Hi Mya, I am so sorry you are going through so much stress after everything else, hopefully my experiences can also offer you plenty to be optimistic about.
DS1 was found at a private 20wk scan to have small femurs...he was scanned every month for rest of pg and his legs were always small compared to the rest of him, but he was born weighing 6lbs (9th centile) little legs but perfectly healthy and now a healthy, leggy, mad bike riding 7yo.
I then had DD, no problems during pg and 8lbs at birth, nothing unusual.
Ds2, horrific pg, at 20wk scan, none of his measurements even made it on the chart he was so tiny. Diagnosis was most likely placental insufficiency/IUGR, which at 20wks, as you no doubt have found, is not good news. But he carried on growing, was scfannhed every two weeks, born on 0.4th centile at 37wks, tenny but also perfectly healthy, no need for scbu. He is now 2.5 and whilst still small, has no developmental problems. I think I am rubbish at growing boy babies!
I know how hard it is not to worry, but it's not necessarily terrible. If you are in or near London I cannot recommend the Fetal Medicine Centre on Harley St highly enough. Prof Nicolaides, who runs it, is amazing, probably the best in the world at fetal medicine (he devised the nuchal test and is renowned/teaches worldwide). A scan with him should give you the best advice possible, make sure if you go you will see him, it used to be a Wednesday he was there.