Gargh! Venting to follow I'm afraid! SO
She's not actually my mil as dp and I aren't married, but we've been together 7 years so it's easier to call her mil. She Is so bitchy! A few months ago I was ill with a bad stomache bug and was in my PJ's at 10am when she came around to pick up ds for the day. She called me "lazy" for going back to bed to try and sleep it off whilst ds was out for the day!
Ever since she's been making insinuations about how I'm 'lazy'. e.g she was on the phone to dp the other week (she only ever calls when she wants something) and asked whhat I was doing, if I was dressed, if I'd been out that day....! I was fucking fuming. I hadn't been out that day because I was waiting for a delivery, I was dressed and I was playing with ds - she managed to make it sound like I was lazy and doing wrong by ds.
yesterday, I'd been joking with my cousin oon Facebook about how my arse is huge and I couldn't walk after being on my rowing machine. She saw this and commented saying something patronising about how it'll get easier in a few weeks....if you keep at it that lonng!!!! I replied explaining I was joking with him and I'd had the rower for months to which she replied "ah, but how often do you use it, haha!!!!" I said "every day". Now she's saying oh good, you'll have to come for a run with me when you're over if you're fit enough!
It probably sounds really petty to you from a diferent perspective but it's driving me nuts! I'm not lazy and I find it really insulting to be accused of it.
Sorry for the rant!