Hello, this is a timely thread as I'm really struggling with the lack of support.
Diagnosed 20plus years ago with Crohn's. I've had a couple of notable flare ups worthy of the devil's tic tacs (nice) but was mostly, luckily, managing on daily asacol.
But last August I went down hill badly and I've mostly been house bound as I seem unable to get my current flare up under control after weeks of pessaries and now two months of Cortiment. I'm bleeding a lot, running to the toilet 12-20 times a day (and waking up at night to go several times). It's exhausting.
On top of that, a routine gynae trip has revealed a very large fibroid in my uterus. I'm waiting on an MRI before they will give me a hysterectomy which they tell me I need and will mean reopening the scar I have from open surgery three years ago to remove a different large growth (and my ovaries) three years ago. Trouble is the waiting list for any of this looks like two years. A fibroid can impact the bowel...
And the steroids meanwhile are apparently making the fibroid bigger. I had blood tests two months ago, thanks to hospital IBD nurses, so I assume any cancer markers would've been picked up then? I called the hospital to get my results to find out they'd written to my GP to say I needed iron tablets. My GP didn't bother telling me that. (He is useless - if you can get him at all, his response to most things is "go to A&E").
Then, when I called the gynae consultant to tell him about the crohns flare up, his secretary told me off for seeing a bum consultant in a different part of the city (where I used to live) and that "I shouldn't be seen by them, they should be turning me away". Seriously, I'm just so drained by the whole thing. Our system is so broken and the people working in it seem so desensitised and indifferent to their patients. I just don't know how I'm going to get the help I need.