Hi everyone,
My mother in law is seriously ill but is well enough to come away on holiday. My DH wants to take her and my father in law on a driving holiday to France. We have a 9 month old baby and I am not quite sure it is ok for me to take her on a holiday like this. I am fine with the driving part as you can stop over every now and then and entertain her for a bit. It is my mother in law's condition that worries me. She has cancer and thrombosis as a result. I would love her to go and enjoy herself but I don't think my little one and I should go because should she need to be hospitalised we might be stranded without food/sleep etc. If that was just me I wouldn't worry about it coz she is far more important bearing in mind her condition but I don't think this would be easy on my LO. Obviously my DH is not happy for me to stay behind and thinks I don't want to go for other reasons although I explained my reasons to him and he seems to understand but coz it's always glass half full with him he doesn't think of worst case scenarios. Am I being unreasonable and about to spoil everyone's holiday??