Atticus Wilder?

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What do you think..?

More importantly this is dc 4 and my other's have initials of R, A and A - is 3 A names and one R just weird?

I love it!

I want to like it but think it sounds a bit try hard. I don't think 1 R and 3 As is particularly weird though - I doubt I'd notice

I think that sounds awesome!

It's great.

I always think Atticus is the name people go for when trying to be unique, not realising that it's the first port of call for just that (and, therefore, isn't unique at all).

I don't like Wilder.

Love it!

Fabby ! 😄

I think it sounds a bit... American, are you American? Maybe a bit OTT for here IMHO. I first thought it might be a thread about a character in a Diana Wynne Jones book (a wizard or similar ).

Genuinely struggling.. My husband likes Aldous - I don't.
I like Cassius - he doesn't..
I love wilder, dash, cash (American names I wouldn't use as a first name)!
Thought Atticus was a good compromise..

If anyone has any other idea I'd love to hear them 😊

My first thoughts were To Kill A Mockingbird & Little House on the Prairie - is that the kind of associations you're after?

Almanzo Wilder, surely?

Alpheus? Greek river God.

I thought little house on the prairie too. Which is fine, if that's what you're going for.

I had to google Almanzo Wilder - that association doesn't really bother me, I doubt that many people of a younger generation would have heard of him anyway (no offence 😂)

Atticus is a great name. I love it. I'm not a fan of the middle name though, because it sounds like a surname (granted Atticus Wilder would be a really cool full name).

If you don't use it I might

Nice but very American literary. Both will be well known to anyone who knows their modern classic fiction.

It sounds like a psuedonym of a literary critic. Not someone who has to go through being a little boy and youth.

Sounds like trying way too hard to be different.

I like it.

Hmm I do totally get the literary connotations, not that I think that's a terrible thing. I love Atticus finch.
I am really stumped for boys names though, and have spent maybe too long on name berry. Last week I loved zebedee.

I had to google Almanzo Wilder - that association doesn't really bother me, I doubt that many people of a younger generation would have heard of him anyway (no offence 😂)

I thought Almonzo too. The very cheek of suggesting we're not the younger generation! 😮😄

Atticus is nice, though 🙂

I don't really want to appear "try hard" but likewise do want something different.. Feels like it's much easier with girls names.

How about;

Atticus Wilbur
Atticus William
Atticus Wilf
Atticus Willem

Just to dilute the literary feel down a bit?

The thing is, most people will not know your child's middle name. So if you're really having difficult, perhaps focus on finding a first name you both love first, and then once you've got that, you can focus on middle names that you like and go with it. Remembering that they will rarely be used together anyway.

And given that, I don't think there's much wrong with Atticus. It is pretty strongly linked to the book, of course, but that is a positive association anyway. And besides that, it's also a lovely strong name, unusual but not ridiculous.