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what girls' names do the French middle classes turn their noses up at?

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NatureAbhorsAHoover · 01/10/2017 18:55

What would the haute bourgeoisie think of as a tacky/trashy name for a baby girl? I speak french but have no idea what sounds déclassé to a French ear.

Not looking to vilify; am interested in the tonal sounds, themes and signifiers that surely exist just as much in France as here?

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Alisvolatpropiis · 05/10/2017 20:18

Rhiannon

That's true of the UK though, it's why many Welsh/Irish/Scottish names are considered "chavvy".

Commonly called "naughty boy" names -

Rhys - Welsh
Dylan - Welsh
Connor - Irish
Kyle - Scottish

Laquila · 05/10/2017 20:41

Oh, I expected Jade to be pronounced jzhayde?

GaucheCaviar · 05/10/2017 20:48

no, it rhymes with Chad.

OnTheSherry · 05/10/2017 20:57

French names are great! Love this thread.

I always loved Marceline and Delphine.

What about Merveille? I have two students with that name .

We also have a Bijou at work (and I have Brooklyn hipster friends who arent remotely French with a little Bijou).

When I was little my childminder was called Marie-Ange, which I thought was the most beautiful name ever when I was 7 Grin.

Also, the lovely midwife who delivered DC2 was called Laurence (female).

I have no idea how these names are viewed by French people...

NatureAbhorsAHoover · 05/10/2017 21:00

Thank you madamefrog, gauchecaviar and others!

So pleased I'm not the only one fascinated by all this.

Now, where does Marie-Laure sit? I knew a very stylish, beautiful Marie-Laure in the early 90s. Or was it a name from a Patrick Bruel song... Hmm

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GaucheCaviar · 05/10/2017 21:00

Merveille and Bijou would be most unusual, I'd imagine them to be from French -speaking Africa. Marie - Ange is nearing retirement, Laurence is a very ordinary early 1970s name.

OnTheSherry · 05/10/2017 21:13

That makes sense, GaucheCaviar.

The Merveilles and one of the Bijous are indeed French-African. Marie-Ange would be an old lady by now. Laurence would be about my age (40) Grin

BonApp · 05/10/2017 21:19

I'm in a French speaking country.

Colleagues between 25-60yrs are:
Cyrielle
Athénaïs
Natalie
Fanny
Céline
Constance
Mireille
Mélanie
Anouk
Louise
Sabine
Clotilde
Christine
Gisèle
Laurence
Sophie
Myriam
Anne-Lyse
Virginie
Lise
Joy
Claudie
Samuel
Guy
Erik
Antoine
David
Philippe
Maxime
Théo
Cédric
Didier

The children I know are:

Solena
Meryl
Delfine
Léa
Alia
Julia
Danilo
Keo
Lucas
Leonel
Arthur
Clemence
Eloise

Not sure if any are posh though!!

Fantasticmissfoxy · 05/10/2017 21:23

I know a very glamorous 'Blandine' which I think is a lovely name

PissedOffNeighbour · 05/10/2017 21:23

My French pen friend was called Chantel! She would be 50 now and came from a middle class family - her father was a doctor! Was it always déclassé?!

Tanaqui · 05/10/2017 21:28

Thanks Cote, I would have guessed zha-day so way off!

RhiannonOHara · 05/10/2017 21:42

Alisvolatpropiis, true, although not all Welsh/Scottish/Irish names are considered such.

SwedishEdith · 05/10/2017 21:47

I always liked Amandine. And did want to call my youngest Severine - overruled. Sad.

How are they viewed?

EmmyInTheSticks · 05/10/2017 21:58

How are Bridget/Brigitte and Iris perceived over in France. Is Iris used much?

BroomstickOfLove · 05/10/2017 22:02

I think this thread is the first place I've ever seen my name mentioned more than once. It's quite exotic in the UK, and quite frumpy in France.

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 05/10/2017 22:12

My French exchange partner was called Maïté - her mum was a TV presenter. I'd like to know if that's a common name because I've never heard it since.

SundayOut · 05/10/2017 23:09

Broomstick. I wonder if we have the same name. 🤔

skankingpiglet · 05/10/2017 23:52

This thread is fascinating. Both my DDs have French names picked as #1 was a family name we were always going to use and #2 was the only name we could agree on. I now know one has a slightly out of fashion name and the other potentially rising in popularity. Not déclassé however, so I can sleep easy Grin
I wish this thread had been around when I was pregnant with #2, there are some beautiful names here that I wasn't familiar with.

CoteDAzur · 06/10/2017 00:20

I know a 12-year-old Swann-Marie. French, of course Smile

HerSymphonyAndSong · 06/10/2017 00:23

I worked with a Maïté in France - she would be about ?40 now I think

HerSymphonyAndSong · 06/10/2017 00:24

Maïté is a lovely name in a French accent, but I have heard it said in a British accent and it sounds like "matey" which is not so pretty!

dontblameme · 06/10/2017 01:13

Sixtine is Sistine (chapel) in English

loveisasecondhandemotion · 06/10/2017 01:29

My late dgm was called " Albertine " and was of French/German descent.

It's one of my dd's middle names and people always comment on it.

Wonder how that would fare?

Her sisters were Paula/ Ottie / Wilma Grin

BroomstickOfLove · 06/10/2017 05:01

SundayOut - I'm twelfth on BonApp's list of colleagues.

LiberteEgaliteChardonnay · 06/10/2017 05:51

Albertine is so old fashioned, it's due a revival.
Apparently Brigitte is also due a revival (because of Macron's wife) but, otherwise Brigitte is in her mid 50s-60.