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what girls' names do the French middle classes turn their noses up at?

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NatureAbhorsAHoover · 01/10/2017 18:55

What would the haute bourgeoisie think of as a tacky/trashy name for a baby girl? I speak french but have no idea what sounds déclassé to a French ear.

Not looking to vilify; am interested in the tonal sounds, themes and signifiers that surely exist just as much in France as here?

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2cats2many · 03/10/2017 18:22

There was a girl in my northern high school called Chantal who used to pick her nose all the time. Put me right off.

GaucheCaviar · 03/10/2017 18:23

On the bono front I giveyou Cosima and Zéphyr...

Fekko · 03/10/2017 18:26

DS was at school with a Capucine. I just kept thinking capuchin monkey 🐒.

TheWeeWitch · 03/10/2017 18:37

Oooh. Have just realised I know some Bobos. Thanks MN for all that you teach us Flowers

HeteronormativeHaybales · 03/10/2017 21:53

Chantal is the epitome of déclassé in Germany, amusingly, along with Jacqueline. It seems to be French names for girls and English ones for boys (Kevin and Justin ('Chastin') are the most-cited ones).

Pollaidh · 03/10/2017 22:28

No - Chantal is not considered 'chic' at all.
I'm also told on good authority that Tabitha and Samantha have connotations of prostitution! Kevin also considered déclassé in France. Charles is what one's footman might be called.

Though this is full on upper class opinion, not Bobo.

KatherinaMinola · 03/10/2017 22:34

What about Mousseline? Always liked the sound of that.

MikeUniformMike · 03/10/2017 22:45

Chardonnay?

Esker · 03/10/2017 22:52

Has anyone ever met a Babette?
As a word, I really like the sound of it, but I could never use it as a name as it is too cutesy.

pimmsy · 04/10/2017 00:43

I know a "Babette" in her 50s' but it's her "nickname" her real name is Elisabeth.

As for mousseline, honestly, it just makes me think of "purée mousseline" which is sort of the equivalent of smash instant mash potatoes. It's also the name for a material, I think it's muslin in English?

I agree that Chantel(le) is very declassé here.

On the bobo side, I also know a Hippolyte.

At a recent wedding, I realised that at my table I was the only one without a double prénom, I can remember Marie-Sixtine, Pierre-Louis, André-Hugues, Jean-Edouard and Marie-Hortense. I felt a bit naked with only one name ...

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 06:35

Tabitha was the name of France's best known porn star so that's what it means to DH men of a certain age. And yes he lolled at Mousseline, definitely potatoes.

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 06:36

I've taught a Babette but she was from French-speaking Africa where name fashions are rather different.

CoteDAzur · 04/10/2017 06:41

Mousline Smile

what girls' names do the French middle classes turn their noses up at?
Fekko · 04/10/2017 08:23

Sounds like a baby mouse.

elQuintoConyo · 04/10/2017 08:37

I have, sadly, nothing to add - but what a fascinating thread!

bingolittle · 04/10/2017 08:49

Apparently Eleanor is a fairly posh-sounding name (according to French friends - not French myself, so prepared to be shot down here)

Frazzled2207 · 04/10/2017 08:50

Brilliant thread.

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 08:53

Yes Eléonore or even better Aliénor is posh. Mousseline means chiffon, BTW.

Jean-Edouard lol pimmsy, not of Loana and swimming pool fame I hope! Poshest boy I ever taught was Valéry-Philippe. I also taught an Adélaïde-Philippine.

greentea4me · 04/10/2017 08:57

What about Pierette?

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 08:58

Old fashioned, working class.

schnubbins · 04/10/2017 09:02

There was some criminal expert quoted here in Germany as saying "Kevin ist keine Name sondern ein Begriff" meaning Kevin is not a name but a byword or concept. Implying those with the name usually end up some sort of trouble .Chantal would be considered much the same.

Singap0reSling · 04/10/2017 09:09

Very interesting thread. My favourite girls names in French are Hortense and Eugénie. I think those might be quite old fashioned (but so are my DD's English names.)

PricklyCacti · 04/10/2017 09:13

Dd is called Sylvie which doesn’t appear to be very common in the UK but someone once told me it’s the equivalent of someone being called a name like Sharon or Karen in France Grin I’d love to know if this is true?

MissSueFlay · 04/10/2017 09:16

A classmate at my rather posh prep, years and years ago, was a Fleur - have always liked it. Where would that sit in France nowadays?

thecatfromjapan · 04/10/2017 09:16

How about a really popular English name, like Oliver? Do the French import names positively? Or are they all a bit 'Chardonnay'?