Hi All
I thought I'd add our story here since this thread has been extremely useful to us the past few days.
Our stats
Crl - 69
Gestation Age 13+1 (We disagree with this, think it should be more like 12+4, I'm a big guy, not sure if it impacts, but it defo impacts MoMs on pappa and hcg)
Papp A MoM: 0.3814
Bhcg MoM: 2.8909
NT: 1.70
Nasal Bone present (not an input to the model the nhs uses but just for reference)
Odds: 1 to 68 (T21), < 1 to 20,000 (T13 and T18)
Nipt came back today, 1 in 10000 T21, we are over joyed.
Our Nipt came back in just over 56 hours. I think this is due to a few reasons:
-Given low score on 13 and 18 opted out of these
-Hospital in Central London, lab is in central London apparently, not sure the impact of this.
-Feb due date is one of the less common due dates, compared to September at least, so logically just less of a queue.
Midwife was amazed they came back so quick.
To anyone going through this stress right now my heart goes out to you, we have been through this pain and just know there is hope.
On another point, this got me thinking about what it is to be a father, yes my child doesn't have downs, but that doesn't mean they don't have another issue, be it physical or mental. Our role as parents should be to accept and support our children regardless. When I went into this process my eyes were shut to anything but a perfect baby, but now they are much more open to accepting whatever is thrown at me.
If you are going through this at the moment, I'm not sure this will help, but me and my partner have come out stronger as a couple from this than anything before.
My heart goes out to all situations and I understand all decisions, it is completely unique to you and your family. But amidst the panic and anxiety, a small time of reflection may help you like it helped me.
If anyone wants to reach out either here or confidentially please do, I know there will be parents right now a decade after the original post, trawling through for answers in the waiting period.
Thanks
T and C