Aquavit - GREAT post. I find it incredibly insulting (having gone to private school and then oxbridge and had a very "privileged" background) that people assume that, becasue of my background, academic sucess has been somehow easy.
I have worked and studied pretty much every day since I was about 12 (and now, being a barrister, I still have to study every day - but at least I now get paid for it!!). Did I have to? No, of course not. The vast majority of people from my school did not go to oxbridge. They simply did not work hard enough and did not do well enough in exams. I happened to like studying and decided (yes, decided, even as a teenager with heaps of other things to do in the evenings etc) to work hard to acheive a certain goal.
Obviously, there are plenty of people with similar drive, determination and talent who don't happen to go to oxbridge, who choose to go to another uni or who decide not to go to uni at all. Of course no-one is saying that oxbridge has the monopoly on the "brightest and best".
BUT, it is true to say that the majority of people who go to oxbridge and do well there have had to be driven and hard working and consistent. No amount of money or private schooling or "privileged" background can get round that. No-one buys their way into oxbridge for goodness sake!
Yes, the way the school system works in this country (which is frankly a disgrace) means that you probably have to work even harder to get to oxbridge from a state school. I could write about that for hours (my DH is deputy head of a state school in central London)... But that does not negate the fact that you have to work bloody hard even if you come from a private school.
OP's post was, I think, intended to spark a debate, but I agree with OP in that I am pleased that the fact that some of the cabinet went to oxbridge indicates that they are hard working, driven, consistent etc etc. That is NOT to say that no-one else in the world can be those things, of course.
I find some of the comments on this thread a terrible case of inverse snobbery...