Thanks all.
YouNeverCanTell, when I was first pregnant, I was adament that I wanted Clarissa as the girls name, but was vetoed, and yes there were tantrums from me. I think DH may have been right on this.
The more I think about Carolyn the less I am liking it. Its a variant of the classic Caroline, and if Caroline is dated, then Carolyn is more so.
Ffion I love, but we dont have a Welsh surname, and I think it is so much nicer with a Welsh surname. Seren, I love, but just not 100% convinced.
Cara, I just dont like as much as Caroline.
Erin, possibly too fashionable for us, and we're back to our concerns on whether its too harsh sounding.
Julia, one of my all time favourite names, but I dont like Julie as a nn. I think of Ali G and Me Julie. I like the nn Jools, and some people such as Julia Roberts, do not have it shortened.
I know May is a popular middle name, but I do think Julia May is beautiful together.
However, tonight it's Stephen and Carrie (Caroline).