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to think that if school make Mother's Day cards with kids . . .

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zisforzebra · 19/06/2010 20:58

they should also do Father's day cards.

I know some children won't want to make them, but the ones that do should be given a chance to. The school always do Mother's Day cards but never do anything for Father's Day and it seems really unfair.

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BuzzingNoise · 20/06/2010 17:45

My son's school made Mothers Day but not Fathers Day one. It's weird because there is only one child in the class from a one-parent family and he lives with his dad!

shockers · 20/06/2010 17:48

Our class made them but we teaked the design a bit for those children who wanted to give them to their Mum instead (about a third of the class).

However, we forgot to give them out on Friday at home time .

shockers · 20/06/2010 17:49

... tweaked.

DanJARMouse · 20/06/2010 17:53

Primary 1 class made cards, Nursery didnt.

Dh doesnt mind, I get cards from all of them anyway.

squashedfrogs · 20/06/2010 18:11

DP makes sure his DC give his ex a Mother's Day card but she doesn't have the good grace to do the same for Father's Day. There might be more chance of him receiving a card if schools treated both Mother's and Father's Days the same.

MaamRuby · 20/06/2010 18:18

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OrmRenewed · 20/06/2010 18:28

I was a bit miffed to realise that none of DC had made anything at school. Would have been nice for DH but no big deal.

textpest · 20/06/2010 19:37

I have 29 children in my class. Four are cared for children, 3 live with grandparents and have no contact with parents, another 2 live with grandparents and mums, two have lost their dads and quite a few have no contact with their dads. Last year was a nightmare of complaints about children being upset by being asked if they WANTED to make a card so this year I didn't bother. I didn't do mothers day cards either - if parents are that bothered about a card they can buy one or make one with the child themselves.

I know it is political correctness gone mad and believe me I would have loved to do it but unfortunately we can't please everyone.

oldandgreynow · 20/06/2010 21:29

Father's day is just a commercial thing dreaed up by card manufacturers though isn't it, whereas mothering sunday is a religious event when people (often in service) went back to their mother church, and at the same time visiting their home and family

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