I like both and can't make up my mind which to go with! Baby isn't here yet - should just hang on and see what seems to suit him once he's here do you think? I just feel like my older children would find Nat or Nate easier to get to grips with than Nathaniel as they are only little (33 months and 20 months at the time of posting). Plan is to start using the name in the weeks leading up to his arrival to help them understand what is happening (am 31 weeks at the moment).