I have Graves' disease but a rare type with blocking and stimulating antibodies so I have periods of under and then over activity. Tbh the under activity is much worse ime.
I am seeing a fab private endo who has just put me into a T4/T3 combo as am underactive at mo and I had stopped converting T4 to T3 after having covid.
TRAB strongly indicates Graves Disease. It tends to run in families, I have two cousins and an aunt with it. TPO can be raised in Graves or in Hashis.
Things to watch for with Graves, thyroid eye disease. Much more likely if you smoke or are around secondhand smoke. Also RAI can bring on TED or make it worse if you have it already.
Stress can obviously trigger a flare.
Neither RAI or thyroidectomy cure Graves, just the symptoms. The Graves antibodies are still active and can still cause TED. Both are highly likely to cause permanent hypothyroidism for which you will need lifelong medication. That would be fine but there is a whole world of controversy around hypothyroidism medication and sadly many many people are under or incorrectly treated. I've had to battle for 6 years plus go private to get adequate treatment as an example. You can read many more on the Thyroid U.K. forum on Health Unlocked that, as per the PP, I would strongly recommend you join. So RAI or a thyroidectomy is not a decision to be taken lightly.
There is various research going on currently to find a cure for Graves. One, project Daviad, was looking very promising pre covid with positive results at first human trials (it's a vaccine, but one you have after you have the disease). I haven't seen much update on it though sadly and it's likely impacted by covid and possibly Brexit (it was an EU project). However there is potentially stuff in the pipeline but how far off is any ones guess.
Don't be pushed into RAI or thyroidectomy if it's not what you want. It's pretty permanent if it doesn't work out (some people do have v positive experiences of both to give some balance). Some people remain on carbimazole etc long term so that is an option if that's what you prefer. Carbimazole does however come with its own risks.
I'd also have a look at Elaine Moores Graves' disease website.
Long term risks of an untested overactive thyroid are osteoporosis and heart problems so not something to be messed with. Suppressed TSH on its own should not cause such issues (ie without raised T3/T4) but this is another highly controversial issue that you may wish to do some reading up on. Different bodies and different endos have different on this and their us conflicting evidence (however a large number of thyroid studies are very poorly designed).
Sorry bit of a dump of info but hopefully helpful. If I think of anything else I'll pop back on. 😊