfect name for a 19th century Prussian king. Yes, I think it’s an awful name.

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 15/11/2018 10:07

There were 182 Ernests born in 2017, more popular than Christopher, Richard,Timothy, Hugh, Paul, Simon, Stephen, Philip, Ian - all names that were everywhere when I was growing up.

flissfloss65 · 15/11/2018 10:08

He should ask for a new badge with just Ernest on it.

Or own the names and just have a comeback about them.

I like your dd’s nickname for him of Nesto. I’d call him Ernst.

FellSwoop · 15/11/2018 10:09

I think it's a great name. Love it.

tabithamay · 15/11/2018 10:11

He does have a Danish friend in one of his classes who calls him Ernst. He does love that, as do I.

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tabithamay · 15/11/2018 10:11

Which I think is because that’s how it’s translated in Denmark, Germany, etc.

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SchadenfreudePersonified · 15/11/2018 10:12

Merlotmummy

Are you a Sydney?

Just curious.

Ariela · 15/11/2018 10:15

My grandpa was Ernie, he was born in Victorian times. I like the name, at least people will be able to spell it correctly, it's not one of these silly modern names with made up spelling or double barrelled nonsense.

LillianGish · 15/11/2018 10:17

No he doesn’t have a dreadful name, but it is from the Jacob Rees Mogg book of baby names so not entirely surprised that some kids are making fun of it. I’m surprised it’s taken 17 years for this to happen and that friends haven’t got used to it by now. It is a distinctive name, but presumably that was the idea when you gave it to him. He needs to own it.

RedRoseReb · 15/11/2018 10:18

He can namechange to Ernst for the duration of college!

At least he has learned to put whatever name he prefers to be known by on such cards or when registering for courses or jobs.

junecat · 15/11/2018 10:23

My Dad is Ernest but shortened to Ernie. My Nephew has named his little boy after him and he's an Ernie too :)

He seems to fit in with everyone else at reception, lots of children with older names x

tabithamay · 15/11/2018 10:26

I think now the old names are coming back, but less so for his generation, and there’s an abundance of Jack, Will, Tom, Alfie, Josh, etc.

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ittakes2 · 15/11/2018 10:29

I also really like it but yes very old fashioned. Surely you just call him Ernie or Leo?

vasmontenegro · 15/11/2018 10:40

I might have a wee bit of enlightenment on this. I work with kids’ names: I make personalised decorative name signs, and my orders over the last year for baby nursery and younger children shows a subtle turn in the tide from ‘creative’ , spelt in phonetic rather than correct way, show-off, ‘I want to be unique’ type names to far more classic, Victorian and Edwardian names.

I make a lot of Mabel, Olive, Agatha, Albert, Reuben, ...

And much less Chantanelle, Jaydon, Amelia-Rose, Kaden, Ka$H,...

And yep, Kash was spelt with a dollar sign instead of an S. That child’s life must be mapped out for him already.

I think people are gradually becoming fed up of the whole celebrity over sharing, turning themselves inside-out on social media for the whole world to see their innards, i’m so unique yet somehow I’ve styled myself to look like every other person who thinks they’re unique too, ....

There’s also an Ernie in my son’s junior school class and he’s one of the cool little kids!

Leopold just brings to mind Belgium or Russia for me, and our country has an Eastern European or two in every classroom now with their (especially the Lithuanians) names that look like they’ve been shook up in a hat and too many vowels have fell out! So kids are growing up used to unusual names with their friends.

peachescariad · 15/11/2018 10:43

Why are you even asking now? What's the point?...or your point? he can't change it...poor lad

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