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what girls' names do the French middle classes turn their noses up at?

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NatureAbhorsAHoover · 01/10/2017 18:55

What would the haute bourgeoisie think of as a tacky/trashy name for a baby girl? I speak french but have no idea what sounds déclassé to a French ear.

Not looking to vilify; am interested in the tonal sounds, themes and signifiers that surely exist just as much in France as here?

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MNOverinvestor · 04/10/2017 12:20

Clotilde... Boniface...

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 13:33

I'm not sure that what a PP said about names ending in 'a' being declasse...

I did say some, not all names ending in A. Aurélia, Sabrina, Diana, names like that that are liable to be given by people born to e.g. Portuguese parents.

Hippolyte is commoner than you'd think - it's a go-to name for the chattering classes.

Commonest name round my way is Mohammed, by a country mile Smile

Posh names: boys - Enguerrand, Jean-Eudes, Edgar, Charles-Henri, Henri-Edmond, Amaury... girls, Léopoldine, Marie-Alix, Sixtine, Domitille, Quitterie, Benjamine, Bénédicte...

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 13:34

Sorry just checked back and I didn't say all -a names, though I was thinking it!

PattyPenguin · 04/10/2017 13:35

My sources tell me the following are considered "classé":

Girls: as mentioned by a PP, anything ending in -ine - Léopoldine, Sixtine, Apolline, Victorine
Also medieval names - Isaure, Sibylle, Constance, Bérengère

Boys: again, medieval names - Engeurrand, Cyprien, Amaury, Blaise

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 13:40

FFS didn't say some names... I need more coffee...

Sylvie is a fairly ubiquitous fifty-something name. Fleur would be unusual and fairly posh.

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 13:42

Medieval names - I used to know a very posh Mahaut, pronounced Mao. Not sure her parents were really aiming for Communist chic...

TheEmmaDilemma · 04/10/2017 13:43

What about Ellouise where does that stand in France?

Caulkheadupnorf · 04/10/2017 14:01

Isn’t Ellouise a made up name? It would be Heloise in French or Eloise in England.

pimmsy · 04/10/2017 14:08

@Vaglikeacavern Nope!

GaucheCaviar · 04/10/2017 14:18

Héloïse or Eloise are very fashionable middle-class names.

ladybirdsaredotty · 04/10/2017 14:48

PattyPenguin interesting. I love Blaise (probably as a middle name) but I think it would be seen differently here in England. Even I start singing 'and the monster machines!' after saying it!

soupforbrains · 04/10/2017 16:41

Not to worry gauche I know what you meant now! :)

AtlanticWaves · 04/10/2017 18:51

Other posh names I know
Petronille
Aramis
Léopoldine
Calixte
Philomene
Eloi
Prudence
Hortense
Constance

CartoonGraveyard · 04/10/2017 19:16

is there a trad French way of shortening the -ine names? Or is shortening not really done there? I love them but not sure if this means committing to the full name all the time. Grin

I love all the names on this thread basically.

ChardonnaysPrettySister · 04/10/2017 19:23

Now, all the Chardonnay mentions here, outraging.

'Tis a classic.

I know a very scary Tiphaine.

SwedishEdith · 04/10/2017 19:24

I love Apolline. Had never heard of that before. I'll have to get a cat

ffffhjdsgX · 04/10/2017 19:42

Éponine? Fantine? Cosette? (Guess my favourite musical)

Are these used today? How would they be viewed?

MillieMoodle · 04/10/2017 19:59

What about Cecile and Berenice? What kind of names are they? This thread is fascinating!

Priam · 04/10/2017 20:14

There's a pretty Boho clothes chain called Berenice in France...not sure what that's an indication of!

Cartoon In my experience the French don't shorten names. I've hardly ever come across it. Not to the extent that the English do at any rate.

Priam · 04/10/2017 20:15

Interesting that no one has mentioned Francoise....I've known so many Francoises...but none under 30!

CartoonGraveyard · 04/10/2017 20:18

Merci Priam
I thought that must be it. Grin

Madamfrog · 04/10/2017 20:21

Not all -ine names are chic though, some are like the majority of -ette names and not at all chic.

Cécile and Bérénice are in their 40s/50s, probably boboish fonctionnaires.
We don't do nicknames much and certainly not for public use, by mere acquaintances, at school for instance.
My children have a number of knights of the Round Table and King Arthur among their friends.
Daytime television names definitely 'place' someone or their family.

Yika · 04/10/2017 20:24

Berenice is quite trendy I think. I rather love it.

I also know a young French Sharon (pronouned SharrrONNE). It doesn't have at all the same connotations as in the UK.

Agree that Sylvie is a bit middle-aged now.

Anatole is one I've heard lately.

OlennasWimple · 04/10/2017 20:27

Oliver is an old French name, as seen in the medieval epic poem La Chanson de Roland ("Roland est preux, Oliver est sage")

How about names like Charlotte, Sophie, Louise, Marie/Maria, Helen(e)? (Ie girls names popular in the 1970s in the UK)

MillieMoodle · 04/10/2017 20:28

That's interesting madamfrog, the ones I know of are in their 30's now and from quite a well-to-do family (not really sure how to else to describe it and certainly have no idea what that would be called in France!).

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