Been with dp a very long time,have two lovely dc would like something small, intimate and personal in Hampshire that really involves our dc's.
Do not fancy registery office,or a church so stuck on that part, but mainly would like dp,dc,and close family to share our special day.
Im really worried we will upset alot of people and they would expect a invite aibu.
Surely though its what we want?,feel bad saying that though arghhhh.