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Deirdre or Daphne, can't decide which. Deirdre Ann, or Daphne Helen.

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Sylviet · 17/10/2014 04:23

These are the front runners at the moment, would appreciate your thoughts.

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 19/10/2014 20:53

Deirdre is nice when pronounced deirdra in an Irish accent (though the only one I know goes by Dee) but in English it's Deirdree and sounds very dull.

mathanxiety · 19/10/2014 22:28

I'm Irish. Don't call her Deirdre. It is very passe in Ireland, and Deerdree is a horrible mispronunciation.
When did Deirdre become so unpopular!
In the late 70s it had run its course in Ireland. Other Irish names that had been popular alongside Deirdre (Niamh, Orla and Aoife for instance) continued to take over the world but Deirdre was left in the dust.

Daphne otoh is gorgeous. I love your original idea of Daphne Helen.

If you're looking for EE and AH sounds, how about Letitia?
(Avoid Sheila though. It's as bad as Deirdre).

lisucbgiberiocnha · 20/10/2014 20:40

What about Delphine pronounced Del-feen

lisucbgiberiocnha · 20/10/2014 20:54

Delphine isnt an unknown name thanks to her being a character in peppa pig

janie2 · 20/10/2014 21:29

I have a niece called Daphne, age 7! I didn't like it to begin with but as with all names I now associate the name with my lovely niece Smile

My SIL isn't a soap fan but a massive reader so she only associated the name with Daphne Du Maurier.

VeryStressedMum · 20/10/2014 21:43

I'm in NI and I know a Deirdre and its pronounced Deer-Dree
If you want to call her Deer-Dra you could spell it Deirdra otherwise it'll be pronounced Deer-Dree

mathanxiety · 21/10/2014 03:00

Deer-dreh is the correct pronunciation of the name Deirdre. It sounds similar to Deerdra. But 'Deirdra' with an A at the end would be all wrong because it would ignore the broad/slender vowel correspondence rule in Irish spelling.

AWombWithoutAFoof · 21/10/2014 09:19

I love Delphine to look at, but I'm never sure if it's DELphine or delPHINE. Which is it?

lisucbgiberiocnha · 21/10/2014 10:03

I think in peppa pig it's DELphine donkey?

Nancy66 · 21/10/2014 14:05

I like your user name. Sylvie.

Nancy66 · 21/10/2014 14:06

Delphines was the name of the posh restaurant Mike Baldwin always used to take his clients to.

Whichever way you turn there's a Corrie connection.

bealos · 21/10/2014 15:52

I go for delPHINE. Though I imagine it depends on your accent.

(btw - recently started a thread about French names seeming very trendy. Had a new Delphine and a Mirabelle near me recently).

ATombWithoutAFoof · 21/10/2014 16:12

I'm on that thread! Pining for a daughter who I can call Delphine.

Cleio · 24/10/2014 09:53

Going by this thread we've settled DD2 with a life long trauma over her name Grin

She's Irish though, living in Ireland. Her older sister has an Irish name out of mythology too.

Obviously, we love the name. Had no idea it was so strongly out of favour. Reactions have been positive so far, now wondering if people are sniggering behind my back Hmm

Theas18 · 24/10/2014 10:07

Daphne Helena is lovely.

It's a grown up person name, which is exactly as it should be as this bundle will be a baby for a short time. If she needs a " cutesy nickname" then Little Dee fits the bill.

( though DD has never needed, or from the time she could make herself known, wanted the cutesy nickname every grown up wanted to give her !)

mathanxiety · 24/10/2014 18:33

I know a pair of Irish sisters aged 3 and 1 who are named Bernadette and Dymphna so don't worry, Cleio Smile.

I don't know how Deirdre became less popular than it used to be. There were a lot in my school in the 70s and early 80s and I also had a few neighbours who were Deirdres. Maybe it's because everyone knew a few?

watfordmummy · 24/10/2014 18:39

As a Deirdre, I've always hated my name. Although I waited until I was 30 when I shortened it!! Don't think I'd saddle a child with it!!Grin

watfordmummy · 24/10/2014 18:40

Now reading this thread I feel really sad. I am one the cheeriest people around not at all dreary or dull ConfusedConfused

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