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what do you think when you hear the name Tristan?

132 replies

jaffacakes21 · 02/06/2018 17:10

DH and I are really struggling with a name for our second DC due any day now. We both like Tristan but neither of us are completely convinced by it. I like that it is a traditional but uncommon name, and DH likes that it is Celtic.

My main concern at the moment is that if you google Tristan it comes up with loads of pages about Tristan Thompson and the Kardashians! I hate the thought of that being people's first thought when they hear the name.

What do you think about it?

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Notonthestairs · 02/06/2018 18:33

I like sweetboykit's list of names but I'd remove Terence and add Jonathan.

peachypetite · 02/06/2018 18:33

Pretentious

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 02/06/2018 18:36

Tristan Farnon, brother of Siegfried.

IncidentalAnarchist · 02/06/2018 18:37

Cornwall

lljkk · 02/06/2018 19:07

Teen DS is a Tristan.
We were partly thinking of a friend (athletic scientist) when we named him.
DS is quite emotional and a marmite person, most people don't understand him at all. So of the thoughts above, he could tick the boxes for knob, scientist, clever, handsome, wet and... likely to live at home forever.

I actively dislike many of the supposed related names someone suggested.

LineysSummerMonths · 02/06/2018 19:27

Also, Tris is a great abbreviation / nn.

PaulHollywoodsSexGut · 02/06/2018 19:31

I’m with you OP on the associations.

I was properly in love for a long long time with a Tristan, I loved him unlike anyone I’ve ever loved. But it was just never ever meant to be. He never broke my heart and I knew we fundamentally weren’t compatible but he was a genius, a mad, funny, beautiful clever genius who I still think about too much.

Maybe that’s why I love the name so much.

woodhill · 02/06/2018 19:34

All creatures great and small but I like the name

NutCase82 · 02/06/2018 19:39

I love it, was on my boys names list

Sailinghappy · 02/06/2018 19:39

It makes me feel "sad" because that's what 'triste" means in French, Spanish, Italian, Welsh etc

EdWinchester · 02/06/2018 19:42

Mimsy.

weebarra · 02/06/2018 20:08

My first love - I was eleven.
& Isolde.
A fabulous son of friend, just turned 8.

sweetboykit · 02/06/2018 20:23

Theodore has been ruined for me by Teddy in Prison Break. How about Wentworth?

Madmarchpear · 02/06/2018 20:25

Split down the middle thinking effeminate public school boy/hunky beau of Isolde.

yeahforsummer · 02/06/2018 20:26

Public school
James Herriott

Chilver · 02/06/2018 20:27

Hot surfer

Racecardriver · 02/06/2018 20:28

The Patrick wolf song

Sparrowlegs248 · 02/06/2018 20:28

James herriot i dont mind it but its a bit weak.

lottiegarbanzo · 02/06/2018 20:32

I know one. NIce, clever.

I think of 'and Isolde', also James Herriot. Never heard of the one in the OP (am early 40s).

It's definitely a 'polite' name, I can't imagine a Tristan being thuggish. I can imagine him reading poetry, speaking foreign languages, generally being a well-educated, in-touch with his emotions but sensible type.

midsomermurderess · 02/06/2018 20:32

A terrible idiot I used to work for.

sonnyboo · 02/06/2018 20:33

Sad! Triste in French!

Love Quentin though.

Grammarist · 02/06/2018 20:34

I think it's a great name.

It's classical and reminds me of a very important person in my life. Love it!

bringbacksideburns · 02/06/2018 20:35

Yes - I instantly think of the kid who used to live next door to George and Mildred too Grin

Purplevicki · 02/06/2018 20:40

One of my best friends. Often gets misheard/ misspelt to Tristrum or Christian

YearOfYouRemember · 02/06/2018 20:43

A poster on here Grin.

I quite like it but would never have called my child it.