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to never go for a nice family walk in the woods again....

35 replies

Northernlurker · 15/05/2010 19:25

It's been a lovely day here today and dh and I took our lovely girls in to the country - picnic and explore at English Heritage ruin followed by a walk through the woods.

So off we go dh with dd3 in the backpack and me and dd1 and dd2. After a bit dd3 wants to walk so we get her out and she walks and we pick up sticks and admire the stunning bluebells and generally have a lovely time.

Dd3 says once or twice 'I need a poo' - she is 3 and potty trained for 6 months. I offer the great outdoors but she declines and as we've had one poo today I'm not too worried. So we go on till suddenly she stops and squeaks 'Mummy i've DONE a poo!!!'

And she had

a really runny one which ran straight out of knickers and down her legs.

I had babywipes and knickers with me but they were back at the car.

None of us had tissues except for me who had a tiny, tiny scrap of one. Cue frantic searching of the undergrowth for suitable large leaves, dd3 squeaking 'No mummy, no mummy, no , I want BABYWIPES, NO, I need new knickers, no leaves, no leaves' Well let me just tell you - leaves - even large ones aren't all that much cop for removing poo. We practically stripped a bush and just as things were looking up dd1 hisses 'Could you HURRY up , there are civilised people approaching'

And there were - Boden mum and three lovely, non covered in poo daughters.

Dd1 and dd2 set off immediately back to the car - to get the babywipes they said but I think it was because they couldn't stand public poo shame. Dd3 was thrust in a mostly clean but rather stained and smelly state and with a totally naked bottom half back in the backpack and we took off down the path like the hounds of hell were after us. I know they will have known what happened though...the smell was lingering and our shouts of 'More leaves' 'Ugh that's horrid' 'I want my PANTS' probably carried some distance.

So we did the walk back to the car very fast - and were very grateful for the scent of bluebells wafting over us. I was especially pleased when I stuck my hand in my cardigan pocket and pulled out the poo covered tissue which (ever conscious of litter) I had absent mindedly shoved back in there.

Oh it was Not Good and we met a party of elderly ladies out looking at bluebells to and they also looked askance at our sweating faces and semi naked child - who was still saying ' I need my PANTS mummy'

Got back to car and did a proper clean up hurling all things poo infested in to a carrier bag and was just feeling slightly better when I looked up and caught the eye of Boden mum - they obviously walked as fast as us and got back to their shiny car in time to see us with a carrier bag full of crap arguing over who would be bathing the child when we got home.

This too shall pass right?

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RunawayWife · 15/05/2010 19:36

LOL I am sorry to laugh but I wish I had seen you

it will pass I promise

onepieceoflollipop · 15/05/2010 19:37

Oh you poor things. I have an almost 3 year old just potty trained.

Our worse poo incident (in the hope of making you feel better) was with my dd1 at a similar age. We had been invited a a child-friendly, gorgeous wedding. Lovely hotel. Dd stayed up with us til about 10ish. With my dh's encouragement I fully indulged in the free champagne. During the night (2am ish) she developed d&v. We reached a low point when she sat on her potty in the actual bathtub throwing up.

We had a few bits of sick on the carpet but were very honest (after doing our utmost to clear it up) and told the hotel who were fine about it.

We had to miss breakfast and dd kept pooing for hours.

TopsyKretts · 15/05/2010 19:38

Oh, we have all been there!

The 'incidents' get runnier and more urgent in direct proportion to distance from car x non-availability of wipes and clothes

PussinJimmyChoos · 15/05/2010 19:38

Sorry I know I shouldn't but

I feel your pain...they always crap or vom just when you are at your least prepared...I think it is a fundamental rule of motherhood!

MrsHarkness · 15/05/2010 19:38

You're not the first this has happened to and you certainly wont be the last, so you will get over it, and you will even forgive me for laughing at your situation

choufleur · 15/05/2010 19:39

Sorry - but LOL.

Think you ABU though never to go to the woods again. Just make sure you have babywipes and spare pants.

bobbiewickham · 15/05/2010 19:40

So funny.

We've all been there.

Northernlurker · 15/05/2010 19:41

Thing is dh was saying today we had to get in to practice for walking on holiday - we go to Mull every year.

So today we managed to adjust the backpack so it's right for bigger, heavier dd and

discovered we need to take a change of clothes, a carrier bag, baby wipes, portapotty and possibly a small tent with us wherever we go.

I am a mother of three - I should have been more prepared - but oh no i still ended up with poo in my pocket

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PussinJimmyChoos · 15/05/2010 19:42

You need a potette! A lifesaver when out and about with no loos..DS recently used his (discreetly mind!) in the court yard of the Omayyad Mosque in Damascus...

TopsyKretts · 15/05/2010 19:42

I'm getting a Pooffe Of Poo flashback here

emsyj · 15/05/2010 19:43

Well if it makes you feel any better, my DH (who is a fully potty-trained grown-up) once took ill on a train and blacked out, shitting his pants (and ruining his Aquascutum suit trousers in the process). He got taken off in an ambulance (the train had to pull in at a station specially to drag him off) and the hospital staff binned his undies and gave him the shitty trousers to take home in a carrier bag. He suffered no long-term ill effects, but oh I did have a good laugh!

Northernlurker · 15/05/2010 19:43

I'm thinking potette certainly (as well as never taking dd3 out of the house again till she's 17)

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sarah293 · 15/05/2010 19:50

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mumbar · 15/05/2010 20:04

except that been there and worn that t shirt!!!

ShockedBodenMum · 15/05/2010 20:09

So today I take my lovely children out for a walk in the woods and we are confronted by the most terrible site.

A small child of about 3 being walked rather fast through the woods covered in poo!!!

Little Harold stood on a leaf that was covered in poo and it has ruined his shoes
Edith was traumatized as was Prudence.

The smell, oh the smell, I have no Idea what the poor child had been fed on, but I thought the bluebells were going to wither and die.

Now I rushed my children to the car only to come upon this family again and witness the mother taking a poo covered tissue out of her pocket and shoving things in to a plastic bag...
I feel it will be a long time before I can go to the woods again, oh the shock.

MiladyDeWinterOfDiscontent · 15/05/2010 20:12

at "there are civilised people approaching!" - brilliant!

CappuccinoCarrie · 15/05/2010 20:12

You poor thing, I hope you have something strong in the drinks cabinet to help you recover!

We were at a posh wedding last summer and I dd pood on the floor. I only realised when I trod in it

This. Too. Shall. Pass.

VoulezVouzCrochezAvecJACK · 15/05/2010 20:19

I feel your pain. I truly do.

I was in our local park during an MN meetup when DD1 (4.2) announced she needed a wee. As we were on the other side of a lake from the loos and I had (of course) forgotten our potette I took her into the bushes to do a wee.
She did wee, and then started straining and announced (in strangualted voice)
and now I need a poo.
Cue her pooing, me asking fellow MNer to hand me a wipe and a nappysack so I could chuck it in the dog poo bin, and DD1 announcing at full fricking volume
Haha! NO-ONE willknow it was MY poo!

Luckily the only other MNer to turn up was my friend, but still...

Northernlurker · 15/05/2010 20:23

at shockedbodenmum

She did actually roar away from the parking area rather quickly emoticon

Thanks to all for sharing your poo stories. Sadly they have reminded me of two years ago when dd3 (yes the very same) did a runny, squashy poo towards the end of our dear friend's wedding reception - it leaked all over the hotel high chair, dh had to take her back to the room to sort out changing not only her but his shirt as well and I cleaned a highchair in the middle of the wedding reception, sitting alongside more lovely friends whose baby daughter did NOT poo in sympathy but sat and cooed adorably. I then decamped to assist and so we all missed the speeches.
It must be something I'm feeding her....

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Megancleo · 15/05/2010 20:27

This has just made me laugh..and remember how my dd1,14 years ago, got me into a similar predicament at swimming pool and I thought I would never be able to go to our s.pool again! Now we have teenage problems and it was sooo refreshing to remember this little incident and the real shame and embarassment that I felt then-this too will pass!!Thanks for making me smile!

RustyBear · 15/05/2010 20:33

Your DH is probably thankful for small mercies, in that she was not still in the backpack....

I remember at Gatwick when DS was about 18 months old he suddenly & totally without warning produced the most spectacular burst of runny yellow diarrhoea. I scooped him up and made a dash for the nearest loo. There were no changing facilities so I put the mat on the floor and started the clean-up, only to be accosted by a furious cleaner, telling me I 'couldn't do that here, there's a baby change room over the other side'

I pointed out that DS was literally dripping yellow slime everywhere he went, and if she wanted to follow me with her mop and bucket clearing up our trail, she was welcome, but I didn't think the other passengers would appreciate it.

She retreated muttering....

I hope that in the 20 years since, they have managed to put more than one babychange room in at Gatwick.

poppymouse · 15/05/2010 21:24

I had to pause Britain's Got Talent to read the OP to DH with tears of laughter running down my face. Northernlurker you have made my night, if not my otherwise rubbish week. All of this is ahead of me, but I have taken note wedding receptions are a high risk zone.

BeenBeta · 15/05/2010 22:21

Northernlurker - I feel your pain. Why doe sthere always have ot be a perfect parent passing by when this happens.

DS1 used to do this regularly until age 6. I took to carryng large heavy duty plastic freezer bags in my pocket with a selection of wipes and loo roll in it.

Works perfectly as an emergency toilet with necessary cleaning materials yet small enough to carry in a pocket or handbag. Seriously, it was a life saver many times.

Thats my top tip for parenting.

mummytowillow · 15/05/2010 22:39

sorry but thats hilarious! But I feel for you x

sleepingsowell · 15/05/2010 23:16

oh dear what a day, but the agony now is in direct proportion to the fun you will have telling DD3's 'Poo Stories' when she brings her first boyfriend home to meet you

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