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To be thinking f*k this sh*t re work?

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JudgeRindersMinder · 26/04/2022 10:10

I’ve been in the public sector pretty much all my life and now at 50+ have got to the stage where I’m fed up of all the wank speak and bullshit.

I’ve been on the same job for 20+ years, and I’ve always enjoyed the actual job, but not all the rubbish around it, but lately I just can’t be bothered with it.
I work part time, with hours that suit me, initially it was due to young children, then latterly for caring for parents, but it’s always suited.

I just feel now I’m fed up with people coming in with what they think are new whizzy ideas, which we’ve seen before, but new person is trying to get promoted on the back of it, and the staff who have to work with said no new whizzy idea are just collateral damage and will still be there mopping up the shit after new whizzy person disappears off into the sunset.

I’m under no illusions that my employer gives one shiny shit about me-I am literally a number and a bum on a seat.

There are minor opportunities for progression in my role, but if I wanted to work in management it wouldn’t be with my organisation because it’s just a load of politics - although I’m well aware that’s the case in most organisations!

Am I just getting too old/cynical/jaded? Do other people go through this?

OP posts:
StellaOlivetti · 26/04/2022 10:53

@Pollydonia
I believe it was Alexei Sayle who said that anyone using the word “workshop” who wasn’t engaged in light engineering is a knobhead.
So true.

Cornettoninja · 26/04/2022 11:02

YANBU. If the balance has tipped and the perks don’t make up for the BS it’s time to start exploring your options.

What gets me is that people come in and implement a project that looks great on their portfolio on a surface level but there’s no quantifiable way of judging the success of these changes.

You can put you managed a multi million pound budget, a staff of hundreds and implemented a new IT system but there’s no consideration given to the fact you might have leaked money like a sieve, had a horrendous staff turnover and loads of complaints and your IT system isn’t fit for purpose and is now an active hindrance for the job.

Dido Harding as exhibit A.

Pollydonia · 26/04/2022 11:09

StellaOlivetti · 26/04/2022 10:53

@Pollydonia
I believe it was Alexei Sayle who said that anyone using the word “workshop” who wasn’t engaged in light engineering is a knobhead.
So true.

Excellent @StellaOlivetti

DressingPafe · 26/04/2022 11:32

I’m in my 50’s, also public sector, and just marking down time until I retire. People will say oh but you have 10+ years left to do something different but I can’t be assed! I’m fed up with work full stop. Everywhere is the same. All jobs have a degree of bullshit.

At my age I realised how fast time goes so I don’t need to stress myself out taking on something new, or letting the crap in my current job get to me. I’m lucky to only need to work part time now and the years will fly by, although it’s a bit sad I am somewhat wishing them away!

I’m a very long term temp (my current role is 4 years and counting) so I at least don’t have all the crap like appraisals etc. They’re just for perm staff. My manager leaves me alone (having had micro managers in the past I very much appreciate it). So all in all, could be worse.

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 11:57

JudgeRindersMinder · 26/04/2022 10:48

For the record, I’ve never worked at a basic level,I’ve always taken pride in doing my job to the best of my ability

@StellaOlivetti I’m very envious! Like you I’m good at my job and well thought of, I’m just struggling with all the hoops I’ve to jump through to achieve what I’ve always achieved very well, but now someone wants a gold star for my efforts!

You do come over as someone who cares about doing the job well. I was really taking up the point made by others. Improvement doesn't always translate into progression in terms of promotion and I've always felt a bit disconcerted by people who just want to do the minimum to collect their salary and go home.

JudgeRindersMinder · 26/04/2022 12:01

DressingPafe · 26/04/2022 11:32

I’m in my 50’s, also public sector, and just marking down time until I retire. People will say oh but you have 10+ years left to do something different but I can’t be assed! I’m fed up with work full stop. Everywhere is the same. All jobs have a degree of bullshit.

At my age I realised how fast time goes so I don’t need to stress myself out taking on something new, or letting the crap in my current job get to me. I’m lucky to only need to work part time now and the years will fly by, although it’s a bit sad I am somewhat wishing them away!

I’m a very long term temp (my current role is 4 years and counting) so I at least don’t have all the crap like appraisals etc. They’re just for perm staff. My manager leaves me alone (having had micro managers in the past I very much appreciate it). So all in all, could be worse.

Oh god you are me! This is it, I’ve looked into changing careers etc, but the bottom line is I just can’t be bothered, I’ve never had a passion for a career and actually envy those who do!

OP posts:
Giggorata · 26/04/2022 12:07

StellaOlivetti · 26/04/2022 10:41

I could have written your post, OP! I have just retired (early) and I’m still euphoric at not having to deal with this nonsense anymore. When I had five years to go, I sort of mentally left, I carried on doing my job, which I was very good at, but simply stopped going to meetings, answering idiotic emails or getting involved with anything other than my actual job. No one said anything! The kind of person who likes that sort of shit isn’t going to notice or care whether I’m involved in their silly fantasy of being a corporate wunderkind. It made the last five years bearable. Good luck x

And I could have written your post, StellaOlivetti.
woop woop!

DeskInUse · 26/04/2022 12:09

What does your pension look like, can you retire early

I'm 50 and plan to retire at 58, I'm counting down the months now, I can't wait. I'd much rather not work and have a smaller pension

JudgeRindersMinder · 26/04/2022 12:45

DeskInUse · 26/04/2022 12:09

What does your pension look like, can you retire early

I'm 50 and plan to retire at 58, I'm counting down the months now, I can't wait. I'd much rather not work and have a smaller pension

I’ll have 40 years in my pension when I’m 61, but very much hoping to go around 56/57. Not necessarily retire, but access my pension so that could top up a lower salary if that makes sense

OP posts:
Hrpuffnstuff1 · 26/04/2022 12:52

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 11:57

You do come over as someone who cares about doing the job well. I was really taking up the point made by others. Improvement doesn't always translate into progression in terms of promotion and I've always felt a bit disconcerted by people who just want to do the minimum to collect their salary and go home.

Why?
People can do 💯 during their working day and then go home.
Rinse and repeat.
Depends on what you think the function of work is.

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 12:56

Hrpuffnstuff1 · 26/04/2022 12:52

Why?
People can do 💯 during their working day and then go home.
Rinse and repeat.
Depends on what you think the function of work is.

I talked about people going to work and doing the minimum, not about people giving 💯 to the job. Try reading again.

BrioNotBiro · 26/04/2022 12:58

It's definitely worse when you can see the dim light of retirement at the end of the tunnel. Until then you just have to grit your teeth and grind on. Once you get a faint whiff of freedom all the daily crap becomes unbearable.

The end is in sight OP! Just think if that final salary pension and freedom!

HardyBuckette · 26/04/2022 13:12

It's unfortunate that in a lot of organisations, people who are doing the job to a high standard and are very skilled but don't want to go into management aren't well accommodated. There can be an assumption that everyone should be looking at the next steps, rather than consistently doing their role well to a high standard and wanting to continue with that.

Elsiebear90 · 26/04/2022 13:15

Without working with you or your team it’s hard to tell if you’re jaded and disillusioned so you’re resistant to change, as you mentioned new people come in with lots of “whizzy ideas” that you object to, or whether their ideas are genuinely rubbish. If there’s only a few people objecting and everyone else thinks they’re great ideas maybe the problem is you and not them? If people are determined to see things fail and are not onboard then new ways of working usually never take off.

I’ve worked in the NHS for 12 years now and I’ve seen a lot of people who have been in the role for many decades who are very obstructive to any changes and find any reason to object to them as they just want to carry on doing things the way they’ve always done them. It’s very frustrating. I’ve never really seen lots of people continually making crap suggestions for improvements though.

BackInBlackAgain · 26/04/2022 13:17

Where i used to work the company embraced the "Lean" initiative, bringing an external company in (at a massive cost) and they taught us all the "Lean" ways of working. After a couple of months we abandoned 90% of it and went back to how we used to work and it took 6 months to catch up.

But when the people who work at the coal face make suggestions it is ignored and they prefer to pay external people to tell us how we should be working when we know it will fail.

Just old ideas recycled and repacked with a shiny new box. All bollocks.

JudgeRindersMinder · 26/04/2022 13:41

Elsiebear90 · 26/04/2022 13:15

Without working with you or your team it’s hard to tell if you’re jaded and disillusioned so you’re resistant to change, as you mentioned new people come in with lots of “whizzy ideas” that you object to, or whether their ideas are genuinely rubbish. If there’s only a few people objecting and everyone else thinks they’re great ideas maybe the problem is you and not them? If people are determined to see things fail and are not onboard then new ways of working usually never take off.

I’ve worked in the NHS for 12 years now and I’ve seen a lot of people who have been in the role for many decades who are very obstructive to any changes and find any reason to object to them as they just want to carry on doing things the way they’ve always done them. It’s very frustrating. I’ve never really seen lots of people continually making crap suggestions for improvements though.

When I say “whizzy idea” I’m maybe not being clear, it’s basically regurgitation of things and ideas which have been done in the past very unsuccessfully, but these people come in thinking they’ve reinvented the wheel. I’m actually all for change if it improves processes and practices, but I’m dead against it when It’s something which has been done previously and the latest promotion hungry person dresses it up as something it’s not.

OP posts:
knowinglesseveryday · 26/04/2022 14:01

It's hard to say. Some change is helpful and some isn't. Some change is well handled and with clear objectives and some isn't. Some people understandably get change fatigue after plenty of poorly handled change. Some people hate any change. So it depends...

chisanunian · 26/04/2022 14:20

HardyBuckette · 26/04/2022 13:12

It's unfortunate that in a lot of organisations, people who are doing the job to a high standard and are very skilled but don't want to go into management aren't well accommodated. There can be an assumption that everyone should be looking at the next steps, rather than consistently doing their role well to a high standard and wanting to continue with that.

I think that many people, particularly once you get beyond a certain age, all you want is to get the job done well, and then go home.

That's the stage I'm at, anyway. I've had the career, and I don't want to progress into another one, with promotion, targets and all that malarkey. I just want to turn up, get the job done and go home again. I'm skilled at what I do, and I'm happy doing it. Just leave me alone until I can retire. Which would have been next week if they hadn't gone and fucked with the retirement ages, so this is rather a sore point with me at the moment.

Hrpuffnstuff1 · 26/04/2022 14:30

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 12:56

I talked about people going to work and doing the minimum, not about people giving 💯 to the job. Try reading again.

Where in this thread did anyone mention minimum effort?
They mentioned management speak and management appraisals being cobblers.

Try to stop being passive-aggressive.

Malbecfan · 26/04/2022 14:32

PMSL, were you in the same meeting as me before school yesterday? I was kicking myself for not setting up bullshit bingo beforehand because just about everything was in there: metacognition, various "big thinkers", blah bloody blah. The guy doing the talking is a nice chap and good teacher. I've done a couple of trips with him and he's fair and a good sport. But talk about reinventing the wheel!

Every September I look at the new keenies on the staff and have a personal wager as to which is groomed for stardom. Sometimes, there are some really lovely and talented people. Mostly, they need to learn their classroom craft first before they start telling me how to do my job. I can silence a room of lively year 9s by raising an eyebrow, followed by a steely glare. I never bother raising my voice. Yet they think they can lecture me on how to deliver something they haven't actually done themselves... Roll on retirement.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 26/04/2022 14:40

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 10:37

I don't see what's wrong with appraisals if they're creative and constructive or an expectation of improvement. There aren't many jobs these days where it's a reasonable attitude to go in do the job at a very basic level and go home.

After 30+ years of appraisals in a huge number of jobs - they are all wank.

Either the job has changed to fuck since we set the objectives (quite often) so they just look stupid, or the feedback is "you did a great job but there's no money for any payrises" so fuck that.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 26/04/2022 14:45

@ilovesooty
I've always felt a bit disconcerted by people who just want to do the minimum to collect their salary and go home.
Why?

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 14:54

Hrpuffnstuff1 · 26/04/2022 14:30

Where in this thread did anyone mention minimum effort?
They mentioned management speak and management appraisals being cobblers.

Try to stop being passive-aggressive.

I mentioned doing the job at minimum level which was my interpretation of some of the posts describing wanting to go in, not engage with anything promoting improvemt, and go home again. If you didn't understand that, your lack of comprehension is not my responsibility.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 26/04/2022 14:58

This is a brilliant article about how many of us are expected to do the work of at least three people -

ilovesooty · 26/04/2022 14:58

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 26/04/2022 14:45

@ilovesooty
I've always felt a bit disconcerted by people who just want to do the minimum to collect their salary and go home.
Why?

Because I've always worked in environments with vulnerable people and it was generally accepted there that there was some going above and beyond. Perhaps if my work environment had been different there'd have been more acceptance of a culture where people turned up, just did the minimum and went home.

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