Just after easter my friend got a part time job with no consideration as to who would look after her DS. She just assumed I wouldn't mind. I have looked after him in the past but never on a regular/permanant basis. The first day he was ok but the 2nd time he came he was a nightmare. He deliberatly wee'd all over the toilet, wet toilet roll and stuffed it all in the sink blocking it up. He knocked an ornament over, swore and threw food on the carpet.
Friend came home really enthusiastic about her job so I didn't mention it and assumed he'd calm down but it continued. He hits my DS, swears at him and calls him poo face, puts his fingers around his eyes to take the piss out of DS's glasses, tips drinks up "by accident" over and over again and basically just runs riot.
I spoke to my friend last week about it and she said she'd talk to her DS. He was ok after that but today has been unbearable. He drew on the living room wall, put water in DH's slippers, tipped the cat food up and kept poking DS.
I feel guilty but I cant stand him being here. I am constantly on edge, cant relax in my own home and dread it and sit there watching the clock until she picks him up.
If I dont do it, she will be completely stuck. AIBU to refuse anyway knowing she may have to quit her job?