I think as ive posted about this before,it all depends on the attitude of people in the area you live.
I live in Oldham.
I trained as a nursery nurse and specialised in working in social services with families from disadvantaged areas-mostly at that time Asian families.
I left work to start my family as they began school I tried to reapply - I needed a second language,hindu/urdu etc.
My mother worked on Tommyfield market a famous booming market -now it consists of about 6 stalls selling sari fabric and jewellry.
We had about 40 new social housing houses built and the majority were given to immigrants (ahead of other needy families).
There are places that it is not safe to go-women get raped men get attacked.
Outside the job centre there are lots of cultures waiting speaking in their own language -it is intimidating.
I myself rarely go to town alone having been followed by men from other races and pestered by them into taking their phone number etc etc.
There are schools where there are literally no 'English' children and the playground is a hubbub of language.
We as a town are poor yet there are the latest rangerovers parked outside areas in rundown estates.
The beautiful Asian ladies parade by in their saris and sparkly sandals bedecked in yellow gold.
Our supermarket is full of 'immigrant workers' with names I cannot speak of.
This isnt a melting pot of culture this is me and people like me having to conform to other ways of life.
Our Easter vigil was spoilt by people not of our culture playing very loud music and throwing things at us.
This is a scarey way to live.
I embrace the differences,try to build good relationships with my dentist from Africa my dcs paed from India,the Polish Gp
I have friends from around the world-asians who give me beautiful fabric,poles who pass my dc boiled sweets from their home country....the man in the post office tells my dc hindu stories,the Aian optician who lets my dc choose the funkiest frames and then gives me a reduced price,Asian shopkeepers who keep 'best'things to one side for me to try.
But my dc were still on the park when 27 Asian youths wielding tools came to fight.
My dc still cant walk the streets after dark.
My altar server son cant go to church alone because the church is in an Asian area.
My dc attend school out of this catchment,but even so there are children that cant speak any English,teachers that can speak English either.
A lesser person than me might see these changes and think that BNP is the way forward.